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Summary: Highly Recommended
Review: As as a college student who is active in the dating community, I say kudos to the authors of this book. They approach dating from a Christian perspective, but remain down to Earth. They speak the language of young people, and make it a thoroughly enjoyable read instead of like reading a VCR manual. All of my friends are waiting in line to borrow my copy, and i've already give several copies away. YOUTH MINISTERS< this is a great resource for leading a Bible study on dating> (check it out, there's a study guide available, too!)
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Summary: Awesome Book!
Review: As someone who's read a ton of these books (IKDG, I Gave Dating a Chance, Boy Meets Girl, Lady in Waiting, etc etc etc!), this is a book that has a great purpose, but is on the borderline. The problem with the Ten Commandments of Dating is that it's easy (and tempting) for people to fall into thinking that these are a sure-fire way to be okay. They're not. Only relying fully on God can get you anywhere. But the fact is that these ARE important considerations, and when these rules are kept with the right frame of mind/heart/spirit, you're much better off.
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Summary: FINALLY! Some REAL guidelines for the dating scene!
Review: Finally, REAL stuff, REAL life! I've seen, heard about, read and burned too many relationship books that profess to have the formula for finding true love. THE 10 COMMANDMENTS OF DATING doesn't mention the aligning of the planets or how to be popular in a chat room. It does, however, share tried and true guidelines for REAL singles who desire REAL relationships. Learning more about setting clear boundaries early on, fighting fairly and recognizing warning signs, (otherwize known as RED FLAGS) lead me to buy extra copies for some of my single friends. We don't have to continue making the same mistakes. This book didn't teach me that I should act a certain way to attract a mate. It encouraged me to continue developing my own interests, respect myself and those I date and lastly to "take it slow, get to know!"
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Summary: The best, most practical dating book around
Review: Forget all those books that tell you that men and women are from different planets...this is a book for couples on planet Earth who want to have a long-lasting, meaningful relationship. I was completely engrossed by it from the very first page and learned so much from it. This book gives clear, common-sense reasons why so many relationships don't work, and simple, straightforward guidelines for improving your relationships and finding the right one. It also focuses on what to do when you are single (Thou Shalt Get a Life) to make yourself more attractive to others. Some of the guidelines in this book seem a little radical and "politically incorrect", but when you think about them they really make sense. The book is very straightforward and to-the-point with a healthy dose of humor mixed in. Don't "kiss dating goodbye"! Read this book and go about dating the right way! Whether you are a Christian or not I would highly recommend this book to anybody; it should be required reading for anyone who wishes to get married someday. I'm certain that anyone who follows its guidelines closely will experience satisfying results.
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Summary: Life Changing
Review: I selected this book to read after recently getting a divorce and found myself back into the dating world after 15 years. As I read the book I saw all the mistakes I made in selecting my first husband and I am determined to do things right the second time around!
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Summary: STRAIGHT CLOWNIN' ON THE CHRISTIAN TIP!!!
Review: I thumbed thru this book, took it home and laughed out loud while learning the essential, biblically-based truths to ensure successful relationships. The two authors, without being condescending or pious, get their common-sense facts and approaches across with personal experience, actual case studies and scripture. I highly, highly recommend this excellent book to those who are saved and seeking a healthy, equally-yoked mate. EXCELLENT!!!
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Summary: Finally, a non-insulting Christian 'dating' book for all!
Review: I've read my share of 'dating' books, most of the time after a relationship has ended in flames (this time was no exception). I've also read a number of 'Christian' advice books about dating, most of which range from the banal (sex is for marriage) to the ridiculous (don't show physical affection ever!), without preaching. I picked this book up in a spate of post-relationship depression and quickly it helped me to identify many of my frequent mistakes.It mentions God, but it doesn't limit the expression 'don't be unevenly yoked' to 'don't date non-Christians'; it includes things along the lines of 'don't be a Mother Theresa in your relationship'. It also identifies one of the mistakes of relationships as being, if you can believe it, 'praying together'--correctly identifying the stupid over-spiritualization of honest to goodness human infatuation that I've seen too often in relationships. (And have been guilty of.)I read it cover to cover in one sitting at the bookstore. (And wished I had read it *before* I wasted my most recent relationship.) It is also 'worldly' enough to allow me to feel that I can recommend it to any of my friends (Christian or non-Christian).
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Summary: Solid, time-tested dating advice...
Review: The Bible doesn't specifically say much about how to "date" in the modern sense
but it does
give boundaries and guidelines for how to select someone and how to build a relationship that, once blessed, will last.
This book is great. Commandments like... "Thou Shalt Get a Life" and
"Thou Shalt Not Play House" really emphasize how God's intention for a relationship to begin is totally opposite of what the secular community believes is ok. Getting a life, developing your own character before marriage and not co-habitating before the wedding day are really examples of how God's plan for marriage takes time to build and the "world's" way is rushed and focuses on instant gratification. This book will challenge you to examine your own dating relationships and how you can improve them by going God's way and not the self directed path which almost always fizzles out. Pick it up!!
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Summary: Highest marks for 10 Commandments
Review: The book was good in many respects. For me the 10th "commandment" was the most useful part. The book as a whole has some very good (but usually common sense) information, and usually uses statistics semi-fairly. But, I also have a few problems with the book. 1. It strongly preaches (actually "commands") that there should be no sex before marriage. For instance it advises those who live together before marriage to "stop having sex and move out." And, it further states "these laws are not recommendations or suggestions." While I have no problem with an individual deciding that sex should be withheld until the appropriate time (including waiting until after marriage), I disagree with strict universal rules. 2. The book repeatedly refers to the need for chemistry, but then doesn't comment on how their rules can keep the chemistry alive and avoid having the dating relationship become a friendship lacking in chemistry. Chemistry and physical intimacy (not necessarily sex) are requirements in a dating relationship. But, lack of physical intimacy really requires additional feedback of attraction, feelings, etc. Physical intimacy is a form of communication that must be replaced if omitted from a relationship. 3. The book perpetuates the stereotypes that men want sex and women don't, that women want marriage and men don't, and (my personal favorite myth) that men will "lose respect" for a woman if she "gives in" to his sexual appetite. Despite common belief, the sexual revolution is still quite alive (safe sex PLEASE) and many women love sex while many men yearn to be married. Overall: The book does have some good food for thought. But, it will be most useful for people to use as a shield against sex in a relationship: "See, the book agrees with me." Not a bad reason to buy the book if it agrees with your personal philosophy.
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Summary: Awesome Guide to Dating - Told in our vernacular!
Review: This book is dating told from a Christian perspective, but it is good for anyone! I recommended it to my roommates, and they loved it too! If more people dated using these guidelines, there would definately be more healthy relationships out there! Its easy to read....if you don't like to read, don't worry. Its told using illustrative stories that bring it all home! Buy it and you won't regret it!
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