And the Bride Wore White: The Seven Secrets to Sexual Purity

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Summary: Terrible Attitude
Review: This book was filled with instances where it is more important for the woman to be chaste than the man. Even the title itself implies this. One young man slept with many women, and then when asked about who he would marry, he said "I want my wife to be pure." Instead of pointing out the complete hypocrisy of what this guy said, the author just pointed out that men will expect you to be pure (even if they aren't). This type of gender stereotyping is extremely harmful for both men and women.
I also find it upsetting that every instance of sexuality outside of marriage is "terrible." The bad parts of premarital sex are always mentioned, and nothing else. Some people just can't get it through their heads that a couple may truly love each other and wait a long time to have sex, and it may be a good thing for both of them (even the woman!), even if they aren't married. Girls, if you want to read a book explaining the many ways that women's sexuality has been oppressed (and continues to be oppressed), and a bunch of Bible thumping propaganda, then you might like this book.

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Summary: Very Helpful, Practical Advice
Review: This book will help anyone who desires to remain pure until their wedding. Dannah gives good, practical advice that I was able to use immediately in my relationship. It helped me to see my mistakes as a process to purity and gave me the chance to reflect in the sections she says to, "Write your story." If you are truly seeking to be pure on your wedding this is an excellent book to help get you there.