Visits With Violet: How to Be Happy for 100 Years

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Summary: Emotional Intelligence in Old Age
Review: I found this an exceptionally moving memoir, first for the story of Violet, and second for the narrator's own personal journey. Because the reader can identify with the narrator's vulnerability, one feels even more receptive to the wisdom imparted by Violet. Violet is a homespun sage who has made the most of her varied experiences to love life. At heart, the book asks the question, how can we love life in the midst of deep pain? I was touched by the narrator's honesty and informed by the insights about relationships, aging, and just plain coping. The book is also a picture of an earlier time with lessons to be drawn for our own, heartwarming and at the same time profound.

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Summary: Interesting history and some funny stories
Review: I must first admit that I am a bit biased (Violet is my great grandmother). Having said that, the book is good, not great. There are many stories throughout the book which do have an interesting historical perspective of things. Having lived through this entire century and having a better memory than most anyone I have ever known (she is still razor sharp on recalling events back when she was 4 or 5) she is able to talk vividly about how different situations affected the average American back in the twenties, the great depression, and many other events during this century. Give it a look if you see it in the book store. Definitely worth at least a curiosity glance.

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Summary: Lessons in living a happy life
Review: This is an inspiring book about a "lady" and how she has coped with life's trials and tribulations during her 100 years of life. In contrast, it is also an insightful memoir of the author and how he has dealt with and attempted to overcome similar situations. His admiration for his subject is revealed as he tries to learn what has kept Violet a happy, go with the flow kind of person all of her life. Violet's story has brought to light some lessons for life that can be used by everyone. Unquestionably a good read.