How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed

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Summary: Fantastic
Review: This book is fabulous for lots of reasons, but the main reason is that it helps men (particularly the dreaded nice guy) take control of and responsibility for his sex life. I have spent the past several years ending up in a virtual sexual, dates from hell wasteland. Now, is it because I am really bad-looking, uneducated, boorish, offensive or totally misogynistic? No. The reason is that I have been trying to be, and shape myself into, what I felt women wanted- all those qualities that women talk about gushingly in magazine articles- sensitive, kind, dependable, smart, funny, etc.... I grew up in my relationships with women thinking that brains (I have two advanced Masters and am working on a PhD), money (which I luckily make a lot of), and a whole host of other qualities would just make me the ideal man. I guess I figured that the female companionship thing would just come as a matter of course, that it would take care of itself. But, as someone said in another review, those qualities may be great. But, that's not what turn a woman on or makes a woman desire you. It's not what causes a woman to respond. This book, along with another one I bought called 'How to Suceed with Women' really kicked my butt. Which is okay. I needed it. It reoriented me into what I was doing wrong, and really showed me that the best way sometimes to get a woman to walk towards you is to be totally willing to walk away from her. Seems simple. But, this book opened my eyes. I am not sure I would try everything in this book, but I do think that it can help a 'nice guy,' or a guy that continually is told that he is just seen as a friend. There is very little about dating that is fair, even with the most egalitarian-minded women. As a matter of fact, I find someone women my age (late 20's) as more spoiled than ever. If you want to succeed and get what you want in your relationships, particularly with some of the women out there who will gladly let you do everything for them, you need an edge. This will given it to you, or at least sharpen it up. Ross gives women virtually no quarter, which is something I respect. And believe me, once you've tried it, women will respect you for not letting them pull their BS on you either- even if you do frustrate them at the same time. A great book written by a guy who understands how men think, and explains his tactics to you in a way that a guy will clearly understand. Buy it! PS- If you suffer from the nice guy syndrome, also look into buying 'Nice Guys Don't Get Laid.' If you have ever been told you were a nice guy, this book will also set you straight about how bad that can be sometimes.