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Summary: Some Hard-Hitting Dynamics for Getting Laid
Review: First off, this book is NOT for everyone. A key benefit of this book, is it certainly does expose some of women's "snotty" behavior for what it really is. Enlightenment is the first step to success. There is no doubt about it. It will take some real confidence and courage to SMOOTHLY pull off some of the "get the girl into bed" strategies in this book. But if you CAN pull them off smoothly, you will get laid, period. If you are a perceptive individual, you can glean far more from this book than what is there. If you have no earthly idea how women think or operate on their deeper levels, you may not get much from this book.Initially, Jeffries goes through some general methods of meeting women and getting their attention and curiosity (a CRUCIAL necessity in ANY seduction). He states how imperative it is to weed out the garbage from the gems. Why waste your time on a woman who you will go nowhere with anyway? There are plenty more out there who WILL. Jeffries also explains some confidence building techniques. However, if you are a guy who is SERIOUSLY lacking in confidence, this book may not be the right one for you to start out with. The real meat of the book is in the "get the girl into bed" strategies outlined in the last several chapters of the book. It is also the place where the men will be separated from the boys, so to speak. These techniques are based on NLP and a certain "hypno-seduction", if you will. If you can get a woman into a quiet place alone, and apply these techniques with good congruency, you will get the girl into bed. The key to making these techniques work is congruency, and CONFIDENCE. But applied properly, a woman's kinesthetic and sexual senses will be so "overwhelmed" that I don't see how she could NOT sleep with you! And I can say this from firsthand experience. But to put it bluntly, you got to have the balls to do it smooth. I suspect most men probably won't or don't. In short, the techniques will work properly, if you do, and that's a big 'IF'.
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Summary: Some Hard-Hitting Dynamics for Getting Laid
Review: First off, this book is NOT for everyone. A key benefit of this book, is it certainly does expose some of women's "undesirable" behavior for what it really is. Enlightenment is the first step to success. There is no doubt about it. It will take some real confidence and courage to SMOOTHLY pull off some of the "get the girl into bed" strategies in this book. But here's the good part: if you CAN pull them off smoothly, you WILL get laid, period. If you are a perceptive individual, you can glean far more from this book than what is there. If you have absolutely no earthly idea how women think or operate on their deeper levels, you may not get much from this book at this stage. But when you ARE ready... Initially, Jeffries goes through some general methods of meeting women and getting their attention and curiosity (a CRUCIAL necessity in ANY seduction). He states how imperative it is to weed out the garbage from the gems. Why waste your time on a woman who you will go nowhere with anyway? There are plenty more out there who WILL. Jeffries also explains some confidence building techniques. However, if you are a guy who is SERIOUSLY lacking in confidence, this book may not be the right one for you to start out with. Otherwise, you will find the confidence builders to be both unique and effective. The real meat of the book is in the "get the girl into bed" strategies outlined in the last several chapters of the book. It is also the place where the men will be separated from the boys, so to speak. These techniques are based on NLP and a certain "hypno-seduction", if you will. If you can get a woman into a quiet place alone, and apply these techniques with good congruency, you will get the girl into bed. The key to making these techniques work is congruency, and CONFIDENCE. And applied properly, a woman's kinesthetic and sexual senses will be so "overwhelmed" that I don't see how she could NOT sleep with you! And I can say this from firsthand experience. But to put it bluntly, you got to have the balls to do it smooth. I suspect most men probably won't or don't. Ross has certainly come a long way since the writing of this book as far as the seduction technology goes. But on the whole, this book can make an excellent primer to the world of very fast and effective Speed Seduction; something EVERY man should know. In short, the techniques in this book will work properly if you do, and that's a big "IF." If you're an intellectual turnip with balls the size of peas, DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK. It is for the SERIOUS seducer who is ready to DIVE INTO the serious world of getting laid fast and ONLY fast. Leave slow seduction to the chumps who insist on traditional dating, blowing money, who never get laid, and get blown off instead of *blown* by women!
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Summary: To Be Great Is To Be Misunderstood
Review: I first noticed Ross Jefferies on Phil Donahue many years ago. I remember the women in the audience were boiling over with anger at this guy. Phil Donahue had this demeanor of "I can't believe this guy". What I heard Ross say was true, although delivered in way calculated to feed more response from the audience. Have you ever heard something and somewhere inside you recognize genius and find yourself going...Huhhhmmmmm! There must be something that he does that is getting results, in order to stimulate such emotional reactions. After all, if it had no power no one would object to it. This book is Ross's first work to share on a mass level what he had learned at that time. He has much better work but this book is still bursting with great information and laughs. You would agree that one of the best ways to discover, realize and learn is to laugh it in. Would'nt you? This is a good introduction to Ross's style and practical strategies. His early work comes from a place of "doing to". Now , he is kinder and gentler "being with". As you will soon discover his work will work for anyone except two types of people. Those who are lazy, and those who are less than bright. After you have read this book and studied with Ross Jefferies, the collateral Benefits you discover yourself opening up to and receiving are in all areas of life. Areas such as career, finances,social interaction, physical and mental wellbeing, spirituality and yes, even relating with family. Now thats what I call a Bonus. Ross Jefferies is the utmost authority on teaching communication skills in a way that works for you. He has stood on the shoulders of giants in NLP and Ericksonian Induction, synthesized what works, trashed what doesn't, and wrapped and packed it in a way that you enjoy learning. I can think of no greater teacher of advanced NLP type communication skills. I am indebted to him for what he has taught me and how far it has helped take me. DRB
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Summary: Wanna TRY it for a change?
Review: I realize this book might be a bit controversial, but I ask the reviewers on this list: Have you guys actually TRIED the techniques in the real world? To me, this would be the ONLY true measure of the books quality. Reading some of the reviews, it's painfully obvious which "reviewers" haven't even tried doing what the book says (most haven't), and are giving their opinions from a COMPLETELY theoretical perspective. This is understandable, since the book doesn't give you the classical, comfortable dating advice so popular elsewhere, so people either reject it without giving it a second chance, or feel uncomfortable with it. Personally, I lost nothing by reading this book, since I got it for free when it was being given away for free on one of Ross Jeffrie's websites. The book deals with an issue most dating books either sidestep or don't deal with in detail: that you have to get a woman TURNED ON in order to take her to bed. I've tried some of the stuff in it (or at least some of the principles), and I can tell you women drool when you use the stuff on them (properly), and basically by changing your attitude towards them, they view you in a completely different light. The principles are more important than the specific techniques. I also tried some of Ross's later, more advanced SS stuff, which by the way is much better than this book, and again I was surprised at just how well women reacted. I'm in no way trying to promote Ross's products, (which I consider seriously overpriced), I'm just pointing out that this kind of information has to be tried out before you can judge it - if you're a bit scared at first, just play around with it a bit with your female friends and people you already know. Don't be just another theoretical philosopher who reads tons of books on dating and then gives their "expert opinion" without even bothering to try out what they learned.
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Summary: It's worth a look.
Review: I would recommed this book. Not in the heartiest sense but I think there are some important lessons in here. You may be worried about the implications of manipulation but I assure you that it can't possibly be any worse than what exists out there for women to read about manipulating men (The Rules, The Art Of War For Lovers, etc.). Women are big offenders in the "gender war" as well. The only thing that I regret is that there aren't more books out there similar to this, only seriously written and more in depth. This one comes across as a get-rich-quick scheme and the grammar and structure is generally shabby, but is has some valuable tips for all you nice guys out there who may be just a bit too nice; something that I don't believe women necessarily want. As a matter of fact, I don't believe women actually know what they want as much as they think they do; they are highly inconsistent beings. Take the good advice you can get from this book, such as "Make no excuses for my desires as a man" and "I move through the world without apology." Skip chapter 10. You can read this book and still be a nice guy. You may not actually get laid but the few tricks that are of use in this slim volume will at least put you on the path towards greater confidence. And isn't that what women are always saying they find appealing?
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Summary: Great Beginning
Review: If you dont feel like this book wont work for you, your probably right. This book is weak stand alone, but with the rest of his materials, which you can find on his website, You'll find your greatest fansaties start to look like child's play. If youd rather not spend the extra money on his other materials, you might as well skip all of the 3rd section, as with such a vague description of what to do, you'll nearly never succeed. However the first 2 chapters alone are worth the price of the book. I dont really have time to go in depth with this, but all i can say is pick the book up. Really, even if you dont like it, its cheap, and I guarantee youll learn at least 2 or 3 things that will make the cost more than worth it.
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Summary: Doesn't make sense
Review: It's not that the book wasn't quite as good as I had expected. No, it was pathetic. I have no use for obscure pick-up lines and Ross Jeffries's success stories. Maybe this book will give a complete jerk something of a start. Maybe it can help one improve from three conquests a week to six conquests a week. I don't know. What I do know is that it won't help an average guy like you and me who succeeds to get a woman now and then, but who needs to improve radically upon the number and quality of his relationships, and - above all - who wants to get control of women instead of being pushed around by them. I agree completely with the female reader from San Francisco - Ross's techniques, as described in this book, DO LEAVE WOMEN IN CONTROL. The advice repeated by far most often in the book is: "if she does so-and-so, dump her immediately and throw away her number". Well, do you want to pay money for being taught how to run away? I guess you'd rather want to learn how to nail those chicks. As it is, the book should be titled "How to Get the Women Who Desire You into Bed". If you have read Ross's newsletters that are available for free on his website and expect to find something different in this book - the real stuff, you know, knowledge that would enable you to get the women you desire into bed - you'll be bitterly disappointed. The book's got no clear content. First, it's very short - 88 pages, not counting the advertisement. In a normal print and without all those empty and half-empty pages, it'd probably be only a half of it. On those 88 pages, Ross is jumping from subject to subject, giving you small pieces of unrelated information. You'll feel like having 50 pieces of a 1000-piece puzzle. You have no chance of putting together the whole picture - or even a part of it, for that matter. One thing that has probably awaken your interest is the claim that the first part of the book is dedicated to confidence building. Well, sort of. That means actually a few pages of chit chat and a most primitive NLP exercise. Exercises of this kind will take a long time before you'll see any results. (If you are to get any results at all.) Ross Jeffries is the world champion in making big words. Very, very big words. When someone throws such "guaranteed overwhelming success" claims all around him as Ross does, he better deliver something of real value. This book made me cautious about Ross Jeffries, to say the very least. Maybe he wrote the book just to get women's attention. Some advice in this book is indeed useful to know. If you can find it in a library or something - by all means, read it. I would have given it three stars, were it titled something like "Some Tips on Dating". But because of the false promises implied in its title and Ross's big talk about it, it'll get no more than two. I don't like being cheated.
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Summary: Not nearly as good as his other products
Review: Let me tell you this. Ross Jeffries' Speed Seduction products are amazing. This book is NOT. If you want to get laid, get his home study course, (do a web search on Speed Seduction to find the site), or go to one of his seminars. This book is VERY outdated, and extremely incomplete.
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Summary: Not worth the money
Review: Perhaps not the best book I've ever read regarding the material. The section regarding hypnosis is slightly far fetched. Somewhat out of date, yet nonetheless effective and insightful.
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Summary: Much Better Than R. Don Steele's Nonsense
Review: Ross knows his stuff. I had originally read this book and was turned off as it seems manipulative and abusive towards women in general. So I can agree with some of the reviews that are negative. I then caught wind of Rosses Home Study Course and a few other products he has come out with in later years since this was originally written. Wow what a difference. The newer technology is about learning to talk with feelings. Feel the emotion yourself as you allow the person you are with to feel it. I am hot and thirsty. I would like a drink of water. is a fact about thirst and wanting a drink Have you ever been working on a hot summer day? When the sun just seems to beat down on your back? Sweat doesn't even materialize on your clothes as it is just so hot. You feel this feeling in your throat. You mouth is rather dry. Can you feel that? It beckons you to get some water now. This feeling invites you to imagine a cool glass of sparkling water sitting right in front of you. It looks extremely refreshing. You can just sense how much more energized and alive you will feel once you quench your dry mouth. You feel extremely motivated to have a drink of water right now. The above example is more about experiencing thirst Read the book but realize there is a lot more than what is presented. You will then see some real value in what is written.
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