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What Should I Do with My Life?

What Should I Do with My Life?

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Rating: 2 stars
Summary: Don't look to it for the answers
Review: Trying to find your calling? Want more happiness and fulfillment in your life? You won't find it in this book. Bronson interviews a bunch of people who, for the most part, don't know what they want to do, and are still searching blindly.

I have to suggest "Finding Your North Star" by Martha Beck for those who want more but aren't sure what. Then you can read this book for further motivation. But Bronson's book doesn't give t you those answers.

The answers to the question, "What should I do with my life" lies in your heart, not this book. And Bronson doesn't tell you how to listen to your heart.

And if there is any grammatical problems with this review, blame Amazon.com.

Rating: 3 stars
Summary: The answers to your questions can only come from with-in.
Review: I find it interesting that many of the people who posted negative reviews of this book did so because they claim the book failed to give them the "answers" and/or "inspiration" that they were looking for. What they fail to consider is that they may have misunderstood the purpose of this book from the get-go. The book, in my opinion, is meant to be a sociological study of how random individuals struggle with the question of "What should I do with my life." I don't believe it was meant to be a self-help instruction manual or a "Chicken Soup for the Soul" type compilation of motivational memoirs.
Mr. Bronson quite clearly states that the purpose of his book is "to raise our awareness of the process by which some people have struggled with the choice and figured out their life" and "to tune our ears to the nuances, and recognize shades of ourselves in the stories, so we can be more aware on our own journey." I believe the author has succeeded on both points.
There are plenty of books out there that are meant to inspire through the telling of success stories - this book was not meant to be one of them.
Sometimes it's much more helpful to recognize the mistakes that we make in our own lives when we see those same mistakes being made by others.

The point that this book is trying to make is the very point that most of the negative posters here have failed to grasp; namely that you will not find the answers you're searching for in a book, and you won't find them by attempting to emulate the success of others. The answer to the question "What should I do with my life" can only be found within yourself.
By sharing the stories of others who struggle with that same question, Po Bronson has succeeded in removing some of the feelings of isolation that those of us "in flux" feel.
That in itself is makes this book a worthwhile read despite the so-so writing that others have mentioned.
If you're looking for answers, look in the mirror.

Rating: 1 stars
Summary: Need help? Keep looking!
Review: This book does not attempt to answer what you should do with your life, but instead offers a bunch of profiles of people that have failed in finding what to do with their lives. In the end, you've gained the knowledge that there are people in worst situations than you are and you are not alone. Here's my question: so what?

Why do you even care there are people doing worst than you? Does it actually make you feel better to know you are the best of the worst? Do you feel better that you are reading this review? You should, because there are people out there that can't afford a computer or know what the internet is. I never understand why people feel better after looking at other people's miseries. Don't compare with the worst and just do your best.

And what is this "support" I hear from other readers? Why do you feel a sense of support after reading it? Surely, you didn't think you were the only one with such a problem?! The nerve! Who do you think you are? You think you are so unique that you are the only one facing this problem? If you think this way, you really have to get over yourself, first. You are not unique. You are not irreplaceable. If you die today, the world will continue revolving. And yes, there are other people dealing with exactly the same problem as yours. Actually, if it happens you are alone with whatever you are facing, consider yourself lucky. That means you're a freak. And that is a good thing. Freaks make lots of money by exploiting their uniqueness (ie. Micheal Jackson). But most of us are no Jackos. One Jacko is enough if you ask me.

So there, you don't need this book at all. And the money you saved is always a good thing.

Rating: 4 stars
Summary: Very inspiring and thought provoking
Review: Several of the prominent reviews of this book seemed incredibly unfair and I wish to present a counter-opinion. I've read well over half the book, and aside from possibly two stories, I haven't found the whiny, white over-educated gen-Xers living on trust funds. In fact, the demographic spread in the book I read runs the gamut. The book never promised or pretended to have a pat answer for its title question, but is instead a collection of stories about how various people, including the author, tackled the question. Were it simply a collection of do-it-yourself success stories, then it would become what these online critics accuse it of - a saccharine menagerie of whiny white dot-commers with Bronson smugly claiming that he found his calling writing about them. Yet it fails to achieve exactly what they accuse it of, and they still criticize it. I wonder what they were expecting when they read it.

Although there are no answers, there are insights. Yes, many of the subjects stumble and/or fail, but their stumblings and failings provide as much insight into the process as the successes, if not even more, because so many of us are at exactly that level, or have been there and turned back. I think the best part about the book is the exploration of that grey area between following personal fulfillment and chasing a bona fide pipe dream, and of having the courage to face life without a pat answer. If this is a question that interests you, this is a book that is at least a worthwhile read.

Rating: 1 stars
Summary: A BAD JOKE - MORE FICTION THAN FACT
Review: Several contributors to this book -- the ones who haven't been duped by Bronson into joining the shameless publicity-fest -- have complained that their stories as told by Bronson are fictional, at best. Reading this ridiculous I'm-so-great-everyone-else-is-sadly-confused excuse for a book, I believe the naysayers. I also know three of the contributors, and I could not in the least reconcile the facts of their lives with Bronson's presentation of them.

For instance, Lori Gottlieb had been a successful journalist and author of a national best-seller, the memoir "STICK FIGURE: A DIARY OF MY FORMER SELF" BEFORE Bronson interviewed her. Yet somehow he fails to mention that she was the author of two books and had written hundreds of articles for national publications --that she had found this successful career path -- after leaving medical school. Instead, he presents a story of a woman in search of a career merely to suit his purposes -- to fit into the theme of his book. But if a reader were to do a Google search on Gottlieb, the reader would marvel at the difference between the I-don't-know-what-to-do-with-my-life woman Bronson describes and the accomplished professional writer she actually is. It's not that Bronson didn't have this information when he was researching his book: in fact, he knows Gottlieb, and he had been interviewed for Gottlieb's second book, "INSIDE THE CULT OF KIBU: AND OTHER TALES OF THE MILLENNIAL GOLD RUSH," so clearly he was aware of her status as a well-known writer and failed to disclose this very relevant information in his book.

Two other friends were made to sound like clueless airheads and pathetic lost souls, when both are actually quite accomplished and extremely articulate.

The New York Times panned this book, and for good reason. The Times doesn't know about Bronson's loose line between fact and fiction or lack of journalistic ethics, but based simply on its value, the Times reviewer gave Bronson's book a resounding thumbs-down. During the dot-com era that Bronson made a career writing about, the phrase "drinking the Kool-Aid" was used to describe otherwise smart individuals who blindly joined the cult. Seems a lot of folks are drinking the Kool-Aid and buying into Bronson's cult, but for those who want to stay sober, the New York Times is particularly illuminating.

Rating: 3 stars
Summary: Finding our "calling"
Review: Po Bronson's book, "What Should I Do With My Life?" is a good read. The book includes intriguing narratives of 50 random individuals, from all walks of life, seeking the ultimate question of life: What is our purpose, here, on this earth? What is our calling? What do we need to do in order to be true to ourselves?

For those who wish to read of others experiences in life, insofar as seeking the answers to what we are meant to do, this book is quite resourceful and enjoyable. After all, it is in most of us to wonder what truly makes us content with life - so what a better way to embark on the journey by reading thoughts of those who have travelled down similar roads of our own.

Granted, some stories are more interesting than others, but all contain worthwhile and thought-provoking questions for us to ponder over.

Don't expect to find answers in this book - at least not in the form of "what to do" list - but rather view this book as a tool and a resource to guide us in our own decision making. Ask yourself the same questions that are being asked in the book and you might find your own answers.

Rating: 1 stars
Summary: Such twaddle!
Review: I could tell from the other low rated reviews, and from the title of one of Po's other books, "The First 20 million is the hardest" where his head is, and how useless anything he could say could be!

Rating: 1 stars
Summary: Upside Down
Review: Po Bronson is a publisher and a familiar person in Silicon Valley, and he has edited together some stories of people who somehow told him more about themselves than anyone needs to know.Neither they nor he have the answer, it seems, to the question in the title, because one can't find the answer in the stories of other people or the salads of editors. Especially when the stories do not form an oral history of anything. They are not teaching stories. They are like newspaper clippings. His book is a song of himself, told in adjectives. Turn back the clock to the nineteenth century. Read Twain and Crane. You'll get closer to answers that have worked.

Rating: 1 stars
Summary: Very shallow people with very shallow lives
Review: I found this book to be very boring and provided very little insight. Most of the stories are from very shallow self-centered Gen-Xers. Most of the life stories involve changes that took place in the last several months so it does not provide any real perspective on life choices and effects on a lifetime. Po is not a very good writer. He is boring and very impressed with himself. Don't waste your money or your time.

Rating: 1 stars
Summary: THIS BOOKS ...
Review: TO ANY PERSON THINKING ABOUT BUYING THIS BOOK. SAVE YOUR TIME AND MONEY. IT WAS A TOPIC OF GREAT SERIOUSNESS FOR ME AND I PLOWED THROUGH IT. ONLY TO FIND THAT IN THE END, THEIR WERE NO ANSWERS. ONLY STORIES THAT WERE OF NO HELP IN ANY WAY.

ALSO THE AUTHOR TAKES WAY TO MUCH TIME, TO MAKE THE SIMPLEST POINT, OR PAGES AND NO POINT AT ALL,JUST RAMBLING.

I READ A LOT OF BOOKS. THIS RATES AS ONE OF THE WORST.


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