Rating: Summary: An in-depth exploration. Review: Steven R. Covey's book "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" asserts that habits are powerful elements in our lives that can pull us either toward or away from a fulfilling life. Rather than turning effectiveness, balance, growth and interdependence into an unattainable set of ideals, he presents them as a lifestyle, partners to the 7 habits that are genuine expressions of one's self. One interesting distinction he makes is the difference between "being" and "seeing," that someone's opinion of their life has little to do with the way they are in reality. I enjoyed this comparison, as it illuminates the value of having a system like the "habits" that supports people in living from their actual strengths rather than from their self-perceived limitations. "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" is an exploration into what is possible for human beings. I also suggest that anyone interested in expanding their awareness and effectiveness in all areas of life read "Working on Yourself Doesn't Work," by Ariel & Shya Kane, a simple, fun, direct and powerful guide to being present to your life in each moment.
Rating: Summary: Should have been called: "Personal Development For Dummies"! Review: How anyone could benefit from this book is beyond me! Covey misunderstands key concepts of the psychological theories that he uses, and the "preachings" of integrity and personal values should bring nothing new to a fairly normal person. "Don't lie, or people will eventually lose trust in you" is as groundbreaking and informative as writing "Don't bang your head repeatedly against the wall, or you will end up with a headache"!! This mix of Kant'ian and judeo-christian philosophy with popular psychology and painfully obvious common sense just doesn't cut it! Poor job, Stephen!!!
Rating: Summary: Great Insight... Read Objectively.. Review: The 7 habits is a timeless collection of values which can be traced back to early religious teachings and the protestant work ethic. I'm not a big personal development reader, I was assigned this book in a management course, but I think reading the 7 habits can benefit everyone. The fundamentals behind the 7 habits have been in place for a very long time. Covey recognized these fundamentals and puts them to use in to an consolidated reference. I don't agree with all that Covey says, I really think he tries to bring in too much spirituality in to this book. Also, some of his examples are all too rosy. How come there are no examples of failures? Surely he hasn't had a 100% success rate as a consultant. We can learn much if not more from failures than successes. I still think this is a great book but the reader needs to look at this book objectively. Too many people read this book and follow Covey blindly without taking the time to analyze his examples and concepts.
Rating: Summary: It's about Values Review: I first read this book, at the recomendation of a Manager who was obsessed with the Franklin-Covey organizer system. And although, part of that system is represented in the book, I found that aspect to be the weakest part of this book. How so? Effectiveness does not stem from what you do, it stems from what is important to you. What you value. Once you know what you value, you are able to set your priorities about things appropriately. After reading this book several times, I began to realise that it wasn't going to help me get any better at using my organizer, because I already had a system for getting in touch with my deepest values -- I've kept a journal for years. This book is an important reference, and I'd like to read it again. One of the "Values" that Steven Covey demonstrates, is the persistence to find solutions which meet all of our values. (Such as balance of work and family), rather than mechanically setting a priority and blindly following it out. This book is well written and is very approachable. Covey does not hide the influence his faith makes upon him, and his approach of staying "values-centered" is a wonderful way to take "spiritual values" into the secular arena. One observation that I've made about people who have read this book, is that many have read this book in the spirit of "Yeah, I read that, and there's some truth to it." But it seems that the hype that this book has received over the last decade has washed out it's message somehow. It takes real courage to try to integrate all of one's values. To develop one's self and life to combine values, rather than choose values. That's a rather deep point, and that's why I read this book again from time to time.
Rating: Summary: Great book but workshop is better Review: About the book ----------------- The book is NOT just a description of the habits. It has excesises, examples, etc.I worked on all the excersises patiently through out my workshop and I realised so many things about myself. You also learn lot of other things like "Three person learning" etc whick again look like common sense. My favorite is the "First things first" habit. The way its explained in this book is amazing. Buy the book and if possible attend a workshop.
Rating: Summary: A must read Review: This is probably one of the all-time modern classics. If you read this book and follow Covey's recommendations, your life WILL improve... beyond your imagination! Covey is a brilliant writer, he captures your attention and manages to keep it throughout the book. He provides you -the reader- with plenty of examples, both personal and professional and manages to inspire and motivate you at the same time. This is a book that MUST be read by everyone.. it is an inspiration at all levels for anybody who is serious about improving the quality of their lives. It is a book for people who are not simply content to go from day to day, but wish to experience life at its best.
Rating: Summary: A Bill of Judeo-Christian Goods Review: This book poses as a guide to personal efficacy but is too deeply colored by Covey's religious views. Throughout it he speaks of "correct principals" which our clearly his Christian values. There are many great authors out there who have covered this ground with greater depth and made it more useful to the reader without trying to convert you to a their personal value system (I recommend Lou Tice and Albert Bandura). This book may not help you be more effective, but it will definitely teach you how to become more like Steve Covey.
Rating: Summary: Stating the obvious Review: Yes these are all things that everyone should probably know and be able to assert in their own lives every day but the fact is that we get into a slump and sometimes just need a swift kick in the pants. This is what this book has done for me and I would recommend it to any one else. You are not going to get anything more from it than you expect. The people that gripe about the book are the exact people that he is talking about with the personality ethics. They are the people that want to skip the steps in the middle to reap the benefits at the end and you can't do that it you are truly looking deep in yourself and analyzing your character. The book is exactly what he tells you that it is going to be at the front, facts taht should be blantently obvious to all of us but the fact is that they aren't and sometimes we need to be reminded.
Rating: Summary: Old Truths Made NEW! Review: I almost shouldn't write this review since we all know about the book and what it says. In fact, the title has become proverbial, and has been ripped-off many times. And Dr. Covey's son's book "Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens" has been parodied on the Simpsons (episode AABF22), which is the best compliment that can be paid to anything. This book is any easy read, and I recommend that the younger the reader, the better it will be for them and everyone. There is no mumbo-jumbo, and if a child can work his way through "Alice in Wonderland," then he or she would be ready for this book. It is easier to learn while young, since you have the years of keeping up the habit working for you. Lenin said that if you give him a child, he would make a Bolshevik for life. That truth also works in the opposite direction. Raise a youth in the truth, and he will be true his entire life. I think several things set this book apart from other self-help books. First, this book had a strong spiritual under-grindings. Every page bleeds light. I think this spiritual aspect comes from Dr. Covey's Christian faith, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. This faith keeps him from falling into intimidation or other superficial "techniques" of getting things done. Covey advocates a total overhaul of the soul in order to get your life into order. Christianity advocates repentance, which is merely change for the better, and Cover advocates a type of Business Management repentance. Secondly, Covey has a circular system. You have seen that "hourglass in a circle" diagram that is the visual depiction of Covey's philosophy. In a word, I would say that Covey's philosophy embraces a type of a circular renewal with progressive. For whatever reason, Western thought embraces a linear progression, while Eastern thought is circular. The Jews have managed to bridge the gap between the two, with linear progression from Creation to Abraham to Moses, while maintaining the circularity with the Holy Days at the temple. Cove describes this process of combining the circular with the progressive in his "upward spiral" diagram. C. S. Lewis described in chapter 25 of "The Screwtape Letters," that the progressive coupled with the circular as a type of divine genius. You have the novelty of progress coupled with assurance of habit. Thirdly, Covey focuses on habits. He wants all of these principles to become engrained by force of repetition. This idea goes back to Aristotle, and was elucidated by Thomas Aquinas. However, all philosophical ramblings and mumbo-jumbo aside, this idea of habits is common-sensical. Habit is a force of will, and is the way we do things such as memorize phone numbers or passwords. We can do the same thing with good habits. We complain about bad habits, but with a little effort, we can replace bad habits with good habits. The ancients understood this, but wee have seem to forgotten this in our pseudo-sophistication. After all, Socrates without an Internet was smarter than most people alive, with digitized libraries at their fingertips. There are other aspects to Covey philosophy, but I think that these three points cover some of the unique ground. Personally, I hate motivational speakers-Chris Farley was the best! They focus on emotional siren songs that ultimately have no long-term power. Covey, however, advocates an ancient way of doings things; which ancient was has stood the test of time. And that is history's unalterable verdict.
Rating: Summary: Verbose Review: There are better books than this. This is preachy, extremely wordy and a boring read. The ideas got me interested initially but I got sick of the few good ideas that this looooong book is based on, being repeated, again and again. Covey treats the reader like a simpleton. Started skimming the book at chapter 3 onwards - as other reviewers have suggested it may be worth borrowing from the library but don't waste money on a copy. Many people have raved about the book - I wonder how many have actually gained any long term benefits from it? Oh well, can't really blame the Covey PR machine for cashing in on people's gullibility.
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