Don't Be Nice, Be Real: Balancing Passion for Self With Compassion for Others

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Summary: I was tired of being one of the 'nice dead people'
Review: "I was tired of being one of the 'nice dead people' in the world, so the title of this book spoke to me. I was totally skeptical that it could really help. But after reading it I really was inspired to start "dancing in rhythm to the beat of my own soul, and learning how to enjoy it when people freak out about it." (A quote from the book.) It really has become my guide from depressed "doormat" through
overly "obnoxious" aggressiveness to an evolved, enlightened, more empathic assertiveness. Kelly's real life stories, hilarious humor and refreshing theories teach the mechanics of integrity and loyalty with oneself. It is convincing me of the self defeating dynamics behind self sacrifice. Plus the pratical principles and tools of Nonviolent Communication are helping me with my only relationship issue - "Self Abandonment!"

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Summary: BE REAL
Review: I received Kelly's book as a gift. It was perfect for me. I took it on a trip back home and read it on the way. It really helped me talk with my Mom about my wants and needs. I would highly recogmend this book- the first couple of chapters are the best!

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Summary: Speaking & Listening from the Heart
Review: Kelly Bryson uses humor and fun "plays on words" to teach us how learning to communicate compassionately brings us more love, empathy, intimacy, and overall enjoyment of life.

This book is a fun read and also caused me to revisit past interactions, and see that by taking this new approach at communication, the end result can be both me and the other people are happy and get our needs met.

I highly recommend this book!