Gay Marriage : Why It Is Good for Gays, Good for Straights, and Good for America

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Summary: thoughtful, rational, sensible
Review: Jonathan Rauch's new book, "Gay Marriage" is just what the country needs right now....less shouting and more reason. Rauch wisely frames his arguments regarding homosexuality in America around the issue of marriage as it has emerged in a rapid-fire way as the central social issue of the day.

De-mystifying most of the arguments made by conservatives, Rauch nonetheless is willing to be open and fair with them...to a point. His point, that same-sex marriage will be good for everyone is accurate, but as he also stresses it could have the possibility of a downside in its implementation. His premise reflects the old saying, "a rising tide lifts all boats".

Rauch encourages the reader to think about the issue which is good advice as it seems that so many in the United States more viscerally react to the idea of same-sex marriage than give it a mindful rendering. In his discussion regarding what some perceive to be an immature side to homosexuality I wish he had made note of one thing.....the fact that a few states allow heterosexual minors to marry... Hawaii and Georgia for instance, allow marriages at sixteen.

The author makes it clear that until gay marriage is accepted homosexuals will continue to be viewed as second-class citizens. Civil unions just won't do, he remarks, but adds that at least they are better than nothing. His beginning and ending chapters reflect what all gays feel and all straights should read....imagining a life without the possibility of marriage. Jonathan Rauch gives clarity to his arguments and a hope that marriage will someday be an option for all people. His book is not so much ahead of its time, but more appropriately right on time....and right on the mark.

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Summary: BEWARE!
Review: This book will only be read by those who favor gay marriage; because you will either start with that opinion or, by the time you finish the book, you will have converted to that opinion. With grace, good humor, intelligence, and clarity Rauch looks at every aspect of this issue. And if you're already married and straight this book will delight and refresh your relationship because, in the end, this topic is all about the most healthy and joyful way for humans to celebrate and nurture love between two committed people.

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Summary: Ride It For All It's Worth!
Review: This book, along with HUNDREDS of others, are basically beating a "dead horse". Everyone has pretty much made up their mind on where they stand on the same sex marriage issue. Books like this one are intended for nothing else than for a select few to make a buck. (aurthor, publisher, etc) It will pander to gays if they seem like likely marks to make a purchase. Most people will buy things if it pertains to them, much like poeple who sale all the silly over-priced souveniers at sports events. People will spend money to show their support. The people selling the items probably do not even care WHAT they are selling, just that people buy. Homosexuals and Heterosexuals do have one thing in common...they will BOTH be manipulated into buying books like this one. This books says the same thing everyone else is saying on various talk shows and what have you. Save your money.