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Summary: I am impressed....
Review: As someone who lives more along the lines of Rabbi Bechtech's Kosher Sex bestseller I think it is wonderful that there is a Christian book available that is along the same lines as Kosher Sex. Because many books on marriage and sex that I have looked thru in bookstores that have been written by... seemed to be absent the hard facts and what some may consider blunt facts.... have long encouraged their married couples during Friday evening services to go home and make love because this is considered a blessing from God not to be ignored. Yet my ... friends seemed to feel that they needed the secular books on sex and marriage if they wanted information. The fact is sex and marriage go hand in hand and I recommend this book as a gift for a newly engaged couple, as an gift for newlyweds, or couples who have been married 5 10 20 30 40 years. One can always use the extra push and encouragement.
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Summary: A gift of understanding
Review: I bought this book as a last ditch effort to help me understand some problems I was experiencing with my husband. This book is geared toward understanding self as well as understanding one's mate. The book is also replete with references as to when a couple should consult an outside professional, and direction on how to communicate with one another to solve problems when possible. The Penners are great at reconciling Biblical scriptural facts with the understanding that each of us is human. They do not talk down to or above the reader, rather they speak in language that all can relate to. They include medically based drawings that help the reader understand how their body and their spouse's body functions. This is great for the newlywed who may not know, as well as the older couples who may have forgotten. I especially appreciated the various scenarios that relate the real experiences of real people that helped me to see that others really do have similar problems. If you are looking for scripturally based help in marriage, but do not quite feel comfortable approaching your clergy about sex, this is the book for you. It will help to get you to the point where you can seek outside assistance, if needed. It helped me to understand that I did not need to divorce my husband, even though I felt I had exhausted all avenues with him. Rather it helped me to see that I needed to try yet again, armed with more information that was beneficial to both of us.
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Summary: One of those books you don't forget about
Review: I remember reading this book when I first became engaged. My wife and I (we've been married more than 14 years now) went through premarital counseling and decided to read a variety of Christian books to help us better understand just what we were getting into. The Gift of Sex helped us to deal with some myths that we may have been holding, and it prepared us for the first night as well as the rest of our lives. While their drawings of the body can sometimes be pretty scary-looking, it was good for us to have a full understanding of what it was going to take to make our sexual relationship work. Not only do we have different bodies, but we also have different needs. Needless to say, we're still working hard to perfect the techniques, but I would say it's better for both of us to have the same understanding, which helps dispel many myths. I would recommend this book for couples to read together, especially those who are about to be married. It will be an eye-opener for many in an issue that is not very easy to talk about in front of other people.
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