The 91% Factor: Why Women Initiate 91% of Divorce, End Most Relationships, and What Can Be Done About It

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Summary: Adam and Eve
Review: Remember, Eve tempted Adam, Adam responded to her temptation and then blamed her for it, but God found BOTH of them responsible and banished BOTH of them.

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Summary: It's not ALL about sex!
Review: The entire premise of this book is based on the assumed power women have over men through sex.It discounts the many truths that men also have the same sexual power over women.Women are the givers and men are the getters nothing different,simply the same thrown about myths which have exsisted for years in order to keep women's sexual desires in the back closet long enough so the woman will always be blaming herself for being 'sexually too available' and walk all over her sexual drive to keep any man under any circumstances. If men were really like this I would join a convent because to withhold sexuality in order to keep interest is a very sick game. Also the book is on the premise that women don't want sex and only use it to get love in return.What a sad way in which to look at relationships.

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Summary: only men want sex and women need to hold back?
Review: The entire premise of this book is based on the assumed power women have over men through sex.It discounts the many truths that men also have the same sexual power over women.Women are the givers and men are the getters nothing different,simply the same thrown about myths which have exsisted for years in order to keep women's sexual desires in the back closet long enough so the woman will always be blaming herself for being 'sexually too available' and walk all over her sexual drive to keep any man under any circumstances. If men were really like this I would join a convent because to withhold sexuality in order to keep interest is a very sick game. Also the book is on the premise that women don't want sex and only use it to get love in return.What a sad way in which to look at relationships.

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Summary: It's not ALL about sex!
Review: Very interesting little book. I always suspected that women ended most relationships, but 91%!?! WOW!!! Anyone consider this as a reason? UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS!!!

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Summary: Some important new facts about divorce and relationships
Review: We all have been well trained by modern psychology to accept the idea that every food, drug, alcohol, sex, money, emotional, or physical abuser has an enabler, i.e, someone who supports or encourages the bad behavior. According to "The 91% Factor" if the above is true, then it must also be true that women (who initiate 91% of divorce) divorce men because of the abusive male behavior that they (women) somehow enable, and that women could also enable good or loving marital behavior, if only they understood or knew how. According to the book women initiate 91% of divorce because they have not enabled good or loving marital behavior. The book demonstrates that women naturally enable good behavior on the first few dates by withholding sex. This enables or encourages the man to act as responsibly and loving as possible in order to eventually secure the woman's love, sexual support and hand in marriage. But, after a relationship develops the woman changes her behavior dramatically by beginning to provide free sex (without the requirement of flowers or dinner or general affection, etc.); thus enabling or encouraging or teaching less and less loving male behavior. Eventually she blames the man for the poor behavior she has enabled with free sex, and eventually divorces him only to remarry and repeat the same pattern. Second marriages, it turns out, are shorter than first marriages despite what women think they have learned from the first failed marriage. This book helps women learn the right things from failing relationships. With divorce still at 50% certainly there must be something to learn? All things considered, it is an excellent and modern analysis of marriage with a Freudian emphasis on a woman's sexual power in the creation and destruction of her own family. Women will certainly object to using sex, or even recognizing the importance of sex but who can honestly argue that sex isn't designed to be at the heart of heterosexual relationships? The book is highly original, serious, and step by step logical. It asks you to look beyond the smugness and false wisdom which has created a 50% divorce rate, and broken homes for most of our children.