Not with My Child

Rating:
Summary: The pedophile's world of child abuse - Explained
Review: "Not with My Child" is an eye-opener into a pedophile's life, personality, and abusive behavior. Not only does it explain why the predator abuses, it explains how they locate their victims, how they keep them from telling about the abuse, and many other chilling details of their actions.

STOP Sex Offenders highly recommends "Not with My Child" as a guide to learning about the pedophile's world of child abuse. It's unfortunate that this book is a necessity, but anyone who cares about children shouldn't be without it.

Joi M. Lasnick

Rating:
Summary: A thorough manual
Review: "Not with My Child" is an eye-opener into a pedophile's life, personality, and abusive behavior. Not only does it explain why the predator abuses, it explains how they locate their victims, how they keep them from telling about the abuse, and many other chilling details of their actions.

STOP Sex Offenders highly recommends "Not with My Child" as a guide to learning about the pedophile's world of child abuse. It's unfortunate that this book is a necessity, but anyone who cares about children shouldn't be without it.



Rating:
Summary: An Absolutely Necessary Reference for All Parents
Review: I find "Not With My Child" to be an absolutely necessary reference to help all parents protect their children as well as the most detailed and fascinating book that I have ever read when it comes to detailing the strategies used by pedophiles and pederasts. "Not With My Child" pulls the covers off pedophiles, pederasts, child sex predators, and child pornographers to an extent that has never before been done by any other book. It truly nails the lid down on virtually every factual and conceivable game plan that pedophiles have used and can use to access children and young people. If parents will indeed read and study the extremely accurate contents of "Not With My Child" they will be as prepared as anyone can be to recognize the ploys used by those whose goal it is to prey on unwitting children and youths and then they will be able to pass the information so gained on to their children. I truly applaud you and those who worked with you on this project for bringing forth a monumental book that will undoubtedly stand for years as the definitive work identifying pedophiles and their game plans to access vulnerable children and youths.

Rating:
Summary: Excellent Book
Review: I received my book on saturday and read it over the week-end. It is the best I have read so far and I have quite a collection of books on the repugnant but important subject matter.

Rating:
Summary: Not With My Child
Review: I wholeheartedly recommend this dynamic expose of pedophiles' tactics and tricks to get children and even older teenagers to coopertate in sex and then remain silent about it. The average parent has no idea how these pedophiles work and how they succeed - right under parents' noses - all the time without parents even realizing that those they trust are abusing their children. Even more dynamic are the many and unique prevention ideas in Chapter 45 by which even a little child can outwit and actually overpower a large adult to prevent sexual abuse. Now, at last, parents and others can know what pedophiles already know, and can at least prevent their own children, grandchildren, and neighborhood kids from being sexually abused. "Not With My Child" makes the compelling point that parents can't just bury their heads in the sand, ignore the subject because discussing sex with their children makes the parents uncomfortable, and hope for the best for their kids. Pedophiles will discuss sex with 1 of every 3 kids. Parents ignoring the subject with their own kids doesn't work for the 1 of every 3 girls and 1 or 4 boys in America who are sexually abused before age 18. And the not talking to strangers rule rarely works, because 90% of the sexually abused kids are abused by people they already know. Chapter 45, the prevention chapter, is a positive, inspiring, and effective approach to preventing child sexual abuse that takes "the edge" off discussing the subject with their kids. It already has worked for my kids - twice in 18 months!! This book should be required reading for every parent in America! A lot less kids would be abused if every parent read and applied it.

Rating:
Summary: A Must Have for All Parents
Review: I've recommended it to all of my child advocate friends. It really should be "standard issue" for parents when they take their babies home from the hospital.

Rating:
Summary: A thorough manual
Review: Medieval people were very concerned with the actual and present danger of the devil's many appearances. So they had the Inquisition and their witch hunts. Later, society kept the Jews responsible for all that went wrong in the world. After that we had communists. Now we have pedophiles. Not With My Child is fully taking advantage of this new discovery, by providing us with endless listings of how 'shrewd pedophiles' prey on our children and us, the Protectors. I highly recommend this very comprehensive book to scriptwriters, storytellers, sociologists and people alike. They will find great ideas in it that go beyond their wildest dreams. No writer's block for them anymore. I also recommend the book to the numerous people who just can't get enough of reading horror stories. (As far as I'm concerned, THAT is what our society's epidemic is about.) To all people who are really concerned about protecting their children against society's dangers I can only say: put some more time in studying your children instead of in studying this book. Finally, let's pray that no real pedophiles discover this book, because it might be ranking high on the list of self-fulfilling-prophecies then.