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Rating: Summary: Concerned Parent Review: Book should be entitled "Dare to Hit Your Child with Whatever is Handy". Dobsen extolls virtues of his wife snapping their not yet two-year-old with a switch across the shins, can you imagine? He also attests that he received great benefit, as a child, by being spontaneously walloped by his mom's girdle, complete with buckles and straps.The fact is, that spontaneous anger from a parent can be beneficial to a child, in seeing that his actions may set off undesired reactions. Yet, spontaneous violence sends an absolutely wrong message of physical superiority making "right" in a confrontational situation. My children turned out quite well, I think with equal parts luck, love, and parental boundries. I didn't get anything from this book (I read it years ago) that I utilized in child-rearing, except a dedication to never hit my children.
Rating: Summary: I have been converted to the ways of Dr Dobson Review: I borrowed this book from a co-worker who used Dr Dobson's methods to raise her 2 ,now grown, children. I would recommend this to anyone with questions or concerns on any kind on displine. It changed many of the beliefs I had previously held on displine. Dr Dobson teaches how to incorporate displine and love and that the two go together.
Rating: Summary: Thank you, Mr. Delusion. Review: My father used Dobson's methodology as a license to strike. If you wish to die alone in a nursing home, I suggest you listen to those who worship hate and violence. There is not a day that I don't dream of lashing my old man with a studded belt to punish him in return, and am contemplating not having children to let the cycle of violence end with me.
God bless America, we really need it....
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