Dutiful Daughters: Caring for Our Parents As They Grow Old

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Summary: FYI for the reviewer looking for BK Loren book
Review: A friend of a freind of a friend passed this book to me. I was so pleasantly surprised. The book is not just for those who are caring for elder parents or grandparents. It is beautiful literature. The story called Margie's Discount was beautifully written, insightful, and moving. (This is the second thing I have read by BK Loren, but cannot find a book by this author.) Though it was so different, I also liked To Kill A Deer. It was funny and sad and right on target about parents. I recommend this book as general reading. I do not have aging parents, but if I did, I would think this book would be essential. I think it is essential already, as just the stories are beautifully told.

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Summary: Not just for those caring for elders
Review: A friend of a freind of a friend passed this book to me. I was so pleasantly surprised. The book is not just for those who are caring for elder parents or grandparents. It is beautiful literature. The story called Margie's Discount was beautifully written, insightful, and moving. (This is the second thing I have read by BK Loren, but cannot find a book by this author.) Though it was so different, I also liked To Kill A Deer. It was funny and sad and right on target about parents. I recommend this book as general reading. I do not have aging parents, but if I did, I would think this book would be essential. I think it is essential already, as just the stories are beautifully told.

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Summary: From Library Journal
Review: Edited by poet and essayist Gould (Season of Adventure), this unusual book of first-person essays by women writers is timely and engaging. Appearing just as policy-makers reassess Medicare and Social Security, it documents the private side of aging and caregiving. Each of the 22 stories told here is different: some contributors tell of how caring for their aging parents deepened their relationships or afforded opportunities for late-life forgiveness; others explore loss and sorrow. As a result, this is a wonderfully varied exploration of the complicated emotional and spiritual issues that emerge for both parents and daughters as their bodies and relationships age. It will likely be read by aging parents and their caregiving children alike. Very highly recommended...

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Summary: Dutiful Daughters
Review: I have read only one essay from this book. It was reprinted in a magazine called The Sun, and I was so impressed with the story, and could relate so well to some what was said, that I am going to order the book to read the rest.

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Summary: One of those dutiful daughters ...
Review: I wrote one of the pieces in this book about my own mother, and her death. It was cathartic and helpful to write it, but I can still not read it through without shedding tears. While your aging parents are alive and a burden, it is sometimes difficult to be patient, and to savor the last of their life with them. Aging is difficult to bear for both parties. Your parent becomes your child. Reading this marvelous, rich book will help you know what a fortunate thing it is to be able to offer your love and your support to those who gave you life. I was lucky to have my "story" included in this wonderful book.

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Summary: FYI for the reviewer looking for BK Loren book
Review: Just wanted to let you know, since you mentioned looking for a book by BK Loren, that her first book, The Way of the River, will be published in May 2001.

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Summary: BK Loren is an INCREDIBLE Author
Review: There is something about the writing of BK Loren. As I read through the story of her and her mother, my heart and mind filled with emotions. As I think of what she wrote while I write this, tears return to my eyes. This is when you know that an author is good. She makes you feel what she feels and leaves you knowing that the world is a good place although it is hard. I really look forward to her next novel. SHE IS GREAT!

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Summary: BK Loren is an INCREDIBLE Author
Review: There is something about the writing of BK Loren. As I read through the story of her and her mother, my heart and mind filled with emotions. As I think of what she wrote while I write this, tears return to my eyes. This is when you know that an author is good. She makes you feel what she feels and leaves you knowing that the world is a good place although it is hard. I really look forward to her next novel. SHE IS GREAT!

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Summary: Much needed as a guide and support for 50's generation
Review: This collection of stories is just what is needed for the " Nelson Family " generation. There is too little know about how those over 50 deal with ageing parents. Many of the stories are mirrors of our lives. Thank you Jean Gould.

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Summary: A STRONG AND MOVING COLLECTION
Review: This is certainly a strong collection of nonfiction about daughters and their parents. "Taking Care of Charlie," by Cathleen Calbert, is gripping, with some humor too. And "Chocolate," by Mary Anne Maier is the most moving piece of all. I admire it for its content and impeccable form, and I reread it periodically. Maier takes us with her on a quest to come to terms with her mother's death, but along the way we are given insight into the author as a daughter and as a human being.