Systemic Parenting

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Summary: Focuses on a parent child relationship rather than how-tos
Review: Basically the approach in Systemic Parenting to focus on building a relationship with your child. It isn't a how-to book in terms of discipline them this way, potty train them by this age, etc. So it will more help you to see the "big picture" than give you immediate advice on what you need to do. Of course with a grasp of the big picture you can figure out how to treat specific situations. So the advice in Systemic Parenting is more verstile, but less immediate.

I really appreciate the focus on the relationship and bond between parent and child. It is something that tends to be taken for granted in lieu of more immediate issues. However the advice here is not immediately practical, and the presentation is text-booky and dull.

I recommend passing on Systemic Parenting. ... The premise of Systemic Parenting is an excellent one, but the presentation is not so hot.

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Summary: Solid Parenting Advice
Review: Gaskill writes an excellent book from the perspective of a practicioner for parents. He skips over the deep theory and confusing language of psychology to focus on a long list of pragmatic maxims for effective parenting. As the father of twins boys, I have already put some of his advise to good use.

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Summary: Solid Parenting Advice
Review: Gaskill writes an excellent book from the perspective of a practicioner for parents. He skips over the deep theory and confusing language of psychology to focus on a long list of pragmatic maxims for effective parenting. As the father of twins boys, I have already put some of his advise to good use.

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Summary: Excellent Book!
Review: Mark Gaskill answered most, if not all, of my parenting questions in this book! It is well-written and easily understood by all - parents and scholars. He provides details on those concepts that seemingly have gotten lost in the fast-paced shuffle of modern times. Using his suggested methods of communication, I am confident that the concepts presented in this book are realistic and will prove successful in raising self-confident, emotionally healthy children. Thanks Mr. Gaskill!!

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Summary: Too technical
Review: This book was not our cup of tea. My husband and I like more practical guidance that does not read in such therapeutic terms. We have a 3 year old.

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Summary: A must read for parents
Review: Wow! There is a quote on the cover that says "It's almost as though this book is about everything - or maybe everything is about parenting." Little more need be said. Systemic parenting was recommended to me by my daughter's therapist. I was offended at first, however, I now believe this was the single best bit of advice I have ever received. This book is written for parents wanting to give their children every possible advantage for success - this starts with the parents. Pure genius! A must read.