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Summary: Do Yourselves A Favor And Read This Book
Review: I am a working mom and I found so much truth, as well as so many good suggestions, which are really practical, in this book. Julie Shields describes a common problem (without wasting too much time on the problem before getting to the answer) and shows that the word "mother" doesn't have to mean martyr, and how to actually do that kind of sharing parenting that many of us idealize. Without judgment, she explains how women make choices which then lock them into being the Super Parent, and also how we sometimes prevent men from getting involved. If you're a mom and feel like your husband does more than you would like, and especially if you think your experience will be different when you have children, or you haven't even gotten married yet, you will find useful advice and strategy so that you can create the life you want. It really made me think about what I was doing and we have made better changes in our family already. The concept of BATNA is really powerful, and I can attest to that.
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Summary: A wonderful book
Review: I read this book in one sitting, and when I was done I found myself going back through it again in order to digest it more completely. I really wish it had been available when I was just starting my family, but even though my kids are now older I don't feel it's too late. A wonderful resource for any two-parent household, full of practical advice and suggestions on how to improve the whole family's quality of life. Julie Shields cuts through to the heart of many emotional, complicated parenting issues and presents solutions from a fresh, logical perspective. This is not just another book telling women how to reduce stress in their lives by making time for relaxing baths. I highly recommend it to any parent, or anyone thinking of becoming one.
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Summary: A wonderful book
Review: I read this book in one sitting, and when I was done I found myself going back through it again in order to digest it more completely. I really wish it had been available when I was just starting my family, but even though my kids are now older I don't feel it's too late. A wonderful resource for any two-parent household, full of practical advice and suggestions on how to improve the whole family's quality of life. Julie Shields cuts through to the heart of many emotional, complicated parenting issues and presents solutions from a fresh, logical perspective. This is not just another book telling women how to reduce stress in their lives by making time for relaxing baths. I highly recommend it to any parent, or anyone thinking of becoming one.
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Summary: Great for Moms and couples!
Review: One of the most difficult decisions for women is to decide what to do about work when they become pregnant. This is the perfect book to help you decide. Julie Shields, the author, lays out your options for you, and she gives lots of unique solutions that I have never thought of before. This book is good for both men and women. I decided to buy the book after I saw Julie Shields discuss how to juggle childcare and work in today's recession on MSNBC. I highly recommend this wonderful book.
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Summary: A must read for all parents and potential parents!
Review: This book is one of a kind. Whether you are parents already or just thinking about it, How to Avoid the Mommy Trap will help men and women alike think about parenting as a partnership as never done before. This book has been a lifesaving eye-opener for me and my marriage and I am sure I am not the only one out there for whom this is true. Shields is an innovator. She has changed the paternity leave policies in the State Department. In the book, she gets readers to think about the importance of where your ideal partner stands on work and family issues before meeting him/her or where your current partner stands on such issues before making the making the final commitment. I am a full-time stay at home mom and I love my job. It is the hardest yet most rewarding job I have ever had and I wouldn't trade it for anything. But I had begun to lose my identity in my mommyness and this book is a guide on how mothers can "let go" without guilt. Julie Shields is helping me get my sense of self back and she doesn't even know me! Just read the Table of Contents and you'll be hooked too! Amy Beal
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Summary: A must read for all parents and potential parents!
Review: This book is one of a kind. Whether you are parents already or just thinking about it, How to Avoid the Mommy Trap will help men and women alike think about parenting as a partnership as never done before. This book has been a lifesaving eye-opener for me and my marriage and I am sure I am not the only one out there for whom this is true. Shields is an innovator. She has changed the paternity leave policies in the State Department. In the book, she gets readers to think about the importance of where your ideal partner stands on work and family issues before meeting him/her or where your current partner stands on such issues before making the making the final commitment. I am a full-time stay at home mom and I love my job. It is the hardest yet most rewarding job I have ever had and I wouldn't trade it for anything. But I had begun to lose my identity in my mommyness and this book is a guide on how mothers can "let go" without guilt. Julie Shields is helping me get my sense of self back and she doesn't even know me! Just read the Table of Contents and you'll be hooked too! Amy Beal
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Summary: WHY DIDN'T SOMEONE WRITE THIS SOONER!!!
Review: What a fantastic book-the author explains that there are hundreds of books on what color flowers go with what color wedding dress but almost none on how to pick a mate and discuss questions of child rearing long before the baby is born. She also explains how to help your mate change his (her) point of view about division of labor.
The book is well written and interesting; the research very detailed. The author presents many couples who have designed manners of living that avoid the pitfalls of being wife, mother, career woman and doing it all badly.
There is a long section on the frightening results of studies on substitute care and an enlightening one on how other countries have far mnore advanced solutions to the working parent.
This is a must for all women who are planning to get married and have children or have children and are unhappy with their lives. Men either love it or hate it but I haven't met a women yet who doesn't find more in this book that is very helpful.
A must read!!!
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