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Summary: whoa...
Review: A very interesting, albeit very flawed look at dynamics in successful relationships. John Gray hits the mark in a lot of places, especially when describing the dance of pursuing and distancing in established relationships, but there are some things in here which, although dressed up in flowery language, essentially tell readers the following: 1. Men need to learn to tolerate verbal abuse so their female mates can "explore their feelings", i.e., a man needs to dodge verbal knives from his wife so she can find her feminine power. 2. If a man wants to discuss his problems or needs not being met, his female partner's attraction for him will wither and die. 3. Women all crave a sensitive man, yet ultimately resent him for having this quality, and will walk all over him for it. 4. Women hate passive men, but any man who stands up for himself will be criticized for not allowing the woman to always be right. In essence, Gray seems to put forth the idea that men must never have problems, complain, initiate sex, or they will be resented and walked all over by their mates. Very troubling. We all are what we are, and this is not a general all-purpose formula for a great relationship. Somewhat sexist, backhanded self-misandry, from a very questionable celebrity.
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Summary: Wordy, but accurate
Review: Having authored my own book on meeting and succeeding with women, "From the First Date to the Bedroom, the Single Man's Official Guide to Success with Women," I can fully appreciate John Gray's work.Whereas my book is a light-hearted approach to dating and mating from the male perspective, I will tell you that John does a womderful job in this more serious work. It is definitely worth the time to read. Butch Mazzuca,
Author, From the First Date to the Bedroom, the Single Man's Official Guide to Success with Women,"
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Summary: Helpful
Review: I found the book to be helpful to understand your partner some more. It gives solutions to common everyday problems that might occur. I enjoyed reading it, and it's one you'll want to read over. Writer at BellaOnline
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Summary: Helpful
Review: I found the book to be helpful to understand your partner some more. It gives solutions to common everyday problems that might occur. I enjoyed reading it, and it's one you'll want to read over. Writer at BellaOnline
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Summary: If you are both in love, but can't make it work, read this!
Review: I have frowned on this author's premise...that men and women are different biologically my whole life. Imagine my surprise to actually read this book and see myself and my recent ex on every page. I read parts of this book with him and we laughed until we cried about how totally RIGHT this book is. We have decided to give us another try utilizing some of the techniques in the book. So far...so good. A must read if you both want to make it work, but seem to be at the end of your rope. All my friends wanted a copy of this book once I talked to them about it. There are some really terrific insights into male/female behavior. And so far, I have found the advice about what we can each do to be a better partner to be right on the money. ---KMS
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Summary: The Information Age can Help even You
Review: I picked up this book, after running into my ex-fiancée five years after the fact. I have been struggling with gender role issues longer than I care to admit-I turned 50 this year. To my amazement, I learned some things that I can't apply to a male/female relationship at this time (i'm not in one), but is helping with the most difficult relationship I have-with my adopted mother who is my complete opposite. I learned that although she is a career woman, she still has a more traditional mindset than I. If you are a busy person, and you don't get the whole book read, the first three chapters may change your life significantly.
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Summary: The Information Age can Help even You
Review: I picked up this book, after running into my ex-fiancée five years after the fact. I have been struggling with gender role issues longer than I care to admit-I turned 50 this year. To my amazement, I learned some things that I can't apply to a male/female relationship at this time (i'm not in one), but is helping with the most difficult relationship I have-with my adopted mother who is my complete opposite. I learned that although she is a career woman, she still has a more traditional mindset than I. If you are a busy person, and you don't get the whole book read, the first three chapters may change your life significantly.
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Summary: Another sequel without much value-add
Review: I'm a big fan of the original Mars/Venus book. But the follow-ons, including this one, really add very little to the discussion. This one could be somewhat helpful as a further discussion of the ideas, but don't expect any new insights.
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Summary: Gain the skill by reading this book
Review: if you are married , this book will enrich your skills in understanding your mate. It is a book of a very good standard . it added a lot to me in how doing less but supporting more, to duck and dodge, to listen without interrupting and how to get the win/win solution. I recommend this book for all whome are married or about to be married.
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Summary: Not bad, but sexist
Review: If you can overlook the sexist sterotypes and the bad grammer it actually has some good advice. I found myself put off at first by the blatant stereotypes but eventually found that they were useful for understanding theme of the book. The 2 overriding characteristics of the men and women that are used in this book are quite important and understand tehe influence of these themes is very important.
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