Rating: Summary: The Creative Answer to My Problems Review: I am a Christian Elementary Schoolteacher. I have no children of my own but was recommended this book by one of my students's parents. I was having a discipline problem with a couple of my students and was at my wits end. I was really able to apply this book to my classroom and I can also use it as a reference book for future kids of my own. I give this book two thumbs up!
Rating: Summary: Finally, a "star" who knows the truth! Review: I am a Christian, wife, mother, daughter, friend, and teacher. I found that this book appeals to each part of my life! I was excited to find someone from the Hollywood acting world who is not caught up in new-age non-God "religion". Lisa is obviously a wonderful Christian who God has gifted with not only the ability to be a Godly mom who is instilling God in her children but also knows how to tell others how to do it! I have taken notes and am using this book for reference in the parenting of my 2 and 5 year old. God bless you, Lisa! More! More!
Rating: Summary: After filtering through all the religious filler... Review: This is a good book on child-rearing. However, it must be said as a warning that this is a VERY religious author, and therefore a VERY religious book. I am not religious, and was surprised to find so much reference to God and to Jesus! I read this book much quicker then I would have originally anticipated due to the extreme and frequent nature of all the bible-speak. At the heart of this book are still some fantastic ideas, even for the non-religious person like myself. I would recommend buying this book, but be prepared to skim it quite a bit!
Rating: Summary: More than a good book - an inspiration Review: Lisa Whelchel's book is refreshing. The book is full of ideas on correction methods (contained in Toolbox sections and nicely indexed) not just philosophies. Finally, a book that takes parenting from the academic to the practical.I found this book inspiring. Not only was I able to use many of the methods discussed but I found myself being more creative when I had to correct a child. One important thing to note about this book is that many of the correction methods are religous based or founded. There is an entire chapter on The Ultimate Parent (God). There are a number of ideas that are totally secular but hardly a page goes by without some reference to something religious based. The book is not preachy at all but those uncomfortable with strong religion may not enjoy this book.
Rating: Summary: Creative Comical Correction Review: I loved this book! What blunt honesty about her own kids, what creative ideas to help them learn the "why" behind the correction that is taking place, and what a fun read. I already have two adolescents who can benefit from the suggestions in this book. But I'm really excited about helping my eight year old get and stay on track. Good job, Lisa. Can't wait for your next book!
Rating: Summary: Discipline can be funny Review: Finally, a book that doesn't make you feel guilty. This book will help so many parents - if they don't die laughing while reading it. So many practical ideas and all with humor. Loved every word of it. This girl can write!
Rating: Summary: This book is what I've been praying for! Review: I've read many books on ways to correct children and ways to motivate them. This is the first one I've ever read that actually gave me Bible based concrete ideas. This book is full of fun ways to correct your children and to teach them what God says about obedience. I highly recommend this book!
Rating: Summary: Raising Children With Christian Values Review: As the mother of two school-age children myself, ages 5 and 7, Lisa Whelchel Cauble's book is quite a find! It contains many ideas on how to handle everyday problems that arise when you're trying to raise children with Christian values. Lisa, an actress who now homeschools her 3 children, shares stories, mostly from the Cauble household, that I chuckled over while reading (as many similar situations have occurred in our household, too.) She offers creative suggestions on handling behavioral problems that are bound to arise (perhaps even on a daily basis!) like lying, not doing chores, disobedience, arguing with siblings and that ever-favorite-in-our-household: whining, just to name a few. The suggestions are interspersed with humor that is very much appreciated! Here's hoping Lisa write another book in a few years that covers the teenage years!
Rating: Summary: Use with caution Review: This book is filled with all sorts of parenting advice, including positive reinforcements, corrections, guidelines for spanking, how Scripture comes into play, etc. On the positive side, the book was very well organized, with many tips from people across the country. I liked how she used Scripture to back things up. She even explained why it is so important to use Scripture when raising your children. The positive reinforcers were really good and are things I'd like to try myself. She also made a point that her way of parenting wasn't the only way, and that you have to decide what is best for your family when it comes to child discipline. As for the 3 rating...I am a Christian parent who believes that we should not let our children get away with murder. But I have some problems with some of the corrections she mentions. Some were good, but I would not want to use some of what she suggested. First, I've never liked the hot sauce/vinegar/soap treatment. Second, she mentions spraying water into the face of a toddler who has a temper tantrum. I'd feel like I was treating my child as a housepet if I did that. Then she mentioned things like letting a child go without a meal for failing to do a chore. I do believe strongly that you should never threaten to withhold food from a child, for any reason. Another example of something I wouldn't try is when the child refuses to hold your hand when going across the parking lot. She mentions giving the child a choice: either hold the child's hand or hold the child's hair. If I was leading my child around the parking lot by the hair, I'd be afraid the someone would sick Child Protective Services on me. And finally, she mentions that if a child has a temper tantrum, make them go to their room and have them cry for 10 minutes. First, what if the child is physically unable to do that? Second, this one hits too close to home for me. I had a babysitter who would hold me down by my wrists on my bed and make me scream because I supposedly screamed at her. I ended up with bruises on my wrists. Now, that WAS abusive. I think with this book, I'd recommend using the corrections with much caution. Use a discerning attitude towards this book. Take what helps and leave the rest.
Rating: Summary: Lisa Whelchel's Creative Correction is refreshing & it works Review: This book has been fantastic at stopping bad habits before they get even more out of control. The book is lovingly written with the childs best welfare in mind. The problem with most parenting books is this idea that we need to analize every naughty act our child hurles our way, instead of setting clear boundries and clear consequences.
I do not believe in "negotiating" with my child, as my parents did not with me!...and believe it or not I love and respect them for it.
I like the "reward jar", and "Moms mad money" ideas.!
I have used many of the disiplinary ideas and rewards for good behavior. Most of the time I don't have to disipline them twice for the same behavior... Now that's what I call creative correction!
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