The Blessing

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Summary: read with care
Review: An okay book. Just pick out the good parts and overlook the preaching (there's lots of that).

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Summary: A must read for every parent
Review: Children are begging for acknowledgement from their parents and most of us don't recognize it. This book gives a you an understanding of the most important thing a parent can give to their child.

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Summary: A Treasured Gift
Review: I first read this, borrowed from a friend, who selfishly wanted it back!;) Then I couldn't find it anywhere and I desperately wanted to own it. Finally, I located a copy, rained on, wrinkled, battered and sore, in a used book store and immediately bought it. I read and re-read its bruised but valuable pages. And more selfishly than my friend, I don't loan it out at all. Everyone needs this in their home library. Tell your kids not to read it to make sure they sneak into it and receive their own blessing. This is a wonderful gift to anyone who has grown up in "modern" America and needs to get past the sound bytes that define our lives. It will make you cry. It will make you grow. It will allow you to move on. Thank you, thank you, thank you for writing this book.

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Summary: I couldn't put it down!
Review: I recommend this book to anyone who wants to be a better parent, spouse, son/daughter or friend. Reading it helped me to see the errors of my ways, a blessing indeed.

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Summary: Come to terms with your past
Review: If you are an Adult Child of an Alcoholic, or grew up in any sort of dysfunctional family, this book can help you come to terms with why you are the way you are, and why your parents are the way they are. This book is not about dwelling on the past, for not only can you gain an understanding of why your parents were dysfunctional, but you can move beyond that and learn how to bless your parents (and others). This book was a blessing to me, and I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to grow personally, and in their relationship with Christ.

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Summary: Life changing!
Review: If you have a difficult time consistently being sensitive to your spouse, children, relatives, and friends, this is a must read. Smalley and Trent masterfully tie Christian values to modern psychology. The attributes of "meaningful touch, spoken message, expressing high value, special future and active commitment" are the elements that we see in the gospels that impress us about Christ the most. These attributes also tend to be the most difficult to maintain in character. The book helps us to see that how we were raised has an ABSOLUTE influence on how we are today, without blameshifting the responsibility on our family. This helps the reader not wane between psychology and faith where in most cases, the tendency is to blame it all on the past or to ignore and bear it. As a minister, I have recommended this book to my congregation. It will change not just the outward action of love towards those closest to you, but it will change the internal motive, which is what every reader desires the most. The best thing about the blessing, is that it hits home (your childhood), and helps it (your home) get built on right foundations.

This is my 3rd purchase of it. If you want to receive and be a blessing, order now!!

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Summary: I wish I had read this years ago...
Review: It would have helped me be a better father. But it's never to late to learn and improve. Don't pass it up.

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Summary: I wish I had read this years ago...
Review: It would have helped me be a better father. But it's never to late to learn and improve. Don't pass it up.

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Summary: individial temporment types.
Review: Thanks for your great books and vidios. however, after watching on of the vidios you said 80-85% of males personalities were of the "traditional" type.i think that is true. however i have know i am one of the 15% passive male types. i was in the pulpit ministry for a while but the politics and leaders ate me alive. i have been a performing instrumential-classical guitarist/ teacher for meny years now and emotionealy d much better here. i would to know if there any books and tapes for my type male temporment. i am glad there has been so much written for the 85% male population, however, i have not seen very much at all for guys like my self. if any one has any information please email me, i would appreicae it greatly.thanks agin. [e-mail]

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Summary: excellent
Review: The book was addictive and compelling in the way Smalley and Trent were able to write descriptive words that captured my life in print. I was compelled to read and read because every page demonstrated and described the changes that takes place inside of all us with spiritual guidance from Christ . If our attitudes change so do the people around us.