The Waiting List : An Iraqi Woman's Tales of Alienation

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Summary: Interesting thematic elements
Review: Al-Amir writes in a minimalist style, focusing, for the most part, on small scenes of humanity. Interesting observations about the place of time within an individual person's life are explored in "For a Pittance." After purchasing a photo album in an estate sale while visiting a foreign city, the narrator ponders the idea of living in the present. By immersing herself in the history of an unknown family, the narrator is able to live in the present because she is distracted from her own personal past and future. On page 21, the narrator thinks,
"I was squandering the present that I had planned to enjoy. I had deliberately forgotten my own past so that it wouldn't disturb the serenity of my present, the present I had rescued from crisis in order to forget the past and distance me from the future. And now I was intentionally occupying myself with an unfamiliar time and place, with people who are strangers to me. In my imagination I had arranged a future for their past."
I think what the narrator doesn't realize is that only by immersing herself in the photo album is she able to live in her own present moment, a moment she is glad ends at the end of the story when she returns to her home.

A few things bothered me about Al-Amir's writing style. I am willing to attribute these minor details to lingual discrepancies, but of course I can't read the Arabic version and thus don't know for sure. Exclamation points abound, along with rhetorical questions. There are very many brief paragraphs, which I found somewhat disruptive. Nonetheless, once I got to a certain point in the book I was able to overlook these grammatical and structural issues because I was interested in the stories that Al-Amir was telling.

In the story "Oh the Waiting List," Al-Amir returns to an exploration of what is means to live in the present. The narrator is placed on a waiting list at the airport to get on a flight home. She feels as if the present becomes burdensome and overwhelmingly static because it is purely about wasting time. This resonated with me and how I feel when I travel-which is that time spent in an airport or on airplane is literally dead time.

I have to say that I loved the story "The Doctor's Prescription" simply for its anecdotal qualities. The woman's breathtakingly logical argument for why the pharmacist should give her tranquilizers belies her true motive in a very clever way. The story is brief, but actually the one that stuck with me the most after finishing the book.

In the last two stories, "A Crutch in the Head" and "The Cake," Al-Amir tries to discuss gender relationships--with mixed results. The play-like dialogue format of "A Crutch in the Head" was off-putting to me at first. I'm also not sure why she separated the dialogue into five line "stanzas." Nonetheless, there is a certain universality of her depiction of the argumentative man and resigned woman. The dialogue format also piqued my interest and served her purpose, I think. I found "The Cake" to be a more powerfully written story. Again, she uses the dialogue format, but in doing so also gives the reader a context in which to understand the story. I think Al-Amir's message is that women protest through tears and men through anger. They each do so because they think that it is the only way to get a response.

Rating:
Summary: Interesting thematic elements
Review: Al-Amir writes in a minimalist style, focusing, for the most part, on small scenes of humanity. Interesting observations about the place of time within an individual person's life are explored in "For a Pittance." After purchasing a photo album in an estate sale while visiting a foreign city, the narrator ponders the idea of living in the present. By immersing herself in the history of an unknown family, the narrator is able to live in the present because she is distracted from her own personal past and future. On page 21, the narrator thinks,
"I was squandering the present that I had planned to enjoy. I had deliberately forgotten my own past so that it wouldn't disturb the serenity of my present, the present I had rescued from crisis in order to forget the past and distance me from the future. And now I was intentionally occupying myself with an unfamiliar time and place, with people who are strangers to me. In my imagination I had arranged a future for their past."
I think what the narrator doesn't realize is that only by immersing herself in the photo album is she able to live in her own present moment, a moment she is glad ends at the end of the story when she returns to her home.

A few things bothered me about Al-Amir's writing style. I am willing to attribute these minor details to lingual discrepancies, but of course I can't read the Arabic version and thus don't know for sure. Exclamation points abound, along with rhetorical questions. There are very many brief paragraphs, which I found somewhat disruptive. Nonetheless, once I got to a certain point in the book I was able to overlook these grammatical and structural issues because I was interested in the stories that Al-Amir was telling.

In the story "Oh the Waiting List," Al-Amir returns to an exploration of what is means to live in the present. The narrator is placed on a waiting list at the airport to get on a flight home. She feels as if the present becomes burdensome and overwhelmingly static because it is purely about wasting time. This resonated with me and how I feel when I travel-which is that time spent in an airport or on airplane is literally dead time.

I have to say that I loved the story "The Doctor's Prescription" simply for its anecdotal qualities. The woman's breathtakingly logical argument for why the pharmacist should give her tranquilizers belies her true motive in a very clever way. The story is brief, but actually the one that stuck with me the most after finishing the book.

In the last two stories, "A Crutch in the Head" and "The Cake," Al-Amir tries to discuss gender relationships--with mixed results. The play-like dialogue format of "A Crutch in the Head" was off-putting to me at first. I'm also not sure why she separated the dialogue into five line "stanzas." Nonetheless, there is a certain universality of her depiction of the argumentative man and resigned woman. The dialogue format also piqued my interest and served her purpose, I think. I found "The Cake" to be a more powerfully written story. Again, she uses the dialogue format, but in doing so also gives the reader a context in which to understand the story. I think Al-Amir's message is that women protest through tears and men through anger. They each do so because they think that it is the only way to get a response.

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Summary: it's not what I expected
Review: I was expecting woeful tales of life as a female in Muslim society but I was wrong. Her stories are wonderful in the context of just being a human female. She thinks of a lot of the things that I do, for example obsessing over someone else's possessions at a yard sale. Her insight into male/female thinking is very poignant. This is a bargain book and leads me to seek out other female Arab writers works.

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Summary: Beware of SPOILER
Review: The Waiting List by Daisy Al-Amir is a collection of short stories about
Arabic women. These women are all suffering in some way, either through
separation from their home or some other emptiness inside of them. I like
this book because the author really made me feel for the characters, even
though I have never been through their situations. The author wrote this
book in a way that anybody could read, understand, sympathize, and enjoy.
One of the stories that I really liked is "The Doctor's Prescription". This is a very depressing story about a woman who goes from pharmacy to pharmacy without a doctor's prescription and convinces all the pharmacists to give her some tranquilizers. She does this by giving them all the same elaborate story of how she would never be able to kill herself with these tranquilizers. She is so convincing that all these doctors each give her the pills, saying "With an intelligent woman like yourself, who thinks through all these stages, I suppose there's no concern". The woman then goes home and
kills herself by taking all of the pills.
I think that this is so ironic, and so true in life. You never know
what a person is thinking or feeling inside. The way that Al-Amir wrote this
story, even the reader herself is fooled into the woman's story until the
end. I like the way that this story made me think about the shows that
people put on for other people, and how they could really be feeling inside.
Also, it made me think about how unhappy this woman must have really been.
The manner in which she convinced every pharmacist to give her the pills, she
seemed so intelligent and honest, not like a woman who is about to kill
herself. She wasn't insane, she was just unhappy. I liked the way this story
was written because at the end it made me think. I wondered what could have
been so terrible in this woman's life that she would kill herself. I like
the way that Al-Amir didn't give a clear motive for suicide, because a reason isn't the
important part of this story. The important part of this story was the
woman, and what the woman was thinking and feeling in the moments before she
decided to take her own life.
Another story that really made me think is "For a Pittance". In this
book a woman is traveling in an unfamiliar city when she happens to walk by
an estate sale. The woman is intrigued by this, and goes back everyday to
see what has been sold and what remains. She decides that she is going to
buy the very last item left, the unwanted item. That item ends up being that
family's photo album. The woman is once again intrigued with the family and
begins to look at the pictures and try to figure the family out. Towards the
end of the photo album she finds a picture of the family at a funeral. The
woman can't figure out who died, and she feels like she has invaded their
lives by looking at the photos. She leaves the photo album at the hotel and
returns home.

This short story made me think for two reasons. The first is, how could a
family sell their own memories? I found myself once again trying to think of
reasons for this since none were given. I felt sorry for the family that
was in such a state of despair that they had to sell their own memories. The
other reason this book made me think is how the woman who bought the book
became to too involved with this family through their pictures. I wondered why
she was so interested and thought maybe she had some issues in her own
family that made her search out this surrogate family.
The reason that I liked his book is that it made me think, which not
all books can do. I found myself trying to figure the stories out further
after they were finished, NC because Al-Amir made me want to know more about
these characters.

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Summary: The Waiting List - An Iraqi Woman's Tales of Alienation
Review: The Waiting List is a book that depicts the emotional struggles of Middle Eastern women. The short stories could all be talking about the same person at different times in their life. The author Daisy Al-Amir lends to us her insight into the various issues facing women in the Middle East. Each story, though short, leaves us with a lasting impression that is emotional and thought provoking. "The Umbrella" tells what it is like to be a woman who lives for the approval of her spouse with no self-image. Her friend finds her walking in the rain but barely recognizes her because of her bad appearance. The story called "Weeping" was about a mysterious weeping at night and no one was able to tell where it was coming from. In this story, our heroin brings a different meaning to being in touch with nature. I like the creativity in the weeping. In "A Doctor's Prescription" the woman used intelligence for the wrong reason. I want to withhold what she did because it would be giving the story away. Nonetheless, it shows an intelligent woman who lost hope. "A Crutch in the Head" brings to us a female who confronted her husband with the issues that made her unhappy.

What I liked most about this book was the author Daisey Al-Amir. She was strong enough to cross boundaries and bring us stories that appeal to people all over the world. During times of war in her own solitude she reached outside herself to create. I feel a kindred spirit with her and I appreciate the different sides of women that she was able to portray through her short stories. The stories were in depth enough to be interesting and short enough for us not to get bored.

Rating:
Summary: The Waiting List - An Iraqi Woman's Tales of Alienation
Review: The Waiting List is a book that depicts the emotional struggles of Middle Eastern women. The short stories could all be talking about the same person at different times in their life. The author Daisy Al-Amir lends to us her insight into the various issues facing women in the Middle East. Each story, though short, leaves us with a lasting impression that is emotional and thought provoking. "The Umbrella" tells what it is like to be a woman who lives for the approval of her spouse with no self-image. Her friend finds her walking in the rain but barely recognizes her because of her bad appearance. The story called "Weeping" was about a mysterious weeping at night and no one was able to tell where it was coming from. In this story, our heroin brings a different meaning to being in touch with nature. I like the creativity in the weeping. In "A Doctor's Prescription" the woman used intelligence for the wrong reason. I want to withhold what she did because it would be giving the story away. Nonetheless, it shows an intelligent woman who lost hope. "A Crutch in the Head" brings to us a female who confronted her husband with the issues that made her unhappy.

What I liked most about this book was the author Daisey Al-Amir. She was strong enough to cross boundaries and bring us stories that appeal to people all over the world. During times of war in her own solitude she reached outside herself to create. I feel a kindred spirit with her and I appreciate the different sides of women that she was able to portray through her short stories. The stories were in depth enough to be interesting and short enough for us not to get bored.