The Alchemy of Illness

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Summary: "Oh, yes, I remember this place"
Review: "Oh, yes, I remember this place" (a quote from the book) are words that I think of whenever I begin to feel the twinge of illness settling in to my life. Kat Duff is an excellent author and wrote a captivating and well-researched book. There are too few books written about something so common as illness and this is the best I have read. I keep this book by my nightstand and break it out whenever I feel illness approaching.

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Summary: "Oh, yes, I remember this place"
Review: "Oh, yes, I remember this place" (a quote from the book) are words that I think of whenever I begin to feel the twinge of illness settling in to my life. Kat Duff is an excellent author and wrote a captivating and well-researched book. There are too few books written about something so common as illness and this is the best I have read. I keep this book by my nightstand and break it out whenever I feel illness approaching.

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Summary: Transfixing, Startling and True
Review: I have had CFS for 10 years and have endlessly struggled to understand why the person I have become no longer "works' in the world out there. Katt Duff sheds a beautiful, gentle and insightful light on this question in her beautifully written account of the nature of illness. It is more than this though, it is a spellbindingly familliar (to those of us who are ill) account of the EXPERIENCE of being ill. In short I wept for myself when I read this book but was also profoundly relieved to, at last, make sense of an experience for which we are so little prepared, is profoundly affecting, and yet which is likely to come to us all one day - namely - being ill. A beautiful book. Read it if you are yourself unwell, if you want to understand someone close to you who is unwell, or if you just want to learn more about all aspects of the human condition: the inner as well as the outer, the dark as well as the light, the soft as well as the strong.

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Summary: How wonderful to find someone who knows exactly how I feel
Review: I started this book and was instantly caught up in the feeling-"She knows me, how is this possible?" The book is written with almost a poet's viewpoint of illness, but there is such love and comfort in it. Most of all, Kat knows what it feels like to hope and pray that "perhaps it was just for one time and it won't happen again". I know that this is what I think, everytime I am hit with another "flare" of fibromyalgia. I always think that perhaps this will be the last one. She also allows herself to finally give in to the feeling of chronic illness, to sink into the dark place; something that is so difficult to do! I felt as if I had written so much of it, myself, as she writes of "trying to get as much done as possible" on days when the illness is in remission--fully aware that a payment will be due, for overdoing. I do not agree with some of her "new age" philosophy aproaches, but it works for her and everyone must find his or her own way. I too, know what it feels like to feel the beginning of "it" coming on and refusing to admit what is happening and as" it" progresses, to finally just allow" it" to have it's way and sink into this void that is chronic illness. Kat also makes a wonderful point of stating that only people with an illness can truly appreciate "good health", as we never take a day for granted, when we feel wonderful. It is not the" norm", so therefore, it is so much more special. Obviously, healthy people never know what a gift, they have been handed. I also agree that when one is hit by a chronic illness, it allows us to stop and be quiet, to be able to reflect on life, our inner self and the beauty of God's nature, that perhaps we would not have bothered to do, if we had been able to keep on going at a breakneck pace. Therefore, there is some comfort in illness, that perhaps healthy people don't experience. I think this book is a "must read" for anyone with a chronic illness, as it gives permission to be ill, without having to constantly feel obliged to make excuses for all of the "whys" we must give, for broken vacations, visits and the necessity of changing the way we live--even when others don't understand --because, of course--"You don't look like you are ill" is heard so often by people with chronic illnesses.