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Summary: Takes the "spookiness" out of DID
Review: I am astounded by the last reviewer' comments (from Fresno, California), and sincerely hope he is not a therapist himself who treats DID clients. Who is more credible: a successful professional who understands DID first-hand, or a researcher with second-hand knowledge at best? The effectiveness of therapy should be measured by the achievements of the client, not the therapist. The authors do not discount peer-reviewed DID literature, and urge DID therapists to stay abreast in this rapidly changing field. "Amongst Ourselves" has a profound ring of truth and authenticity. What struck me most was how respectful the book is towards individuals with DID. The authors understand this condition from the inside out, and explain it in a simple, logical, straightforward manner (that might conceivably be harmful to the egos of certain psychiatrists). Their down-to-earth, practical viewpoint takes the "spookiness" out of the disorder. Since essentially all individuals with DID underwent childhood trauma, and trauma exists in all gradations of severity, one would expect correspondingly many gradations of DID. I consider myself sub-clinically DID (I can argue my way through the DSM IV criteria, with some stretching). DID metaphors illuminate the survival function of psychological quirks that previously baffled me, and provide practical strategies for coping with them. I highly recommend this book to anyone. Even if you do not have DID, you may gain radical insight into your internal psychology.
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Summary: Takes the "spookiness" out of DID
Review: I am astounded by the last reviewer' comments (from Fresno, California), and sincerely hope he is not a therapist himself who treats DID clients. Who is more credible: a successful professional who understands DID first-hand, or a researcher with second-hand knowledge at best? The effectiveness of therapy should be measured by the achievements of the client, not the therapist. The authors do not discount peer-reviewed DID literature, and urge DID therapists to stay abreast in this rapidly changing field. "Amongst Ourselves" has a profound ring of truth and authenticity. What struck me most was how respectful the book is towards individuals with DID. The authors understand this condition from the inside out, and explain it in a simple, logical, straightforward manner (that might conceivably be harmful to the egos of certain psychiatrists). Their down-to-earth, practical viewpoint takes the "spookiness" out of the disorder. Since essentially all individuals with DID underwent childhood trauma, and trauma exists in all gradations of severity, one would expect correspondingly many gradations of DID. I consider myself sub-clinically DID (I can argue my way through the DSM IV criteria, with some stretching). DID metaphors illuminate the survival function of psychological quirks that previously baffled me, and provide practical strategies for coping with them. I highly recommend this book to anyone. Even if you do not have DID, you may gain radical insight into your internal psychology.
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Summary: INFORMATIVE
Review: I bought this book with two others. When I got it, I didn't think I was going to like it very much. However, I really enjoyed this book and refer to it often. I much prefer this book to "Stranger in the Mirror". This book explains beautifully the challanges of DID, what it is, and how to cope in a very simple and underestand manner. This book is very clear and full of short personal experiences. I felt that the authors both really understand the DID experience. The one draw back which I think is very crucial to our recovery is the authors own views regarding therapy and therapists which I believe should remain their opinions and not be stated in the book. If I did not have an outstanding therapist, I would be very insecure about getting one after their remarks. The other down side of this book is that I felt that not enough attention is stated regarding integration. I felt as if the author was resigned to keeping the alters as part of her family. That was very disturbing. All in all, I really liked the book because of the information that was presented was clear and simple to follow. I will use this book constantly as a vital reference and just leave what doesn't work for me. I would recommend this book highly.
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Summary: Understanding DID
Review: I found this book to be very informative as well as helpful for myself as one who lives with DID/MPD....Tracy Alderman has written this book in such a way that you can actually understand what she is talking about. When you live with DID....and you try to find more information to help your loved ones and significant others to understand, often the books you find are so techinical. This book is written down to earth and understandable. I recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn more. Whether you are a Multiple or a *singleton*....this book will be one that you want.
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Summary: Useful ... Time to challenge the world of "disorders"
Review: I read this book and it has helped me so much. I do not have DID, but am working with a woman I sponsor in a 12 step program. Our relationship has broadened to include (necessarily) her DID and self harm issues. This book is a very good place to start if you are just learning of your diagnosis, or someone you love is struggling with it. It is written in simple language, and the exercises are really beneficial. My "baby" and I have done a few so far and plan to do more. It is reassuring to her that there are others out there who not only suffer from DID, but have survived and conquered daily living with this disorder. I cannot recommend this book enough as a common sense, straightforward entry level into the world of DID. Thank you, Karen & Tracy, for your courage and your willingness to share your experience with us. You have helped more than you could know.!
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Summary: Basic, but well rounded
Review: If you are a trauma-based multiple looking for some tips on how to develop co-consciousness or even how to communicate with the rest of those in your system, this book may be a good starting point for you. It is filled with basic exercises that should help you get a bit farther down the road.
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Summary: Very Basic For Someone Who's Had DID
Review: This book is good in the sense that it explains alot to the newly diagnosed or their significant other. However, I found that most if it was just asking you to answer questions in your journal and telling you what you already know (If you've had DID for more than 6 months). Easy read though.
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Summary: This Book is Our Friend.
Review: We had read everything we could get our hands on about MPD, hoping to find something we could use both as a therapeutic source for ourselves and a resource to share with important people in our life.This book not only does just that, but most importantly, it consistantly exudes respect for the multiple as a whole as well as for each alter. Rosalee, one of the alters of one of the authors, describes various facets of living with MPD with honesty and candor. We feel that this book should be distributed like World War Two propaganda: out of low-flying airplanes, to the masses.
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Summary: An incredible gift to anyone whose life is touched by DID.
Review: When I first began my process of dealing with my being DID, I read everything I could find on the disorder. But nothing I read, until this book, gave me insight into how to manage my life. This book helps me live my life better each and everyday. I hope that for others with this disorder, this is the first book on the subject that they read. It gives me such hope! Thank you Karen and Tracy.
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