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Summary: Funny and Informative
Review: I couldn't read this book on my lunch hour, but I was very entertained by it at all other times.This book was so fun to read, I read it out loud to my friends (who made grunting noises to please me). I reccommend it. :)
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Summary: A great read
Review: I read Dan Savage's column every week and I'm always surprised by the people who write to him. This book showcases some of the funniest, disturbing and surprising letters people have written to him. Grown men who have intercourse with their mothers, siblings who have a sexual relationship, men and women with extremely strange fetishes, bisexual-transgender folks; it's all in there. With a few exceptions, I find Dan Savage's cutting remarks to the letters hilarous, especially when some of these people ask unbelievable stupid questions. Even though the book is about 300 pages, you'll find yourself swiftly reading through them just to get to the next outlandish question.
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Summary: hilarious, makes a great gift
Review: I'd never heard of Dan Savage, but saw his book in a shop and it looked interesting so I bought it. The book was a revelation: the idea that a gay, young man can be the sexual 'dear abby' to so many people (gays & MOSTLY straights! ) telling them when, how and why to do it and not do it, is pretty exciting. Savage writes well, clearly, simply and, when he wants to be, is always very funny. I just bought his latest book, "The Kid" and look forward to reading it, too.
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Summary: Cranky, crass and wildly funny.
Review: I've been reading Dan Savage for several years now, and couldn't have been happier than to see so much of his writing assembled in one convenient package (toting around all those back issues of the New York Press was getting my hands all newsprinty...). Dan isn't particularly groundbreaking in his advice. Fortunately, that isn't necessary; most of the people who write into him seem to be candidates for the Darwin Awards. When he's mean, it's usually deserved. The wonder is in the humor. Yes, the column is usually more about Dan Savage than anything else, but of course that's the subtext of most good essayists and all good comedians. Were we as interesting or funny as Dan we might also be paid to write about ourselves, but since we aren't, we put our efforts into macrame or geneology or philately. Or dreadful websites that make family Christmas letters look like Henry James. The oddest criticism, however, is the suggestion he has no morals. (The real criticism, of course, is that his morals are different from the reader's, but that point always seems to escape these people.) In fact, Dan wears his morals on his shirt sleeve, and they're often not that much different from a lot of folks': honesty, fairness, fidelity, prudence. My only question: why hasn't he moved to New York? He'd fit in much better here. I should know, I left Seattle!
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Summary: Look, it's just an advice column. But a very funny one.
Review: Opinions on this book seem to fall into one of three categories: 1) Dan Savage is a god and his advice is perfect. Everyone must read these pearls of ultimate wisdom. 2) Dan Savage is entertaining, and people with a sense of humor about sex should read his book. 3) Dan Savage is a sick, twisted, perverted moron. No one should touch his disgusting book. Well, since that's pretty much the spectrum of opinions about sex, too, no surprises there. But who is right? Well, Dan Savage is not a god, and he's not always right. Pay attention to the introduction, where he explains his, um, qualifications. Pay attention to the parts where he explains his take on this - that it's advice, not orders, and it's done for entertainment, not enlightment. Pay attention to the columns with stupid mistakes, folks, 'cause he included them for a reason. And while I'm not gonna make any judgement call about Dan Savage's moral state (he may well be sick, twisted, perverted, whatever), nor can I make any calls about his mental state (maybe he is just a moron with a really good editor), I can say this: he's answering the letters he gets from his readers in the way that his readers like. So obviously his audience can handle this content and this style. If you aren't in his audience, why are you buying this book? To burn it later? What a waste of good paper, and, incidentally, what a good way to hand money to a guy you apparently hate. I incline to the second opinion category. It is funny - the answers have the right ratio of wit to information (20:1), and the letters are usually hysterical. (Even Savage, who often manages to make honesty sound like an ego trip, admits that the letters he gets are usually funnier than the responses he writes.) Honestly, haven't you wondered who writes to advice columnists? And haven't you wondered, reading advice columns, how some of these people ever manage to find the toilet without help, let alone getting a pen and paper and actually writing something? Well, Savage says to them in print what you've been saying in your head for years. And that's great fun. Don't buy Savage Love as the ultimate guide to sex. Most of his advice is either exceptionally basic, something everyone knows except young teenagers and members of certain religious groups, or it's exceptionally esoteric, something only a few people would ever want or need to know. Certainly don't buy it if you're one of those deathly dull people who takes sex seriously all the time, because you'll be offended by every page of this book. And don't buy it if it's going to make you rant about perversity, because that's pointless, since no one is listening except people who agree with you already. Buy it for the style - read a few of his columns first to make sure you like the style - or buy it for the joy of laughing at people who think like you did when you were 13.
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Summary: Too Smug says it all
Review: Our culture is so in the dark about sexuality that we make it easy for Dan Savage to unload his ultra-sharp wit while simultaneously educating our pants off. Savage will answer any question for the sake of education. For this alone, you'll read his responses to questions you already know the answers for. This book even had a few questions that would never have occured to me to ask!
I recommend it for anyone who is curious about sexuality, loves a good laugh and is mystified by the silliness of other human beings. He gives good advice that you'll pass onto your friends, even if it is with a laugh.
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Summary: Read in moderation
Review: Read this book based on a friend's recommendation. While it is at times witty and funny, the collection of essays gets boring after awhile. I kept picking it up and putting it down. Inevest some casual reading time with it, but always have another book on deck. You can go back and forth with this one.
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Summary: Excellent Entertainment From a Smart and Witty Author
Review: Savage's book culls the best from his witty columns. He's a gifted writer and offers some genuinely excellent advice on an amazing range of topics. It really shows Savage at his best and provides a good laugh along with lots of thought provoking prose. To those of you thinking this book is all about Dan, you're wrong. While it's often about his opinions, isn't that what people writing for advice are seeking? Further, he often includes follow-up letters from readers providing alternative views to his own advice. Read this book not just for what Savage has to say, but for what the hundreds of others have said in their (often highly amusing) letters. If you've never read any of Savage's work, and enjoy brash advice columns, you're in for a treat. Even if you've been reading his column, you should still check out this "best of" book. You'd be hard pressed to find this much wit, advice and reading entertainment anywhere else.
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Summary: Wish I'd had this book when growing up!
Review: What guts Dan Savage has! Finally, someone who will actually give real answers to people's questions. Sex is one of our most basic instincts, the driving force behind sports, love, romance, daily activity and most relationships. Most people pussyfoot around reality, asking indirect questions and getting less than direct answers. Dan gets to the real issues and gets people to talk about what they're really worried about. Every high school student in America would be well-served to have such information available, in my opinion, and I wish I'd had this book to read when I was growing up. The book is so very funny - I picked it up in Cleveland last fall and for awhile carried it with me on business flights. I had to stop reading the book on planes because I was causing such a comotion with my spontaneous outbursts of laughter. If you only read the book for the humor it's worthwhile but if you don't use the information and take it to heart, you're a fool. Excellent book!
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