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Rating: ![5 stars](http://www.reviewfocus.com/images/stars-5-0.gif) Summary: Wish I had this book when I was no....instead of 50! Review: I love the fact that the book is written by a husband and wife - together - that fact alone exemplifies the intimacy and comfort that led to the details of the book. It is a relief to me to know that men can and do get it - that sex is not a purely physcial act, but a loving and spiritual one that creates trust and a bond that last a lifetime. That Mark was willing to share and write a book on it with his wife says a lot about his character and the quality of their relationship.They are both open, frank and shed some light on what men feel when they are trying to please their lover and what women need and want and how they can get it. The pictures are well drawn and tasteful and there is a lot of thought and detail in the book.
Rating: ![4 stars](http://www.reviewfocus.com/images/stars-4-0.gif) Summary: still going! Review: I loved this book. I think it is very hard to find books that have trustworthy self-help information in them these days. This book definatelyt came in on the clutch to save the game. I cannot recommend it enough!
Rating: ![1 stars](http://www.reviewfocus.com/images/stars-1-0.gif) Summary: feminist hogwash Review: no time for all that female org business...just be glad you get to enjoy it til he's done!
Rating: ![4 stars](http://www.reviewfocus.com/images/stars-4-0.gif) Summary: a manual in technique. good for everyone. Review: Other reviews for this title seem to be written by anonymous men and fueled by sour grapes. No book will make you a great lover, especially if you're not interested in what it asks you to do. No, their partners do not cause all of the sexual problems in women, but some can be solved'regardless. This book isn't about pointing fingers in blame. It's about giving pleasure...that's all. This book is a GREAT guide for oral sex, and really only touches lightly on anything else (to avoid redundancy, according to the authors. To paraphrase, "many great books have been written on technique in intercourse'" etc). The authors were very specific in the problems pleasing most women, orally and otherwise. It addresses that all women are different, there's nothing that will work on everyone, and tips on how to find out what your female partner enjoys. Even men (and women) that *think* they know how to satisfy a woman would learn something from this sensitive, well-written book. It's full of sexy secrets that will bring something new to bed...or improve old acts. WARNING!!! THIS BOOK IS ALL ABOUT PLEASING WOMEN, mostly orally. If you're expecting anything but a book telling you how to UNSELFISHLY please a woman... look elsewhere. I think the title covers that, but some people just don't seem to understand. This is a technical guide on how to cause the female orgasm. Almost every page has artful, but very helpful, illustrations. I also like the *very* open ideas this book supports exploring (anal stimulation, for example). The book is written for men, to use on women, it translates well for women to use on other women, too. The sections discussing penetration with the penis could easily be done with the hands, or device. The oral and hand stimulation sections need no translation. My only true complaint about this book is size. It's a very large book. It's a pretty quick read, and easy to understand, but it won't fit on my bookshelf. It's more of a coffee-table book. What a thrill to your guests if *this* was in your living room. In summary: this book could have been called "get her off: a diagrammed tutorial on how to use your mouth, hands, and body to make a woman orgasm" but it you'll have to lay it horizontally in your book case.
Rating: ![2 stars](http://www.reviewfocus.com/images/stars-2-0.gif) Summary: Repetitive, biased, juvenile Review: This book is for 5-year olds. It takes about 30 minutes to read. Most of the book is really just sob stories about a woman who has never been sexually satisfied. Boohoo. Half this book is just simple common sense: talk to your partner so you know what they like. Really that's all this book boils down to. But they like to throw the blame at the men, like it's our fault that women won't tell us what they'd like different, or that it is at least our responsibility to correct it. I guess the latter is reasonable. This book is written for men mainly, and the way the authors repeat their point endlessly makes one feel like he is being talked down to. This book has an obvious "princess feminist" bias. Though I understand it should be a bit slanted, as its title is "the art of the FEMALE orgasm", it still strikes me how much they stress the complete satisfaction of the woman. It's not like women do a whole lot during sex to maximize a guy's experience besides moaning and a lot of other theater. There are certain passages which seem selfish on the part of the female author. Next to a diagram of a woman on top during sex, there is a caption that says the only downside to this position is "the woman doing most of the work." What about ALL the other positions where the man is doing ALL of the work? The female author sounds a lot like a princess. Lastly, there's my beef with the illustrations. They constitute a fairly large portion of the book (at least 33%), and, despite being pretty and aesthetically pleasing, offer little outside of an update of where the g-spot is at any given time. Here, I'll sum up all the parts of the book (including the illustrations) about intercourse: Find the g-spot with your penis, and then rub it a lot. Make sure to do all the work. Then when she is happy you can come." This book makes me think I'm having sex with either a nanny or a 13-year-old. Both of which are appetizing. But it is inappropriate. Really, this book could have been crammed easily into a 10 page pamphlet: Page 1: "Hi I'm on Sex and the City" Page 2: "Hi I'm a nasty-ass jazz musician" Page 3: Most women have bad sex lives Page 4: It's your fault Page 5: Talk to your partner, so you know what they like/Common Sense Page 6: Oral Sex Page 7: Picture time!/Hit the G-spot Page 8: Hit the G-Spot some more Page 9: Common Sense Page 10: More common sense is this book really worth 20 dollars? hell no. it's half-assed in everything.
Rating: ![1 stars](http://www.reviewfocus.com/images/stars-1-0.gif) Summary: feminist hogwash Review: This book really provided some deep insight into the art of orgasm. I really enjoyed the illustrations and descriptive explanations. I much more at ease with my performance in "the sack". My partner Pedro thanks Kim as well. Shout out to Kim Cattrell. I love you girl! Props to those who buy this book,i think it is an essential part of the female library.
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