Overcoming Stage Fright In Everyday Life

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Summary: Overcoming Stage Fright in Everyday Life
Review: Although I came to this book with the hope of overcoming my anxiety while performing piano recitals, I benefitted beyond my expectation. I am a new student to piano but in my 40s, so the prospect of sounding like the student I am, was frightening. As I read the book, I became more and more aware that my anxiety was much less than the type of stage fright addressed by the author; a very useful insight, indeed. As I proceeded through the rest of the book I had an epiphany not related to stage fright, yet extremely useful. Therefore, I recommend reading this book, even for mild anxiety, since Ms. Ashley's method may lead to deeper and more important issues.

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Summary: A life changing book
Review: I have had a SEVERE fear of public speaking for most of my life (started in teens, persisted into 40's). When I say, "severe," I mean a kind of panic where the possibility of having to speak to people would cause me to bolt out of the room (I'd make an excuse afterwards). Actually, I dreaded any kind of public attention at all (e.g., walking up the podium to accept a diploma). Well, things kind of came to a head this past year with my career (mid-level executive at Fortune 500 company). Somehow, I've avoided having to speak much on my way up (I'm a CPA and have gotten by with technical skills)--but became aware that my extraordinary fear was completely preventing me from rising any higher in my organization.

So, I tried every "cure" available (rational emotive therapy; flooding; Callahan techniques and EFT; EMDR; in vivo sensitizaton; etc.). Nothing worked---until I bought this book and did the therapy contained therein.

Make no mistake about it: it's hard work. As a matter of fact, I had to work through all the exercises twice until I found my "cure." It's emotional, draining, difficult work, but effective, effective, effective. Yet, the exercises are life altering. They are unlike typical therapy. They tap into a deep part of you that terrorizes you and sustains the fear and panic. Doing the exercises neutralizes the fear. The release is cathartic and palpable.

The proof? I did my second go-around with the exercises during the past month and successfully completed a solo two hour presentation (with Q&A) to twenty top executives at the Marriott today. I handled the presentation like a seasoned pro. A miracle? Yes. Why? Because I was so petrified at the prospect of simply having to introduce myself to the same group of executives last year that I faked coming down with the flu and left the meeting!

So, in conclusion, if you're tired of "quick fixes" that don't work and are ready to do some REAL work to REALLY conquer your social fears, BUY this book and do the exercises religiously. Remember that my fears were severe--so severe that just having my name called for attendance in college classes used to put me in a panic.

Good luck on your journey...

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Summary: A life changing book
Review: While reading her book, you feel you are having a session with Ms. Ashley. She is so immediate in her approach to this subject, you can almost hear her voice urging you to find that which has eluded you for most of your life. She approaches Jung's work the way Jung must has been with his own patients, not by using jargony phrases, but by helping the reader understand what a relationship to the unconscious really means.

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Summary: This book has helped my clients greatly
Review: While reading her book, you feel you are having a session with Ms. Ashley. She is so immediate in her approach to this subject, you can almost hear her voice urging you to find that which has eluded you for most of your life. She approaches Jung's work the way Jung must has been with his own patients, not by using jargony phrases, but by helping the reader understand what a relationship to the unconscious really means.