Extended Massive Orgasm: How You Can Give and Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure

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Summary: Real "HOW-TO" Not a thin read for the toliet or airplane!
Review: A Gentleman's take on EMO:

Every book has negative reviews. But the ones in here for this book must come from people who definitely did NOT READ THE BOOK!

If you are looking for a smut book, this is not it. If you are looking for some magical gimmick, there are none in life.

The Bodansky's put out their first book on ESO, (now EMO), back in the early 80s. I thank god for it! Otherwise I would have never known all these years what a couple could earn if they are willing to learn. It is so sad that so few have any idea what Great Sex really means.

This is not a book that is going to give you some quick gimmicks to quick orgasms; or some 'new position' that will light you on fire. (It's so funny to hear when some people equate the mystery of great sex to some mystery position).

One caveat: If your partner isn't likely to try something like this, you'll simply need to upgrade to a newer and more versatile model. For the most part, the benefits of this book require the full participation of both parties, (not one).

In summary: This book goes into the physiology & psychology of intimacy, (trust building exercises to how to control and enhance the partners level of arousal). This newer edition expands greatly on the first!

If only this book was distributed like books of faith, most of our world's problems and pains would be gone.

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Summary: A Passionate Book
Review: First a disclaimer: this book is about one thing and one thing only - manual genital stimulation, and primarily female at that. If that is not of interest to you don't buy it, you will be dissapointed. There are no new intercourse positions or secret oral sex methods contained in it. Not only that, but the techniques contained are actually quite simple and unadorned, almost obvious if so many of us hadn't received such misinformed socialization. BUT if you are interested in deeply pleasuring your (female) partner, if you are interested in the sexual concept of "doing", if you are open-minded to perhaps a new way of experiencing and expressing your sexuality and that of your partner, then , by all means, read this book. In it you will not only find a refreshingly simple approach to pleasuring your partner, but also a great deal of coherent thought (mostly) on why you might want to do that, and why, indeed, your partner might view that as a valid pursuit and herself a deserving recipient of such focused and sustained effort. We men I'm afraid often underestimate the significance of this latter concern for our female partners, partners who have been conditioned through a lifetime of disinformation and preventative avoidance to not recognize the joy they may bring to a relationship simply by embracing their own birthright pleasure, and encouraging and educating their male partners to actively help them attain it, as they actively relax into the sensations their own bodies are capable of providing them. As well, we men seldom recognize the deep satisfaction to be derived from feeling fully engaged and truly competent in the pleasuring of a partner, and more generally caring for and nurturing her, all decidedly unmodern (and unmanly?) ideas. This simple concept, so blindingly obvious, is the heart of "doing" - a silly term perhaps, but a worthwhile skill and endeavor for any couple seeking increased contentment. Pleasure is the gift and the glue that nature or the deity has provided us to cement our bond in shared moments of bliss. Not to suggest that sexual pleasure can solve all ills, but done well it certainly can't hurt now can it, to experience on a visceral level the wonderous sensations a generous and giving partner can offer, and too the deep sense of satisfaction a truly contented partner may evoke in the giver.

The techniques in this book are sparsely illustrated by not the greatest of drawings. The authors have a subsequent book that promises better illustrations. I haven't seen it but if you tend to be flummoxed by complicated geomtries you may find that helpful. I really see this book as almost providing more of the philosophy of "doing" than a great deal of detailed methodology; though, the basics are certainly here. In many ways once the concept is embraced the techniques may flow from practice, as feedback-guided learning is a key element in this method (ie - ya gotta talk before, during, and after). One addition I wouldn't hesitate to recommend is combining this practice with vibrator and g spot play which is completely complementary. For those women who may require a bit higher level of sensation to reach lift off, the results will be guarantee of success. And alternating the two may provide for an incredibly blissful sustained event, both for the recipient and the less fatigued giver. (See Betty Dodson's books or videos for guidance there). Once the orgasmic threshold has been reached many of these techniques (not to mention others) may show higher effectiveness in subsequent stimulation. So fasten your seatbelts dearies, it's going to be a bumpy ride!!! But one worth every sighing, moaning, writhing, and giggling minute.

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Summary: A Better Couple in Every Way
Review: Hi everyone, I've read this Book EMO, and I found out too many imporant information about couples. It teaches you about how to deal with daily things and non so daily too. It helped me understand my girlfriend in ways like the ones of the Mesntrual Cycle and the way you have to treat women. Now I can say that sex is not just something ordinary, it's a great thing to do!!!! If you mix this book with the love you have for your couple you'll get the best tool ever to suceed as such. It also helped me in being a best person.
Now I really know what women want, and that's not just jelwery or shoes, it's Attention, Care and, above all, Love. If you don't buy and read this book, you'll be wasting a lot of time trying to deal with her (him) with the knowledge people have about the opposite sex.
Try to buy it and read it, your partner will thank you a lot and you'll be glad because your performance in bed and out of it too (as a couple during daily life), will raise 100 points, and even more, if you two read this book together. Because it's not just for men to understand women, but for women too to understand a bit more about themselves and us, men. Loves You All, Your Friend From Far Away.

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Summary: GREAT INFORMATION IN THIS BOOK
Review: I read this book out of curiousity and I'm glad I did. We all know that sex releases stress, menstral cramps, headaches and helps with insomia. This hands-on guide describes how to give and receive remarkable orgasms, taking the experience of sex to a new level of enjoyment. The book focuses primarily on women but it does address the needs of men as well, they cover anatomy in detail, address inhibitions and fears, suggest useful exercises, recommend the best positions, and most of all offer insightful advice for every technique covered. The author's focus on how and where to touch a partner to produce the most pleasure. No matter how long a couple has been together, it's never too late, or too early , to greatly enhance sexual response. I enjoyed this book.

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Summary: Wow, I thought I knew it all
Review: I wondered if this would just be a rehash of stuff I already knew. I was wrong. It's simply fantastic. I've been studying the female anatomy since I was 15, starting with the Hite Report. I've read books on tantric sex, The Joy of Sex, I've read all the sites I could on better sex. I've even gotten those Better Sex videos. Nothing came close (sorry for the pun!) to this book for my wife and me. I took her to new heights in only the first few times we used the methods described (pay attention to 1:00, oh boy)...and she was used to hitting some pretty high places. She's also begun to understand the potential of my physical sensations and to pay more attention to *my* pleasure instead of the wham-bam stuff.

Best of all, it increased our intimacy by a huge factor. And she loves me so much more for caring enough to buy this book for us. Okay, it's mostly a female-pleasing book, but there is a lot of great info in here for us guys. And for making the most of your relationship. Get it, be honest and open in the sack (and everywhere else) and see what happens. Again, wow.

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Summary: what a beautiful world
Review: I've stumbled through a countless number of love-making experiences in my life. I hoped that Steve and Vera Bodansky's, "Extended Massive Orgasm" would put an end to that, but it didn't. Since reading this book, I have found myself trying to be a "Superman" in the bedroom. But I'm not a Superman, I'm a regular guy, like everybody else, just trying to give and receive a satisfying orgasm.

While attempting the suggested techniques, my lover and I were put in some awkward, confusing, and sometimes painful positions. I suppose with a little practice, these techniques could be used to achieve amazing levels of pleasure, but don't expect it to happen overnight.

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Summary: Informative but the Title Is Misleading
Review: On page one, Dr. Steve Bodansky says that his first words to his wife were, "My name is Steve, and I'd love to do you."

Now don't anyone tell me Steve wasn't trying to make people like me laugh just so he could say, "Hey, man, if you think that's funny it's only because you're out of harmony with your own sexuality." I'm not complaining though. If that's the attitude it takes to write a 200-page book on the details of sex that few people ever talk about but everyone wishes they knew, so be it. I don't care who you are, you will learn some helpful things from this book. It explains in detail the purpose and function of all those parts of the genitalia that leave most members of the opposite sex (whatever that happens to be) kind of confused.

The book's one major flaw is that the authors define orgasm to mean any heightened state of sexual arousal, not just climax. So they make it sound like they have discovered some forbidden secret when they claim orgasms can last for hours, but all they really mean is that it is possible to stay turned on for a really long time. The term "Extended Massive Orgasm" is just a marketing gimic, but the book is still very worthwhile.

I'm not sure how useful gays or lesbians will find this book, since its main value is in helpling people understand how the other sex's plumbing system works.

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Summary: Real "HOW-TO" Not a thin read for the toliet or airplane!
Review: This book is an instrumental source towards female liberation in the greatest sense. The Bodanskys crumble patriarchy with their emphasis on female pleasure and orgasm. Pleasure is a broad term that transfers from the bedroom to positively influence every other aspect of life. It teaches people in a very compassionate and empathetic manner to love yourself first, communicate and live from and out of your truest desires...which are all possible! Let's leave the puritanical work ethic behind--why not work and live life with joy, PLEASURE, and lots and lots of love! Who could ask for anything more--well perhaps abundance, which the Bondanskys are also no shame about--lots and lots of orgasms or just one long one and lots and lots of pleasure! Hey, time to take our pleasure seriously (in a fun sort of way). This not only boosts women's moral, confidence, and feelings, but also that of men--as they say, when men center their attention on female pleasure, women take men to places they never ever could have gone alone! Althoug this book, techniques they share, and the beliefs they purport are critical to female liberation, there is no second guessing that when women are free, men and children as well as society/governments also receive the flow of excitment and joy that women are born to live from and express! Enjoy! Let's change society, relationships, ourselves by giving ourselves a chance to experience joy--Men are you along for the ride? You'll miss out if you aren't...and we don't want that to happen, now do we.

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Summary: An Instant Classic
Review: wow....before i bought this book my orgasms were quite mediocere and had no punch. Every time I would get with some girl it was embarrasing, getting the job done in merely 27 seconds. But now, thanks to Steve Bodansky, we push it to the limit every night. I now have a completely new look on life; i grew a mullet, bought myself some classic trio ice cream, and the intensity never stops. My girlfriend says i can please her as well as her Apple Pectin shampoo. I'm a real beast now! The greatest thing is being able to sit down, watch Pete Kelley's Blues, and give your girlfriend everything you've got all at the same time. I mean, one day my retinas almost detached i came so hard! It's utter intensity.