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Summary: Mind body link
Review: Great book with lots of providing lots of insight to all the things we carry with us from childhood and adulthood that affect the way we handle infertility. It helped me face my fears and realize how my families attitudes towards pregnancy and failure have affected me. Highly reccommend...
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Summary: a book for the thinking woman.
Review: I bought this book because I have been married for 10 years and have no children with my husband, I had a teenage pregnancy and placed my daughter with an adoptive family. I have no diagnosis as to why I can't conceive. According to Doctors there is nothing wrong, go home relax, try weight watchers. This is the first book that looks at the emotional baggage we all carry. For the first time I am dealing with my infertility not as a physical unknown problem but as a layered emotional wall that stands between me and my future children. For those of us who think about and feel things deeply there is a lot that can be learned from this book. Our childhood follows us into adulthood, even if we tell it not too. Our teenage years of rebellion continue into our adulthood long after we have had our last emposed curfue. Some how we are still rebelling against our parental influences just on another level. "I won't ever be a parent like mine were." "I don't hold the same truths about children and growing up that my parents do." "I'll never be as good a parent as my parents think I should be." This book allows you to systematically look into all the corners of your heart and find out what is really preventing you from moving into the next stage of living. I am really glad that I took the chance on this book. I highly recommend it for all those who over think things and tend to have strong emotions that run deep on most subjects.
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Summary: Not for everyone
Review: I purchased this book since I haven't been able to conceive after many years of trying, and it was recommended in "Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom". I believe in the mind/body connection but there is an inherent risk in focusing on this: we feel even MORE guilty when we don't conceive since it MUST be in our minds! This book is written in a very positive, supportive tone, however.I was turned off by the focus on older, "professional" infertile women and lesbian couples. Why not give examples of a more average type of woman? I understand that these minority groups need support and perhaps their stories exemplified what the author was trying to convey, but I just couldn't relate to them. I also have a hard time believing that the mind is to blame for all ailments. One example is a woman with "hard" eggs who became a softer person and got pregnant. Please! Perhaps unbalanced hormones are caused by an unbalanced psyche but I hesitate to blame my "family patterns" for my fibroid, polyps and blocked tubes. I tried doing the suggested exercises but found myself yawning and procrastinating. Hopping on the wings of a butterfly...all I could think of was that the butterfly's wings were going to break and I would fall to my death in the lovely meadow below. I would only recommend this book to women who have unexplained infertility, especially older women.
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Summary: The Whole Person Fertility Program
Review: I whole-heartedly recommend this book and its results. In addition to reading this book I went through about two years of therapy with Niravi, which changed my life. I think the readers who interpreted what she is saying with the attitude that if you don't get pregnant by following what she suggests, that it's all in your mind, and it's your fault, have it all wrong. That is exactly the thinking that I was stuck in, and had created as a self-blame mechanism that I carried around with me all of my life. Her goal is not to have you blame yourself, but to look at your life and try to understand how and why you have come to have the beliefs that you do, which may not be your fault at all. They can be very strong family influences, work influences and society influences that keep you and your mind locked in patterns of behavior that affect how your body responds to stress, illness or disease. I believe the mind has a huge affect on your health and how well your body works, and I believe medicine is only just starting to catch on to this idea. That is the basis for Niravi's program. I finally examined how I was really living my life and whether that way was compatible with what I was saying was my goal to have a baby. My life was not compatible with having a baby before I worked with Niravi. I tried for 10 years to get pregnant. I finally forgave myself for all the mistakes and failures, but it took a long time to do. I am now 7 1/2 months pregnant, which I had not expected to happen. I give a lot of credit to Niravi for helping me stop blaming myself and to get on with my life. Hope she can help you too.
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Summary: I think the other reviews are based on the free preview...
Review: I've *actually* read the entire book and it's a peice of trash, I actually threw it away it disgusted me so much. The author said that if you don't tell people you're pregnant your baby will think he/she is not wanted and you can miscarry because of that! Unbelievably ignorant, this author has obviously never dealt with miscarriage or infertility. I picked up this book thinking it would have natural remedies(you know like herbs) and it's a lot of meditations and visualizations which is fine and good for anyone trying to conceive but with infertility I don't care how many times I pray to buddah it's just not going to happen without a doctor's help. Don't waste your time on the rest of the book, it's not worth it and they wouldn't give a huge preview if it was
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Summary: very helpful
Review: Niravi B. Payne writes this book after having worked with infertility patients for about 50 years. This book helps women and their partners explore and release psychological blockages, which might be the reason a couple cannot conceive. The message is non blaming and encouraging. A lot of helpful excercises, sample stories and research data are included. I loved the book and found the content very helpful. Niravi B. Payne does not discredit physical problems but puts the women into a context of body and mind. She addresses the much neglected psychological side of infertility - the patient is a whole system of mind and body. Healing the past and the current realtionship with yourself and your partner will leave you to an internal peace and increased chances of conceiving a pregnancy.
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