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Summary: Information guideline for novices
Review: I have just recently entered this alternative lifestyle and wanted more information. Rather then badger my freinds with questions, I picked up this book. I devoured it. It disspelled any fiction that I had and gave me the cold hard facts.Answered all questions I had, alleviate any fears and left me with nothnig but anticipation to put forth my newly acquired knowledge. I would recomennd this book to anyone who was also looking to delve into this lifestyle or even for the passing curiosity people.
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Summary: Great book
Review: This was the first book I read about BDSM. I found it to be the most inclusive book I've read since as well. If you can't decide what book to buy, get this one. It's great for both the dominate and the submissive.
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Summary: Thought Provoking
Review: I have recently read serveral books on this subject. This book I found the most informative and thought provoking of all. It not only reinforces safety issues, but you might be suprised to find a little of yourself in the text. It opens some of the doors on this life style, and on yourself if you are brave enough to look with an open heart and mind.
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Summary: Well written, yet unprofessional looks
Review: A well written book on a very interesting subject. Gives a thorough and somewhat detailed overview of bdsm issues. For experienced and novices alike. The cover of the book doesn't however tell the truth about the graphical / visual quality of the book. Those looking for a beautiful book worth leaving on the coffee table - forget this one.
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Summary: Very Well Written.
Review: This book is amazing. It unlocked so many secrets and blew away stereotypes with ease. I rccommend for Dom's and Sub's alike.
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Summary: I ALMOST THREW THIS BOOK OUT THE WINDOW OF MY TRUCK!!
Review: I was so shocked at the photos and drawings in this book that for a few days I actually would pull it out look, and skim through paragraphs and put it away. And I really did almost throw it away. I was shocked to even discover anyone would involve themselves in this kind of activity. But, I RECOMMEND THAT YOU HAVE A SEAT AND READ THIS BOOK! Though I have not become involved in this life/lovestyle as of yet, my interest is strong and I feel prepared to safely explore my curiousity obout BDSM after reading this very informative book. THE SAFETY ADVISE IS WHAT ALL US SHOULD DO IN ANY RELATIONSHIP WE INVOLVE OURSELVES IN! I am also very impressed with the idea of the love, caring, and trust that are a part of true BDSM. The things I am looking for in a relationship. SO, GO AHEAD AND BUY THIS BOOK, READ THE WORDS AND ENJOY! It is an eye opening experience, and one that will enlighten you and just maybe shake your world -- just a little. All for the good!
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Summary: A good overall description of the various elements of S&M
Review: This is a comprehensive overview of many topics associated with the S&M lifestyle.(ex- clothing, terminology,etc.). Being a novice with very limited experience in this area, I found the book very imformative and useful because of my great curiosity about what excites me sexually. It seems that our society looks down on anything that is not "normal," which makes interest in any sexual experimentation that is not "approved" seem perverse and unacceptable. Although I can not vision myself a participant in any "club" that openly displays bondage, etc., I admire the attitude that when two loving individuals want to enhance their sexlife without causing any harm, except with mutual consent, this is a healthy situation and not perverted because it involves bondage and/or S&M. Although I think the information is important, particularly some of the DO NOT'S listed, which can cause harm either physically or mentally, I did not feel arroused after reading this book. Maybe too much information (or "reality")can be a turnoff; like the fact that just before having sex for the first time, some talking is essential in making sure everything is "right," it is a turnoff to start saying "You know I respect you as a person, etc." which will quickly kill the "mood." This book, with ample pictures, interferes with a certain "fanatsy" element of mine that is personal and not always in tune with the presentation. The true "fun" comes from discovering with your partner what truly "turns you on" without having the author(s) demonstrating "techniques." My advice would be to read this, probably have your lover read it or at least discuss certain ideas mentioned, but do not have the book out when actually "experimenting."
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Summary: One line?... EXCELLENT!
Review: If you are just begining your exploration or an 'Old Leather'... this book offers insites and tips to expand and enhance your dreams and your realities. The information is straight forward and upfront. Take a chance... you will love the book and open your eyes.
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Summary: The must have book for the novice!
Review: I purchased "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns" once I discovered that my boyfriend and myself had developed an interest in b&d. What a wonderful reading experience for both of us. It was fun to read and helped give us some insight to this strange new world we were discovering together. We fondly regard this book as our b&d bible.
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Summary: Great for the beginner and the experienced
Review: Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns was recommended to me by a gentleman friend who knew I was new to the scene and wanted to learn more about it. It's gives direct, easy descriptions delivered in a funny way that keeps you feeling like you'll have fun if you try it, not trying to scare you off or tell you what to do. The gentleman wasn't lying when he said you'd turn back to the book time and time again, and that it would become your handbook many times over. Most importantly, it teaches you how to have safe and delicious fun whether you're new or experienced. A definite buy!!!!
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