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Summary: Catching the Big One
Review: If you've been navigating the dating waters and it seems like something's a little fishy - Steve Nakamoto says, you're right!Just like a big brother all of us wish we had, Steve offers women insights on men using fishing terms and methods. "Men are like fish," he says, "And scared fish can't be caught!" Oooh! And what scares 'em? Steve tells you - in detail and with humor, wit, charm and a few personal anecdotes. He also offers insights on preparation (attitude adjustment) and goes beyond the usual beauty/grooming tips found in every women's magazine with advice on improving your bait, from a MAN's perspective. He also points out that a fish on the hook is still not quite caught - and tells you how to "set the hook" and "land your catch." His list of 101 best fishing holes offers many that are obvious: bookstores, continuing education classes; and some that are not: local radio/TV station events, city tours, CPR training. The point is to get out and have a good time where the fish are. Much of what Steve has to say will sound familiar, like Mom's advice, and much is simple common sense. But it helps a lot to hear it from the other side. In the end, Steve assures us, the Big Ones ARE out there, waiting to be caught!
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Summary: Men are like fish
Review: I had such high hopes after reading that this book had gotten rave reviews by so many reveiwers. As I was reading it I kept wondering when are we going to get to the point of what to do ? The book never got to the point. The part that impressed me the most is how many ways the author used the metephor of fishing to obtaining the goal of having a permenent relationship with a man. He had quotes and more quotes he even quotes himself. I am still puzzeled by how this book is supposed to help women achieve their hopes and dreams of love. I don't want to know how clever the author is in finding quotes but how I can achieve what I want; namely an adult relationship with a male of our species and maintain that relationship. Perhaps the literati will drool over the thousand obscure quotes, I didn't, I got bored, frustrated, and then mad. I spent good money for this book and it isn't even heavy enough to use as a door stop; my coffee cup sits nicely on it, but the coffee cup is useful. As far as advice goes there has to be better, more practical books on the subject. I hope. (sigh)
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Summary: On becoming an expert angler
Review: I read this book in one sitting and found it charming and delightful, a spoonful of sugar in the medicine. I loved the quotes, questionnaires and cartoons. It is my feeling that the author used a light tone to tackle a serious subject in order to get us not to take ourselves so seriously. Appearing to try too hard backfires in achieving the goal; instead, single-mindedly attracting a desirable catch with the most appealing bait while appearing not to be pursuing it at all and while making the man fear a missed opportunity is an art which must be perfected. The author in summary urged the readers to focus on a positive attitude and self-confidence, which are crucial in attracting a quality catch. While physical appearance and all the womanly charms that accompany it are indeed important and should be maximized, they are not enough. Do not ignore the importance of cultivating the heart, by which the author says both men and women ultimately measure the worth of a mate. A man will desire a woman who makes him feel good and makes him feel lucky to have her. And make sure that the hard work you put into the sport lands a catch worthy of you.
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Summary: good read
Review: I read the book in one sitting. I especially enjoyed all the quotes that pertained to the subject matter of improving yourself to attract the love that you want and deserve. I found the book thoughtful and sometimes funny. Worth the time and money I spent. It left me with a more hopeful outlook on dating in general and gave me some good ideas on what to do and where to go. The quiz material on evaluating yourself on dating potential as well as evaluating the folks you date to help you decide if a person is right for you were also very good.
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Summary: I just learned a new sport
Review: I always thought fishing would be boring - no longer. This book has been not only entertaining, but inspirational and motivational. The quotes used were heartwarming and gave much food for thought. Steve's suggestions for finding "fishing holes" were creative and very helpful for those of us who have been sitting "poleless" on the banks for way too long! Steve offers valuable insight into the minds of "fish." Excellent book!
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Summary: Fun Book, Easy Read, give you a good Idea about men.
Review: I enjoyed reading the book and felt that the fishing analogy worked for me on understanding guys a little more. The problem is men usually make the first move and I am not trying to "get" or "catch" a man, I simply want to find a man that wants to "be" with me for who I am and have the guts to approach me and be confident. I gave this book five stars because it was very entertaining and worth reading. If you really want to know what goes on in the minds of men I suggest you read this book and the book Stumbling Naked in the Dark: Overcoming Mistakes Men Make With Women. While I buy into the whole fishing thing, Stumbling Naked takes you to a level of what men are thinking to a tee. It freaked me out and was so interesting.
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Summary: A Definite "Must Read" for Single Women
Review: As a dating & relationship expert, I wasn't sure if most women would resonate with the fishing analogy in the title. After all, women understand shoes and chocolate, but what do they really know about fishing? That being said, I was pleasantly surprised at how easily the author explained the basic fishing principles, and how they relate to dating. Not knowing a thing about fishing myself, I understood every fishing principle perfectly well. Not only did the analogy work, but it also made sense. There are many things I like about this book, but the part I like best is how the author gives straight talk to women. If you're a woman who is trying to catch a big fish (a man), you have to be as attractive as possible. That's your "bait." Although this may sound simple, it's surprising how many dating/relationship books leave this important part out. And it's even more surprising how many women think a great guy will just ring their doorbell one day. The reality is that a big, juicy fish won't jump in your lap. You have to go to the right stream, you have to use the right line, and you have to bait your hook. (See how easy the fishing analogy is to follow?) Yes, you will probably learn more about fishing than you ever wanted to know, but you will also get a lot of practical advice about catching a man from a man's perspective. After reading Men Are Like Fish, you'll know what a man is looking for and the process you must go through to catch him. Plus, (and this is a little nugget of wisdom straight from the author's pen), you'll finally understand that men want to be caught. That's great news for women. Bottom line-a woman shouldn't try to reel in a man without first reading this book!
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Summary: Female Fishing Funbbb
Review: I found Steve's book insightful and enlightening. Communication and understanding tips are clevely hidden in fishing tales. Useful information about self analysis and knowing what you want in addition to what you are actually offering are invaluable-definately two thumbs up!!!
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Summary: The Best Guide Around!
Review: This guide takes a new approach, but makes so much sense! And the idea that we really do the catching is such a new one. It makes you really aware of how you are relating to your special guy and how much fun the whole dating process can be! I have found the guy I want, now I'm going to use my bait and soon he will be hooked!
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Summary: Pass on this one
Review: Talk about fluff! I love the fishing analogy used throughout this book. And while I agree with all the points the author makes, not once did I feel as if any one point was developed thoroughly enough to prove useful for anyone. It's all good and well to use the many cute metaphores and analogies, but without any specific action plans to put them to use, all they are is "cute". This book is definitely a light and fun read, but there isn't much value in fun when it gives you no specifics on which to go on. This is definitely not a book I'd recommend if you're looking for anything beyond simple entertainment.
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