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Summary: Excellent Book
Review: The Sex-Starved Marriage does an excellent job of explaining each partner's position in a sexually mis-matched marriage. The book was a real eye-opener and provided insight from each partner's perspective. As a low-desire partner, it helped me gain an understanding of how my rejections over the years have affected my spouse. It made me see that as the low-desire partner, I am always setting the pace. How fair is that? I disagree with the Editorial Review which stated that Michelle got too personal in the last chapter disclosing information about her own marriage. Her disclosure made her words have more meaning because she is not only speaking from experience of dealing with couples who faced this issue, but from her experience in her own marriage. I recommend this book for any couple interested in improving their relationship, both in bed and out. Don't wait till you have a problem to read it. If you are engaged to be married, read this book now to help you prevent problems later.
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Summary: How Deep Is Deep Enough?
Review: This book is a good-enough startin point for anyone suffering with a spouse who is disinterested in sex. But in my own case the overly intellectual approach was not enough to make the change I needed in my wife or in our sex-life together. After so many years of being married to a person, and with two kids, you think you know everything there is to know about sex and how to turn on the one you love. But that was naive of me. And when my younger brother suggested that I look into some sex-instruction materials as a way of heating things up between me and Agnes, at first I was insulted. But he gave me a dvd called "New Free Sex" which was totally different than I expected, not pornographic at all (but very informative), and then I followed up with a book by the same author "9 Free Secrets of New Sensual Power" -- and I learnd that I had been so wrong in my thinking. Sex is not a natural skill that one has and then that's it. Sexual excellence can be learned. And by improving my level of sexual excellence I experienced a definite unthawing in Agnes. We are actually making love a couple times a week, and breaking a sweat! But be forewarned -- a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, in that it kills apathy. Overall, I think there's value to be had in this Sex-Starved book, but it's not a cure-all or even encompassing enough to use without additional materials.
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Summary: WORTH IT
Review: This book is worth both the money spent and your time if you are facing difficulties with your relationship.
This is not the typical "how-to-book" so many of us spend our money on trying to come up with some type of plan to put our lives back together. This book is reality from both points of view.
What a wake-up call to be reading the pages and suddenly feel that someone has been seeing what is in your heart and in your thoughts.
This is a book I plan on reading several times just to learn and see more each time.
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Summary: Very helpful to BOTH involved in a libido discrepancy
Review: This book will help any couple faced with different levels of sexual desires. No matter which side you are on there is relevant and useful information that will help put your life back in perspective. You will both stop playing the blame game and work together at a solution. I'm not going to say that this is an easy read, there are some things that will be like bitter medicine to swallow. But like any medicine it will help you in the end.
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Summary: Great Guide
Review: This is a fantastic guide for both partners, regardless of who is seen to have the "problem." The language is clear and forthright and she doesnt get bogged down in the technicalities like so many in her field do. An excellent companion would be The Romantic's Guide by Michael Webb. I've found his tips and ideas really helpful in my marriage.
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