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Summary: Changed my life
Review: I know I won't remember all the moments of my life, but I will remember the moving ones, the true moments. This book was responsible for my change of heart, and it changed my life. That is a moment worth remembering. The book explains why our relationships fail. It helped me understand why I treated people the way I did. Do you ever wonder "Why did I treat her so badly, when I really do love her?" This book will help you answer that question.... Most importantly it gave me a way to change, to have a change of heart. For the first time in a decade, I feel the person I am on the outside is the same as the person I am at my core... This book gave me a map to find myself and I decided to give a copy to everyone one in my life.
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Summary: Changed my life
Review: I know I won't remember all the moments of my life, but I will remember the moving ones, the true moments. This book was responsible for my change of heart, and it changed my life. That is a moment worth remembering. The book explains why our relationships fail. It helped me understand why I treated people the way I did. Do you ever wonder "Why did I treat her so badly, when I really do love her?" This book will help you answer that question.... Most importantly it gave me a way to change, to have a change of heart. For the first time in a decade, I feel the person I am on the outside is the same as the person I am at my core... This book gave me a map to find myself and I decided to give a copy to everyone one in my life.
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Summary: Makes you think
Review: I loved reading this. It really makes you think about your relationships with others. It helps you see people in a different light and be more sensitive to their needs. I highly recommend this book.
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Summary: Makes you think
Review: I loved reading this. It really makes you think about your relationships with others. It helps you see people in a different light and be more sensitive to their needs. I highly recommend this book.
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Summary: Superb
Review: I rank this book in the top five of the hundreds of books that I have read. If you are ready to take an honest look at yourself and your relationships, proceed with vigor...! Some reading and pondering of this model will do more for you than most people in the helping professions. If you aren't ready to honestly evaluate yourself, I hope you will wait a year or so and then give this material a chance.
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Summary: Tough, But Worth It
Review: I struggled through the first 100 pages of this book. Not because it was difficult to read or understand, but it was difficult to look at myself the way the author suggests. Like struggling through a narrow entrance to an underground grotto, the struggle was worth it. Warner's book presents a tough pill to swallow: Most of our problems with relationships can be improved if we will only look to see how we are poisoning the relationship. The major premise is that when we are disappointed in our actions, we often will then modify our perceptions in order to make us feel better. Get through those first 100 pages with a lot of self-reflection and you will then find tools to improve your relationships. These are not things that you must convince OTHERS to do. These are tools to help you poison less and heal more.
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Summary: Bonds That Make Us Free
Review: I think Dr. Warner's book is absolutely profound. I can't recall a book with such great insights into why we do things; why we're so needing to wallow in the role of victim and how destructive of ourselves and our relationships when we feel the victim. I want to read this great book again, studying more thoroughly its ideas and how I can apply those ideas to my life.
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Summary: Bonds That Make Us Free
Review: I would like to give this book to everyone I care about. All the books I've read throughout my life have changed me in some way or another. A helpful bit of information, a new perspective, maybe even changed a paradigm. None even remotely come close to the power that a fundamental change of heart can produce. If you're serious about improving your relationships and you're open to the idea that you might be the problem then you will not be the same person after reading this book. I also recomend " Leadership and Self Deception" by the Arbinger Institute. Both books deal with the common condition we all suffer from. Self deception.
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Summary: Simply Profound
Review: If I could give this 10 stars I would. Mr. Warner's book has caused me to think in ways I have never thought before. It has changed my life forever for the better. It is a must read for all who desire to live a better life and have a deeper understanding of themselves & others. Thank you Mr. Warner.
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Summary: what the...?
Review: Let me see if I've got this straight: If I'm not doing what Terry Warner thinks is right, then I'm deceiving myself. Wow, that really is a profound theory...
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