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Summary: Very good
Review: This book is very informative and gives insight on both sides of the affair. If you are trying to recover from an affair, this is the book to read. It helps you understand what you may be going through and how the other person may feel. It works at all stages. If you are trying to rebuild your marriage or just trying to rebuild yourself, read this book. If you have not had this issue occur already, read it before it does happen. I recommend this book highly. You won't regret your purchase.
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Summary: This book is AWESOME
Review: My wife was sleeping in the guest room up to two months after my affair was exposed. She would lock the door and not utter one word to me. i was concerned for her health because she was acting so distant and she was staring out into space and i wasnt sure if she was capable of handling the stress for too much longer. i was so afraid i wrote a two page letter to her father explaining my concern.After she read this book, she came downstairs and said she wanted me to read it. she began to keep her bedroom door open and she began to speak to me in a limited way. she told me the book let her know that she had not gone crazy and things could be worked out after all. i thought my affair was the worst ever and no matter how much i tried there was no way to fix things with my wife. the author includes many real-life examples of people of all ages and professions that have experienced infedelity. it made me see that others have been here too and it showed me that we can fix things and it outlined "the healthiest" ways to do it. i am so happy my wife found this book.
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Summary: INFIDELITY ISN'T NECESSARILY ABOUT SEX...
Review: ...but about secrets and the violation of trust. AFTER THE AFFAIR reaches out to partners who are struggling to recover from infidelity. Learn: **how men and women -- both hurt and unfaithful partners -- respond differently to an affair, and how these differences can be understood to promote healing; **how early childhood experiences shape ideas about love and a partner's capacity to be faithful; **how infidelity can help partners face important truths about themselves, develop more realistic ideas about love, and become more intimately attached; **how, after the affair, partners can rekindle trust and sexual intimacy even when they don't yet feel particularly loved or loving; **and how partners can decide when forgiveness is healthy.
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Summary: excellent
Review: I learned quite alot from this book my marriage is better than ever now.
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Summary: Some great information here
Review: I thought the best part of this book was the list of physiological effects that the discovery of an affair has on the wounded spouse. I cried while reading it because I realized I wasn't going crazy after all.....I was normal! There is so little good information for couples who want to overcome this tragedy and I was very happy to find a book that was encouraging. As a Christian, I was a little disappointed in the lack of validation for the role faith in God plays in rebuilding, but I found that in another excellent book.
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Summary: An excellent, must have for all who suffer after an affair.
Review: First, my sympathy regarding the fact that you are even here needing a book such as this. Second, my prayers for all those whose lives have been touched by an overwhelming selfishness. May Gods power, love and patience along with determination and this book help you make your relationship stronger that it was before. This book has surely been a tremendous help in self discovery for both of us. BKS
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Summary: Presents both sides of an affair
Review: I felt that this book was excellent at expressing the emotion of both the betrayed and the betrayer. And I was the betrayed. Unfortunately, as of right now, we are not working on our marriage and my spouse is with his lover.After, Igave him this book, he stopped seeing her temporarily.
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Summary: A great book that helps you to understand....
Review: This book help me to better understand the feeling of "I did not make her do this..." she made her own decisions but it also let me look at myself to see how I may have contributed or rather not contributed to my spouses needs. Even though I felt everything was o.k. It was not! And I hope we can "clean up" now that it is exposed.
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Summary: Depression? Rage? Hate? Hey, I'm normal after all...
Review: Very insightful book dealing with the worst possible thing that can happen in a relationship. Easy to read and understand. I can't count how many times I thought "yes, exactly!" while I was reading and crying my way through it. If you and your partner are serious about working things out, or just want to be certain of your reasons for calling it quits, you must read this. BOTH of you.
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Summary: Cogent, intelligent, do-able
Review: It is believed that 70% of all marriages are touched by infidelity. Therapists have rated it one of the most common and devastating problems faced by their patients. Psychologist Janice Abrahms Spring believes that sometimes, it takes this kind of life-changing event for couples to determine the real value of their marriage. It often becomes a catalyst for important and permanent changes - both in the relationship and for every person involved. Janice's approach to surviving infidelity is cogent, intelligent, and most important, do-able. We are working closely with her on a ground-breaking documentary about marital infidelity in America and are seeking men and women to participate. What was the impact of fidelity on your marriage? How has it changed your life, your relationships, your self? We invite you to share your story with us in confidence and decide if you'd like to join other individuals and couples from a variety of backgrounds in what is sure to be a sensitive,informative and eye opening exploration of this amazingly widespread phenomenon.
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