Rating: Summary: Should Be Required Reading Review: Some reviewers complain that this book repeats what was written in the Four Agreements. I've read the Four Agreements as well as this book. I appreciated both in their focus on different aspects of the same concept. My suggestion is to realize what subject you're seeking advice on. I'm sure each book is written so as to be stand-alone, therefore, it will teach the same basic principles in each one.I really like the books, and highly recommend them. It was a surprise to find that it reaffirmed my own self-discoveries. I never even heard of the Toltecs until I found these books. It makes my own personal journey toward happiness that much easier. I think this book should be required reading for everyone. I would only change the order in which these books should be read. In school, you learn theory before you learn the practical application. My opinion is that you read the Mastery of Love first, then the Four Agreements. The Mastery of Love is the theory, how and why we should love, and what benefits derive from this love. The Four Agreements teach us guidelines in achieving this mastery of love, and any other mastery the Toltecs ascribe to. Read this book and share it with everyone.
Rating: Summary: forgives himself Review: I have read two other books by Don Miguel Ruiz and have been becoming a better person from them. The use of 'not being hooked' has been the biggest help in dealing with situations. I can't wait to get the latest book, Beyond Fear. I also recommend Rat Race Relaxer: Your Potential & The Maze of Life by JoAnna Carey.
Rating: Summary: The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Review: I rated it 3 stars because I felt they reapeated much of what they said in the 4 agreements. I felt that It should have been called apply the 4 agreements to Love instead. If you had not read the 4 agreements. I don't think you would comprehend much of this book. although the words are simple and easy to understand.
Rating: Summary: Stick with his first book Review: His first book, "The Four Agreements" was so drastically much better than this one. Don't bother.
Rating: Summary: amazing book! Review: i loved this book a lot. it helped me to change my life!
Rating: Summary: The Mastery of Love Review: Readign this book helped me to understand the nature of my fear when it came to love and how to look to love from a new and 'honest' perspective. Very enlightening!
Rating: Summary: Mastering the dream of your life. Review: This is a beautiful and gentle book about experiencing the great being that you really are. In the course of this self-discovery, Ruiz points out that we need to become aware of how trained our minds have become to suffering. Once we recognize where we are using our minds to diminish our sense of well-being, we have a choice in letting go of destructive behaviors. I particularly enjoyed the chapter called, "The Dream Master." Ruiz describes our life as a dream. Before we learn to master this dream, we live in a Dream of Fear that enslaves us in a perpetual cycle of suffering. To master the dream, we must begin with ourselves - we must be completely honest with ourselves. When we tell ourselves the truth about what we like and dislike in our circumstances, we have a choice to follow those things that feed our happiness and to let go of those things that put us in pain. As we discover how to see things as they are without getting lost in our reactions and our minds' interpretations of what we see, we become Dream Masters. Through awareness of our experience of life, we recover our free will: "Becoming aware is about being responsible for your own life." In my own experience, I have found awareness to be an inexplicably powerful tool for living fully and passionately. An excellent book that nurtures one's ability to live with awareness is "Working on Yourself Doesn't Work" by Ariel and Shya Kane. The authors' presence in this book is clear, compassionate, and truly compelling. I recommend it as an excellent companion to Ruiz's book and wish you well in your self-discovery.
Rating: Summary: A new beginning Review: Reading this book reminded me of many ideas and beliefs that I already knew but needed to be reminded. This book allowed me to get rid of the drama of life and allow a sense of peace to sit with me. Reading the book was a breath of fresh air and gave me an opening to begin again.
Rating: Summary: Absolutley fantastic insight Review: I just finished rereading the chapter, "The Man who didn't believe in love" I was stunned after finishing it the first time. I don't want to give the chapter away, but I am so pleased that an author can put into words, without some psycho babble, the very idea that we really need to love ourselves. Of course loving ourselves is so old and cliché, but he somehow hits the high points and brings clarity to it in just a few short pages. I have read self help books for years and this one, you will blast through in one sitting. Grab the coffee, put on your Nora Jones CD and open your mind to this fascinating book.
Rating: Summary: Bottom Line: Love Yourself Review: I have just summarized the whole book with the title above. Why should you get this book if that is all it has to say? Well, some people don't know this! I didn't. My whole life, I was searching for love, but as Whitney Houston said, "...Learning to love yourself, it is the greatest love of all..." And that is what this book is about. It gives some really interesting analogies and just makes some really enjoyable reading. I know because I read and ate it in only a few hours. It seems like pretty common sense to me now, though. How can you possibly love someone when you don't love yourself? Another point in the book I treasure is how it describes a relationship as a sharing between two people, not a union, not two hearts becoming one. Those kind of analogies only lead to tremendous pain in the future when the relationship turns sour. If we visualize a relationship as two people sharing their life, if that person leaves us one day, he or she can be replaced whereas anything that is part of you cannot be replaced. I must say, this book has dramatically changed my life. I used to feel lonely all the time and now, even when I'm alone, I feel great!
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