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Summary: MUST HAVE
Review: THIS BOOK EXPLORES MANY DIFFERNT ASPECTS. EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU ARE A PRO YOU ARE NOT. THIS BOOK GIVES GREAT ADVICE ON INTRODUCING IDEAS YOU MAY HAVE ONLY THOUGHT ABOUT, INTO YOUR BEDROOM. IT COVERS ALL THE BASIS. EVERY WOMAN OR MAN NEEDS A COPY OF THIS BOOK.
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Summary: Fellatio = Sanctity of marraige bed?
Review: ...You know what you're getting when you buy or even stumble across "by accident" this book. This fantastic book that tells you what OLDER women (your Mom?) don't tell you, and what you really wouldn't want to hear from Mom anyway. It's like a frank discussion with your girlfriend, and I consider this blogmistress one of my dearest. This book is great for us NORMAL girls out there who won't be strutting the runways anytime soon, but who are fantastic girlfriends (and wives) anyway. I don't love the way I look in garters, but the techniques (and confidence) that I learned from this book make my boyfriend think that I am the hottest, sexiest woman in the world, and one who must truly love him to do that thing so well. And he wouldn't notice if I put on garters, or a potato pack for that matter. Well done Violet Blue and please don't stop blogging!
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Summary: Cheap typical american sleaze re: sexuality. Horrible.
Review: A woman should never (have to be) exposed to such language when seeking information, advise or instruction regarding sexuality. This book takes a topic which should be informative and empowering and uses such derogatory phrasing and travels down such a horrifyingly low-brow path that it is an assault to all the senses. Please stay away from this publication if you are not of the s&m, porno set and/or accustomed to affronts of that nature.
This book proved to be both an affront and assault. Innocently, I thought I could educate myself on how to better/further pleasure my partner in bed. I think most women would agree that that we missed out on this subject in our educations and would do well to have a bit more knowledge and thus power in this arena. I would prefer gaining this confidence through well written literature, I wish that this search would not constantly bombard me with material such as this.
I know that to sustain a loving relationship in this lifetime, continuous play in the bedroom can't hurt and that a loving relationship will serve all well (including my children) but to have to read this is too much. I am sending this back. Shame on the author, publishers and Amazon for carrying this pulp.
Truly a horror and any information that could have been gained and applied is lost due to the harshness of the language chosen. Terrible.
For another title on this subject I might try drugstore. com where they recently added toys in their sexual health area without one having to be exposed to seedy language, pictures, etc. maybe they have a better filter for written material too.
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Summary: The marriage bed is undefiled
Review: After 18 years of marriage, I sought an appropriate book that might help me become more pleasing to my husband. I could find no detailed explanations in christian literature, although I knew that the Bible explicity tells the "older women to teach the younger women HOW to love their husbands"...so I sought a book that might not violate my conscious. I bought this book because I thought the author might be sympathetic to women who are turned off and feel violated by explicit pornographic photos. This book had no photos but it does take unexpected turns that does violate the consciouses of women who have christian character. There are subjects that I just prefer not to know about when I search on enriching our love life! I don't want to know about lesbian's with strap ons or descriptions of homosexual men. I don't want to hear about group sex or surprise sexual encounters with roadside stranger's. The only redeeming factor was the complete description of the male anatomy and a few sporatic suggestions about technique. I just felt that all the accolades this book has received, someone needs to warn those who are wanting to perserve the sanctity of the marriage bed, this book is not for them.
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Summary: Helpful
Review: Although I am a heterosexual man, I figured it wouldn't hurt to know how to perform fellatio, just in case a career advancement opportunity came along. This book was very helpful in teaching me the basic technique, and luckily, various men have allowed me to practice on them to perfect my skills. Thanks to Violet Blue, I will now get that promotion I've been waiting for.
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Summary: I love this book!
Review: Although, I thought our sex life was great before.... after reading this book together, my wife and I are experiencing, just as the title says "mind-blowing pleasure".
The techniques presented in this book work perfectly. The male anatomy lessons, and the information on erectile disfunction have changed our lives. We both feel like teenagers again.
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Summary: fellatio?
Review: do you know what is love? I am sending this book back. Shame on the author, publishers and Amazon for carrying this kind of material. -*
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Summary: Spicy Yet Too Raunchy
Review: Given the subject matter I expected a certain amount of crudity but I felt that it strayed too much from the subject at hand. A great book written from a Christian perspective is 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets which does give a lot of great oral sex advice.
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Summary: Great Guide for Deep Throating
Review: I had recently read, "Tickle His Pickle: Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing," by Sadie Allison, and I enjoyed it thoroughly. I had tried out some of her techniques and positions -- and I was surprised to find that her suggestions in both areas had worked out much better than I had expected. Given these successes, I was curious to see if another book, "The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio," by Violet Blue, would teach me even more.
The first half of the book deals with basics, like mental preparation, anatomy, STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) and hygiene. As the "Ultimate Guide," this work's treatment of `swallowing,' though, is woefully scattered and unfocused. And I definitely could've done without the section on how to give oral love to a strap-on, which seemed to me like a total waste of time.
Where this book really shines, though, is in the area of deep throating. There's some nice diagrams which really helped me to understand how the gag reflex is triggered - and how it can be avoided. Besides relaxation and practice, Ms. Blue's best advice for deep throating better - is breathing.
The key, quite simply, is to breath OUT when it goes in, and to breath IN when it comes out - which is actually counter-intuitive, and why most of us end up choking. Ms. Blue also suggests doing this on an empty stomach - which would preclude performing this most loving of acts, unfortunately -- after one has been richly wined and dined! (Poor baby!) Lastly, there's some additional instruction offered on sexual positions which again centered on lifting your chin to position your mouth more in line with your throat, (think sword swallowing).
Other little tips that Ms. Blue offers is to grab the base with your hand - which allows you to push back (to prevent choking) if his thrusting becomes too strong, or to reach around and grab his hips (or rear) and draw him to you - which quite a few men like (since it causes them to believe that you might actually like this!).
In terms of etiquette, Ms. Blue advises you not to worry if you begin to salivate profusely since this is the body's natural way to protect itself. And, she adds, it's ok to make gagging sounds (especially when you're gagging) since a lot of guys are actually turned on by this. (Great!)
Some of the chapters also have cute stories at the end, sort of like `Penthouse Forum.' In one, a woman describes having her friend teach her some of the above - and ends up in sexy threesome (which sounded a little far-fetched, but I enjoyed the story nonetheless).
Of the two books, `The Ultimate Guide' appeared to be written to older women (past twenty) since it had a more formal style. Whereas the `Tickle His Pickle' book is more casual and seems to be targeted to younger women who may be just starting out.
To conclude, my advice is to buy the former if deep throating is something you want to improve - and to get the latter if swallowing is the pleasure you'd like to explore more fully. Either way, enjoy!
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Summary: give me a break
Review: I love sex guides but I wish that this search would not constantly bombard me with material such as this.
I am sending this book back. Shame on the author, publishers and Amazon for carrying this kind of material. -*
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