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Summary: sheet music
Review: Another homerun for Dr. Leman, the Christian Psychologist. I read this book in a couple days and thoroughly enjoyed it. He writes in a very straight-forward manner and goes into explicit detail about sex between husband and wife.There are chapters "For Men Only," and "For Women Only" which are good to have your mate read, if you are at all shy about discussing what you like in bed. Dr. Leman writes in a way that has a lot of humor, and relates stories from his own experiences, that we can all identify with. We laughed out loud at page 198, "Headlights.." As Christians, we need to open the lines of communication with our spouse in all areas of life, including our sex life. God intended this wonderful gift for our pleasure, and Dr. Leman's book is a good way to get started! I'd also highly recommend his other book, "Sex Begins in the Kitchen Because Love is an All Day Affair." Great wedding shower gifts for a Christian girlfriend, or anniversary gift to yourselves!
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Summary: Excellent Book! Sometimes surprising, Solid & Biblical
Review: As a minister I was very pleased at the solid teaching Dr. Leman gives in this and all of his books, (as well as video seminars) I have reviewed. Some of this material will shock some Christians with traditional sensibilities about marital sex. Sex is very important to a marriage. Good sex is something we should all strive for in marriage, it is God's gift to us. This book gives straight forward, sometimes very, very straight forward (insert red face) how to information. But because sex has been hijacked by the world the church has, as a whole, ignored the topic. It is time for some good Biblical teaching. Are you married then be brave and read this book with your spouse. I think you will both be glad you did. Also it would be a great gift for newlyweds and engaged couples!
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Summary: What the cover doesn't tell you
Review: Based on the cover of this book and knowing nothing else but what was writtne on the back when I bought it, I would not recomend this book. It's misleading. Nowhere does it mention God or The Creator that he talks so much about or the fact that he's a Christian psychologist. I was highly dissapointed when I found God on every single page of this book talking about the rights and wrongs of what God has planned for you as far as sex in marriage goes. This isn't to say that I'm against God or don't belive in Him, but really, that was not what I expected out of this book at all. I think some of the things he says could be used regardless of your religious beliefs, but much of it is too focused on what's right in God's eyes.
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Summary: Sheet music - the best kind there is!
Review: Dr. Kevin Leman is wonderful! He talks in a language that any age can understand. He is very practical and straight forward. He doesn't talk in circles, and plainly tells you how it is! You have to have an open mind, or atleast a willing one, while reading this. He states that some may not like what he says, he's aware of that. You just have to make sure what you are doing is right. And, if you are, then you won't have a problem with this book.One very insightful point that stuck out to me, was the baggage Leman describes that you and your spouse carry into your sex life. Much stems from what your parents did, etc., and that affected your views of sex and marriage. Perhaps your parents didn't communicate well with each other, didn't have any kind of sex life, etc...that impresses upon you as a child and ultimately affects your sex life with your spouse. Also true for the opposite. It carries over in our attitude in what we are willing to try, actually do, etc. Ultimately, we can do anything in our sex life that we are comfortable with - there is no boundaries. A holy union between husband and wife should be enjoyed to it's fullest for both, doing whatever makes it full for you. Not that Leman says anything that you may feel you don't already know, it's acting on what you know that he stresses. Many times I felt like he was describing my husband and myself to a tee! The things he says about how men feel are things that my husband is always saying to me. However, Leman explains the "why" a bit better than my husband does...and that helped me to be more accepting. Communication and getting out of your comfort zone, being open and honest with each other, and RESPECTING each other are all qualities he talks about. Just because one spouse likes something kinky doesn't mean the other has to do it to please their spouse. If you are uncomfortable, the other spouse needs to accept that and back off...BUT he also asks that you not rule things out forever, perhaps you try something new or a little different, etc. Other reviewers have mentioned the religious aspect of the book, that it's written for Christian marriages, etc...and it is, or atleast those preparing for a Christian marriage. It is NOT for unmarried couples. This book is written by a Christian Psychologist - how could anyone expect to read this book and not be willing to read about and accept the immoralities of what they are doing premaritially. Obviously you picked up the book for a reason.
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Summary: good CLEAN advice!!!
Review: Dr. Lehman writes with strong Christian values (which are hard to come by in this day and age)yet, he is respectful of other beleifs. He addresses common problems seen in sexual relationships from the honeymoon on, including the emotional side. We have REALLY benefited from this book and hve had fun with it too. I would recommend this to ANY couple.
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Summary: sheet music
Review: I read this in a week - I couldn't put it down! A must read for all Christian married couples regardless of how long you've been married. Leman stresses respecting each other, and giving yourself fully to each other. He also discusses the baggage everyone carries into the bedroom, giving into your spouse when it's not what you want, listening to each other, and the list goes on. Again, a MUST read for all Christian married couples.
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Summary: sheet music
Review: I saw an interview with Dr. Leman on one of the daytime talk shows to promote this book. He said it was a book you can read together - I bought it b/c he especially commented for a husband to really REALLY do something for his wife he could rent her a hotel room, take care of the kids, and allow her some well needed time to herself!" I got the book and it was nothing like it was portrayed in the interview. This is a book for about-to-be-married Christian virgins... I don't think there is a page in the book that doesn't mention the word "God" or "Creator". I am a firm believer in God, but this book is a bit over the top for me, not offering anything I didn't already know - even by common sense. Dr. Leman feels you should always 'give' to your spouse, to fulfill his/her needs, regardless of if you want to or not, since marriage is a contract and sexual satisfaction is part of the deal...
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Summary: Not for Modern Times
Review: I saw an interview with Dr. Leman on one of the daytime talk shows to promote this book. He said it was a book you can read together - I bought it b/c he especially commented for a husband to really REALLY do something for his wife he could rent her a hotel room, take care of the kids, and allow her some well needed time to herself!" I got the book and it was nothing like it was portrayed in the interview. This is a book for about-to-be-married Christian virgins... I don't think there is a page in the book that doesn't mention the word "God" or "Creator". I am a firm believer in God, but this book is a bit over the top for me, not offering anything I didn't already know - even by common sense. Dr. Leman feels you should always 'give' to your spouse, to fulfill his/her needs, regardless of if you want to or not, since marriage is a contract and sexual satisfaction is part of the deal...
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Summary: Major concerns
Review: I think this book had a definite purpose to say that anything within the bounds of marriage is ok, including sex toys. I think most devout Christians will take offense to this. Not to mention he never bothers to comment that if one partner has biblical concerns about any act, the other partner should honor that. I didn't find this book to uphold a biblical standard for the sexual union within marriage. There are much better books out there for couples who believe sex is a gift from God not to be abused with worldly attitudes.
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Summary: sheet music
Review: i thought this book was great, it gives you both perspectives and it is not self-centered but the thoughtfulness of thinking of one another. it is a book you will want to read more than once I think, full of great information.
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