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You Are the Message CS : Secrets of the Master Communicators

You Are the Message CS : Secrets of the Master Communicators

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Rating: 5 stars
Summary: Ailes Is The Master
Review: Ailes is an undisputed media master. There is a reason he took took Fox News from nowhere to number one in a short period of time--Ailes knows how to make anyone look good. And this books reveals his secrets.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: A great book for anyone who does a lot of public speaking!
Review: Helps you understand how to present yourself better in public, on camera, etc. I really liked his listening tips. I think listening is the lost art of evangelism. You have to learn to listen if you are going to become good at marketing.

Take a look at these tips to help you become a better listener from the book:

1. Relax and clear your mind if someone is speaking to you, so that you're receptive to what they're saying.

2 Never assume that you have heard correctly because the first few words have taken you in a certain direction. Most listening mistakes are made by people who only hear the first few words of a sentence, finish the sentence in their own minds, and miss the second half.

3. Learn to speed up your point of contact as a listener. The second you hear a sound coming from another person concentrate quickly on the first few words. That will get you started correctly.

4. Don't tune out a speaker just because you don't like his or her looks, voice, or general demeanor. Stay open to new information.

5. Don't overreact emotionally to the speaker's words or ideas--especially those that may run contrary to your usual thinking. Hear the other person out.

6. Before forming a conclusion, let the speaker complete his or her thought. Then evaluate by distinguishing in your mind specific evidence presented (good) verses generalities (bad).

7. Part of listening is writing things down that are important. You should always have a piece of paper, a pencil, a notebook, or a card in your pocket. Throughout the day many important things will be discussed. Take notes to listen, to remember later, and to document, if necessary.



Rating: 4 stars
Summary: A must read for the frustrated public speaker
Review: Mr. Ailes does an outstanding job communicating how to leverage your own strengths to be an outstanding communicator. The book is joyful and entertaining to read and well deserved to be on any leaders reading list.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: A powerful idea.
Review: My college minor some 30 years ago was Speech. I have read some 10 books and many more articles about giving speeches. Roger Ailes book, first published in 1988, is the only one like it I have ever read. His advice is unique, and I believe, right on.

Instead of quirky gimmicks, Ailes starts with the factors that make a great speaker -- some of which will surpise you, and encourage you. The book is very readable with lots of anecdotes and great stories to illustrate his points.

In my consulting with political candidates I recommend it often. Considering this man's success in television and politics, I don't understand why this book is not more widely read and referenced. I consider it a "secret weapon". After all, this is the man who was a consultant to the man friend and foe alike called the great commuicator, Ronald Reagan. If you read it, you may be the only one you know who has. And then you will wonder, as I have, why more people have not read it.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: A powerful idea.
Review: My college minor some 30 years ago was Speech. I have read some 10 books and many more articles about giving speeches. Roger Ailes book, first published in 1988, is the only one like it I have ever read. His advice is unique, and I believe, right on.

Instead of quirky gimmicks, Ailes starts with the factors that make a great speaker -- some of which will surpise you, and encourage you. The book is very readable with lots of anecdotes and great stories to illustrate his points.

In my consulting with political candidates I recommend it often. Considering this man's success in television and politics, I don't understand why this book is not more widely read and referenced. I consider it a "secret weapon". After all, this is the man who was a consultant to the man friend and foe alike called the great commuicator, Ronald Reagan. If you read it, you may be the only one you know who has. And then you will wonder, as I have, why more people have not read it.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: Roger Ailes is a genius
Review: Roger Ailes has made a career of redefining the media, while at the same time helping the people in and around the media redefine themselves. This book is an engrossing and invaluable look at the world of media consulting, and all that the title implies.

If you work in the media, would like to work in the media, or don't know what to do because you are forced to work with the media, this book should be the first on your list. It is a how to guide for selling yourself to the masses - one person at a time.

It is no wonder that FoxNews Channel has grown to become the number one rated cable news station with Ailes at the helm. This book will show you why.

Rating: 4 stars
Summary: Identity based communication. Great basics.
Review: Some key points:

The assessment of you that's formed in the first 7 seconds creates a lasting impression of you in anothers mind.

Communication starts with good conversation.
Television has set the style of communication for today - relaxed, informal, crisp,quick,entertaining.It has made us impatient- make your point quick and interesting. Be visual.

You are The Message:
We are the message no matter what the medium.
Take a personal inventory of your asets that help you communicate
A good communicator takes responsibilty for the flow of communication.
Audiences respond to visual over verbal signals.
Make read speeches look conversational.
Test your powers of observation and description.
Review your past performances and communications and figure out how you would improve it.

Be natural, don't force an emotion.
Model the best professional communicators.
Perception counts more than content.
Record yourself on video and audio in interactions.Evaluate your performance.

4 Essentials of a Great Communicator:
1. Be Prepared
- your audience must have confidence that you know what you're talking about, and feel you know more about your topic than they do.
- you should appear that you have been thorough in researching your topic and analyzing the audience.
- you should be purposefull- goal is to inform, entertain, inspire, or all three.
- hostile or skeptical audience- show understanding of all side sof an issue
- supportive audience- reaffirm shared values
- be relaxed, calm, maintain a sense of humor, take your work seriously, avoid criticizing and disagreeable behavior, empathize.

2. Make Others Comfortaable
3. Be Committed- know what you are saying and why, and care about saying it.
4. Be Interesting- Use analogies from other fields, metaphors, visuals, technology, etc. At least 30% of your reading should be from beyond your own field.

The Magic Bullet: Being Likable.
-Likable people are optimistic, concerned about other people's welfare, see opportunity in difficulty, handle stress, laughs easily (especially at himself), perform well in crises, humble in prosperity.

The Double-Edged Sword: Emotion
- you reveal yourself to your audience through visible and expressed emotion.
- people want to see a range of a speaker's emotions expressed with committment and colored with humor, sincerity, energy, and enthusiasm.
- facts provide information, emotions provide interpretation. Alternate facts with genuine emotions- balance head and heart issues..
- Success= integrity+talent+good communication skills

Beyond Charisma:
-Charismatic personalities never doubt their ability to add value to a situation through their presence, prestige, style, competence, optimism, and/or enthusiasm.
- Charisma is the ability to cause other people to respond to you.
- Winners set the tone and climate as opposed to reacting to the climate and tone set by others. They control space, time, tempo, pace, voice, eye contact, flow of dialogue, emotional tone, and topic. This occurs through assertion of skill, personality, knowledge, belief, energy, and enthusiasm.
-Charisma quotient measures self-confidence, leadership qualities, definable goals, control of one's life, and the attitudes of making oneself and others feel comfortable.

An ounce of energy is worth more than a pound of technique.

The essential responsibility of any employee is to be positive, enthusiastic, and friendly. Advancement comes mainly from communication and motivation skills.

No one can manufacture an image for anyone. All a consultant can do is advise and guide you on capitalizing on your personal assets.

Have an "At-Your-Best" checklist to know how to et yourself into peak performance.

Audiences remember concepts (idea clusters formed by words) and emotional expressions.

Fears of failure and embarrassment are the biggest stops most people have to doing things.

Insecure communicators see themselves as worse than they are.

Antidotes to fear are preparation and use of energy in delivery.

Media relations:
-Safest way to deal with the press is to not make off-the -record statements. Avoid wisecracks. Give true and complete information.
- You are always on the defense with media, but you caan use it to score.
- Never go into an interview unprepared. Stay composed at all times.
- Have an agenda with at least 3 major points you want to mention in the interview.
- Don't go beyond the bounds of your stated position.
- Be friendly, brief, direct, and positive. Explain things in layman's terms.
- Answer the question and add a point(s) from your agenda.
- Be aware of the reporters agenda.
- You're not obliged to reveal confidential information, but give a rational explanation why, not "No comment".

In the end, we're all human and vulnerable, so show that side of yourself and you'll gather sympathy and rapport.

Rating: 4 stars
Summary: Create a Winner's Image
Review: The message of this book is that you possess a degree of control over your destiny, over the image you chose to project. It is a book who points out the proactive stance that can be taken by anyone to make a positive difference in the way others perceive him or her.
Considering the author's vast experience in television, his comments about on-air appearance are worth special attention. He writes, "On radio and TV, your air of decisiveness (style/delivery) is as important as your substance (content/words). Be friendly, be brief, be direct, and be positive."
Commitment is often the missing ingredient in effectively conveying your message to other people. He notes, "Ordinary people become extraordinary communicators when they are fired up with commitment."
On the effective, tactful use of humor, he observes, "...humor is a way to take the sting our of almost anything and is used entirely too infrequently in the world."
In this easy-to-read, straightforward book, the principles of effective communication are described in such a way that they're easy to apply. To enhance your communication, read it.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: Practice Being Your Best
Review: This title comes from the great Emerson, who also said, "Who you are speaks so loudly, I can't hear what you say."

It is not just the words that you verbalize, but the way you carry yourself, as well as the interpretation that your interlocutor makes about what you are expressing.

Although this author is a media a political image adviser, his lessons are for everyone.

Think about. Haven't you said something before that you wish you could take back? And hasn't someone said something to you, in words that contradicted their actions? And I'll bet that their actions mean more to you, than their words.

We all throw out symbols of communication, every minute that we are interacting with another person.

And the meaning of that communication really comes down to the response or reaction that we get from those we are talking to.

Read this book to enhance the quality of your life.

This book enhanced how I read people, because it also taught be to be more free to communicate with my subconscious mind.

And the more my self-talk enhanced, the more my social interactions with others became better.

Read this book because you deserve more out of your life.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: Practice Being Your Best
Review: This title comes from the great Emerson, who also said, "Who you are speaks so loudly, I can't hear what you say."

It is not just the words that you verbalize, but the way you carry yourself, as well as the interpretation that your interlocutor makes about what you are expressing.

Although this author is a media a political image adviser, his lessons are for everyone.

Think about. Haven't you said something before that you wish you could take back? And hasn't someone said something to you, in words that contradicted their actions? And I'll bet that their actions mean more to you, than their words.

We all throw out symbols of communication, every minute that we are interacting with another person.

And the meaning of that communication really comes down to the response or reaction that we get from those we are talking to.

Read this book to enhance the quality of your life.

This book enhanced how I read people, because it also taught be to be more free to communicate with my subconscious mind.

And the more my self-talk enhanced, the more my social interactions with others became better.

Read this book because you deserve more out of your life.


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