Ten Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives

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Summary: I think it should be required reading for all gay men
Review: This is an interesting, engaging and reader friendly book that for the most part stays away from psychobabble and preachiness. He illustrates how the stunted emotional/psychological development of gay men is a result of our homophobic culture. The chapter on sexual compulsions/additions is also one of the best I've ever read. At times the book does feel a little self-congradulatory and also a promotion for imago therapy but dont let that stop you from reading it. It is well worth the money and has should be read by all gay men, single or partnered of any age.

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Summary: Wonderful work
Review: This is one of the best books on the subject of gay relationships available. Honest and direct and full of good detail. A great explanation of the coming out stages and warnings about culturally destructive interventions. While just reading this book will not qualify a straight therapist to work with gay men, it is a must read for graduate students to experienced therapists. Highly recommended and full of useful information.

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Summary: Great Book
Review: This is one of the best self-improvement books I've read. Mr. Kort has restored my faith in clinical social work.

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Summary: A bit redundant
Review: This seems to be a generally positive and well-intentioned book, covering aspects of life-improvement like "taking charge of your life" and "understanding the stages of love". However, I can't help but feel a certain redundancy in its self-congratulatory tone and focus. Of course gay men have the same right as anyone to improve their lives, but surely it can't be a high priority for them. How about some life-improvement ideas for morose and melancholy men? They are really the ones who need cheering up.