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Summary: This book has been a huge help!!!!
Review: I read this on the bus on the way from visiting home. Oh man did it open up so much discussion with myself and my better half. We are trying to work out so many issues and this book has helped me see why we do certain things and that is helping us!! It is more than just about relationships though. Everything on how to grow up and comming out, family issues, agism in the gay community... There could be a book written on every chapter!!! I wish there were!!!
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Summary: What a terrific book--A must for every gay man!!!
Review: I stumbled upon to this book on a display table on gay literature at a local book store. Yes! The picture of the cute author on the cover was the very first thing that caught my eye. Sorry, guys--he's married! However, when I gleamed through the table of contents and read the first chapter--I could not put it down! I have read enough gay, self-help psychology books to know this is the best of all. Kort is a trained psychotherapist, who offers his personal experiences and those of his clients to clarify why we as gay men "act out" and instructs us how to empower ourselves to changes our negative behavior(s) and attitude(s)--no matter how entrenched we they think they are. I was not until I read this book that I realized that I harbored some degree of internalized homophobia or heterosexism. According to the author there are some thought patterns and actions are very subtle and exists on a subconscious level, e.g. being non-commital in relationships, gay men's obession with youth and the perfect male physique over other qualities in our search for the perfect boyfriend, catty, hurtful insults gay men say to and about each other, etc. I highly recommend this book. It's written in a clear, direct, understandable style--not leaden with heavy obtuse, psycho-babble. I assure you it will set you in the right path towards developing a healthier, happier perspective on life.
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Summary: The only self help book gay men will ever need!
Review: In his book, "10 things....", Joe Kort successfully establishes 10 things all gay men need to be aware of, acknowledge, and follow. Using personal accounts from clients and himself, (he even goes as far as to admit when he was having relationship issues!), he clearly and simply illustrates how gay men can improve their lives, relationships and self-worth. If you are just coming out, or have been out and are looking for more in your life, gay guys, this is your book!
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Summary: A Guide With Good Intentions
Review: Joe Kort's book is full of good intentions, great advice and packed with real life examples. Although the contents are factual and certainly have real meaning for any gay man who reads it, it's still a brief summary. If Mr. Kort had added more diverse examples of gay men's hardships and how they overcame them, it would be even more helpful. However, that's a tricky prospect, as redundancy is a tough trap to avoid. I am saying that the book is terribly short for the immense amount of subject matter it attempts to cover. It seems to be geared toward the younger gay man (not necessarily in age) and can be viewed only as a short general guide. Perhaps another book addressing issues for happy single men may be forthcoming, as we do exist. It is still well-written, even if it does read as a tome.
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Summary: A Directional Guide With Good Intentions
Review: Joe Kort's book is full of good intentions, great advice and packed with real life examples. Although the contents are factual and certainly have real meaning for any gay man who reads it, it's still a brief summary. If Mr. Kort had added more diverse examples of gay men's hardships and how they overcame them, it would be even more helpful. However, that's a tricky prospect, as redundancy is a tough trap to avoid. I am saying that the book is terribly short for the immense amount of subject matter it attempts to cover. It seems to be geared toward the younger gay man (not necessarily in age) and can be viewed only as a short general guide. Perhaps another book addressing issues for happy single men may be forthcoming, as we do exist. It is still well-written, even if it does read as a tome.
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Summary: High Five for Gay Men
Review: Since coming out to myself and to others, I have read numerous books about different aspects of affirming myself as a gay man. At last, Joe Kort has put it all together and more. He integrates so many aspects of what I, as a gay man, need to do to fully reach my potential. And he illustrates those steps so well with concrete examples. While most of the lessons are geared to gay men, many apply to all men. I also was able to pat myself on the back for the steps that I have taken and see more clearly where I have more to do. Thanks, Joe.
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Summary: American Dream?
Review: The focus is to grow up, get a life and develop a long term relationship. The more I read the more I felt like I was being told I needed to get married, have kids and buy a house with a white picket fence. The echo of post WWII American dream kept coming to mind.
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Summary: EXTREMELY Helpful for men dealing with some issues....
Review: This book changed my life in some extremely positive ways. It's written by a brilliant psychologist. This is where the book differs from others I've read. He goes into the psychological aspects of why gay men bahave the way they do and why people react the way they do. His book taught me that I too was expressing homophobia towards myself and others with things I'd say and do. His book literally changed my entire outlook on my life and set me on the path of actually being able to be happy with who I am and what I've accomplished. I'd recommend this book to anyone....because you're never too young or old to start improving your life!!
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Summary: Ten Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives
Review: This is a must read for all gay men. Many of the issues that gay men deal with are discussed in this book, and you can see the cause and effect relationship that occurs. I can honestly say that after reading this, I know now what some of my friends are dealing with, based on observations and discussion that Joe has with his clients. GREAT BOOK
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Summary: Laudable Life Lore
Review: This is an excellent, workmanlike book dealing with issues familiar to all gay men (and there families). It is also an insightful resource to help recognize certain behaviors gay men can fall or play into and how to not just avoid those behaviors but to assert positive, self affirming actions to lead to happier and more fulfilling lives. Mr Kort has also made this an eminently readable, accessible and where appropriate, humorous presentation. I look forwrd to many more books.
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