Helper by Design: God's Perfect Plan for Women in Marriage

Rating:
Summary: Excellent Book!
Review: This is, by far, THE BEST book written on this topic that I have ever read. Elyse lays out God's plan for us starting from "the beginning." I very much appreciate her emphasis on the Scriptures, allowing God to enlighten us through His Word, instead of being convinced by good argument. If you want to know how to live with, love, and support your husband, read this book. If you want to know how your identity fits in with being a "help meet", read this book. If you feel frustrated with your unbelieving, or believing but still growing, spouse, read this book. Elyse paints an incredible picture of women made in God's image. She tears down your defenses, releasing you to explore the truth about who you are meant to be as a wife. Problems will always exist in marriages, but understanding the unique role you have in it, ordained by God, helps you to overcome. As always, there is joy and peace when you do things God's way. Elyse has shown me that marriage insn't something to be endured, but to enjoy. There is hope and happiness even if your spouse isn't perfect. I highly recommend this book, especially as a pastor's wife.

Rating:
Summary: Excellent Book!
Review: This is, by far, THE BEST book written on this topic that I have ever read. Elyse lays out God's plan for us starting from "the beginning." I very much appreciate her emphasis on the Scriptures, allowing God to enlighten us through His Word, instead of being convinced by good argument. If you want to know how to live with, love, and support your husband, read this book. If you want to know how your identity fits in with being a "help meet", read this book. If you feel frustrated with your unbelieving, or believing but still growing, spouse, read this book. Elyse paints an incredible picture of women made in God's image. She tears down your defenses, releasing you to explore the truth about who you are meant to be as a wife. Problems will always exist in marriages, but understanding the unique role you have in it, ordained by God, helps you to overcome. As always, there is joy and peace when you do things God's way. Elyse has shown me that marriage insn't something to be endured, but to enjoy. There is hope and happiness even if your spouse isn't perfect. I highly recommend this book, especially as a pastor's wife.

Rating:
Summary: This book has transformed marriages
Review: We used this book in a small group setting with 30-45 women. We spent approximately 12 weeks doing one chapter a week. The women began commenting week after week that this book simply transformed their marriages. One reason for the success of the book is it helps women to gain a biblical perspective on their role as "Help Mate" to their husband. Thus instead of focusing on changing their husband, they need to look at their own lives; and see where change needs to take place. Elyse does an excellent job at getting to the heart of the issue.

Rating:
Summary: This book has transformed marriages
Review: We used this book in a small group setting with 30-45 women. We spent approximately 12 weeks doing one chapter a week. The women began commenting week after week that this book simply transformed their marriages. One reason for the success of the book is it helps women to gain a biblical perspective on their role as "Help Mate" to their husband. Thus instead of focusing on changing their husband, they need to look at their own lives; and see where change needs to take place. Elyse does an excellent job at getting to the heart of the issue.