He-Motions: Even Strong Men Struggle

Rating:
Summary: Recommended for men and women
Review: A recent Dallas Morning News column profiling T.D. Jakes quoted a University of Houston sociology professor saying that Jakes is "incredible in how he's able to diagnose people's pain. He has an uncanny ability to put a finger on the human condition." Jakes' new book He-Motions illustrates the verity of the professor's statement. In He-Motions, Jakes nails the issues and challenges Christian men face today in trying to fulfill their many roles and pursue their dreams.

Jakes writes from his heart and soul as a pastor, father, husband and entrepreneur. In the opening pages, he describes his motivation for writing: "I want to share what I've learned. I want to cut through so much of the junk imposed on men today and talk heart to heart about what it means to be a man, not in some touchy-feely group hug kind of way but in an honest, soul-bearing way, which also respects men and honors the women who love them and whom they love."

Jakes thoroughly succeeds in fulfilling his desire for this book. Not only does he address male readers, but he also targets female readers who hope to gain insights about men. Jakes' no-holds barred writing offers refreshing candor for those wanting an honest assessment of who they are and where they are in life.

Jakes writes about his childhood, his ministry, his family and his ups and downs in life-always tying stories to life lessons for readers. It does not take the reader long to discern that Jakes possesses a vast breadth of wisdom and understanding about the inner workings of men in our culture.

Jakes writes that "a man must value himself." He-Motions can help readers make great strides in finding value in themselves-regardless of their circumstances. He encourages men to refuse to become discouraged but to keep moving toward their destiny while simultaneously enjoying the splendid moments of life's journey.

The book is written as if Jakes is in the room having a one-on-one talk with the reader. If it was in fact such a talk, it would surely involve laughing, weeping, praying and dreaming. One such example of the conversational style is when Jakes writes about balancing family and career.

He writes, "I'm here to tell you that if you don't contain your work life and segregate it from your home life, then your career will consume the marriage like a campfire blazing outside of its circle of rocks and roaring into a life-threatening forest fire."

There is not an area of discussion where Jakes lets men off the hook. He writes authoritatively about power, money and sex. In the financial arena, Jakes commands readers, "Stop asking God to bless an area where you refuse to obey His Word for your life."

In one relationship area after another, Jakes' writing leads the reader to self-examination, awareness, forgiveness and improvement. His writing on subjects such as a man's relationships with his father, children, wife, other men, time, money and God is honest and down to earth. It is also practical, as are the questions for men and women at the end of each chapter.

Throughout the book, Jakes references the life of David to shed light on the above relationships from a Biblical perspective.

Jakes encourages readers that "someone needs to know who you are and where you are at all times in your walk and life." This book could be an effective tool to use in a discussion or accountability group to help people grow stronger relationships. I encourage men and women to take advantage of the wisdom and insights Jakes shares in this book.

Rating:
Summary: Dynamic, Insightful Book...A Must Have for Every Man
Review: Bishop Jakes does an excellent job of delving into the minds of men. He speaks to our struggles and the daily challenges faced in our homes, at work, and in the church. Every man should read this book!

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Summary: non-religious reader
Review: Halfway thru E-motions, Bishop Jakes made clear what Spirituality is about. Not height, weight, race/color, or persuasion
Bishop Jakes never fell into the trap of the 'motivational
speaker', spurring me to swimmin pools; movie stars, etc. He
expounded on how to overcome our perceived limitations, which is much different than making a bunch of loot -robbers and thieves usually don't fare better after a big score.
Two novels I've read take it another level:'That Caucafrican
Distraction' and 'MAMAsense' by HW Benjamin



Rating:
Summary: In Respect & Appreciation
Review: In this book, Bishop T.D. Jakes proves his worth as a man expounding on God's word and God's plan for our lives. As men, we often try to put on the hard shell exterior, but often times we are struggling on the inside. This book offers insight and really lets us know that it's okay to struggle. We are all human. That's why God is there. I can appreciate any man or woman who can explain to the detail like Jakes does in the pulpit and on paper. He-Motions is a well-written helpful tool that men like me and even women can use to be enlightened over and over again.

Rating:
Summary: Great Motivator
Review: Jakes is a wonderful motivator. He will encourage you and uplift your soul. This book is a great tool for men and a wonderful gift for wives to give to their husbands.

I would like to recommend a wonderful, wonderful book for women of all ages called WOMAN TAKE YOUR POSITION. This book will definitely help the women to understand their position in the kingdom of God and within their marriage union. It is a great book for those who are engaged and a terrific for woman who are in a marriage. A MUST READ!

Rating:
Summary: The Pain Continues
Review: Jakes promised me solutions and he promised me strength. Looking into his eyes on the cover of his book, it certainly FELT like he could deliver these things to me. He could not. His words left me feeling empty and alone, not for their content as much as their delivery. He tries to inspire, offer me solutions and strength, but for the life of him he can't put his thoughts together in an effective way. I felt what he was saying was not to help me in my life, but for him to pay the bills by trying to sell me false hope.

Rating:
Summary: It's About Time
Review: Real honesty, real answers, a real man! I loved this book and my husband enjoyed even more. This is a real breakthrough book. Even if you don't read a lot, you won't be able to put this one down. There's a king inside waiting to get out of every man, this book unlocks the door.

Pam Perry, columnist/freelance writer
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