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Summary: A Wonderful Example to People Of All Ages
Review: First of all, I'd like to say something to those who believe Josh Harris dated his wife under the term "courtship" and in reality did not "kiss dating goodbye". I believe that this idea is completely unfounded. The latest edition of the Merriam-Webster dictionary defines courting as "engaging in social activities leading to engagement and marriage." The important thing to remember is that dating by the world's terms is a relationship in which the two people involved see each other outside of recreational/group activities. With courtship, a person is attracted to someone because of their character and, usually, their love for the Lord - NOT because of how cute they look or how popular they are.Now, I'm only 16, but I've read more books than a LOT of people, and I've seen a lot of television, and I've seen enough of the world to know that there IS a difference in the typical dating relationship and Joshua Harris' example of courtship. To me, "Boy Meets Girl" clearly defines how to enter into a relationship with the intent of discovering whether marriage could be a result. If the people realize that they cannot see a future together, the relationship is ended. "Boy Meets Girl" shows guys and girls alike how to serve God and not themselves. I know that to a lot of people, the idea of "guarding someone's heart" is laughable. It was to me, until I realized that in order to fully serve God, I had to guard the hearts of my brothers and sisters in Christ. This is hard to do, but I feel like it's a small price to pay compared to what Jesus did for me on the cross. I encourage everyone, whether single, married, or contemplating a relationship, to read both of Josh's books, "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" and "Boy Meets Girl." I had doubts at first, but now it's clear to me what the message is. All I ask is that you give it a chance before you dismiss it. This book is one of my favorites. It showed me another way that I could serve the Lord in my life, and for that I will always be grateful to Joshua and Shannon Harris.
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Summary: Truthful explanation of "godly dating": courtship
Review: Josh Harris and his wife are two amazing Christians who have got the right perspective on dating. They have written this fabulous book that I read over and over again but also I kissed Dating Goodbye, which is equally wonderful. This book gives a clear, down-to-earth explanation of courtship and marriage. I am now to young to be thinking of marriage, but I do, and this has given me all the answers to any questions on meeting "Mr. Right", God's way not the world's way. I also love their website which gives good commentary and updates to his books and speaking dates. This book includes personal stories, including their own, tips on marriage as well as courtship, also it gives advice on the godly wife and women positions in a marriage. He gives advice on any and every issue under the courtship topic. Plus it is all in an easy, enjoyable book with comical as well as serious chapters. The only thing left to say is that I give my heartfelt thanks to Shannon and Josh for their godly marriage, book and advice. They are truly a couple to model and copy in all other marriages. PLUS....I request that all read this book and learn the real way to meet your match in life. Thanks Josh and Shannon for your lives and words as an example to all couples in America.
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Summary: An Example
Review: Josh Harris sets a concrete example of his view of godly courtship through Boy Meets Girl. At the crux of the book is the story of how he met courted and married his wife Shannon. It is very complete in all the issues of dating that it addresses. Although he becomes confused in his logic and at times forgets the main point he tries to communicate, his own story brings his dating philosophy into clearer view. Boy Meets Girl is a sequal to the controversial I Kissed Dating Goodbye. Harris becomes much less controversial in this book and in a sense answers some of his critics that way. Yet he also loses some of his appeal in that he is not nearly as radical in this book. Boy Meets Girl is explains how to marry without dating. Those seeking godly relationships will find this book very helpful. I found his chapter on community and accountability very refreshing. The idea that a couple should have their relationship within a loving godly community is a point that is not ephasized enough. He made the point that weddings are public ceremonies designed like baptism, to show the world a committment. I found his ideas about the physical nature of relationships to be quite confusing and the lines aren't clearly drawn. Perhaps that is because there aren't any clear lines, however Harris is trying to draw lines by writing the book! I also think that he is basing his book largely on his own experiences and the experiences of those around him, and although he has captured the essence of how God wants us to date, I don't think he completely understands it himself. Examples and illustrations are colorful and move the book along quickly. Overall excellent book. I found it more informative and more correct than I Kissed Dating Goodbye.
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Summary: Incredibly, God-given advice from a godly man
Review: "Boy Meets Girl" is a God-inspired book that allows singles and couples to see that God is 10 times better than the Brothers Grimm. It gives practical information that allows readers of all ages to see that God is the best love story author of all time. He INVENTED love stories! He has His own schedule for everything, and a will for each person's life. This book has encouraged me and given me advice on both what to do while I wait for my Prince Charming, and what to do when I meet him, or start having a "more than friendship, less than lovers" relationship with him. By reading both of his books, it is obvious that God has poured His Holy Spirit into Joshua Harris. In this book, you will discover that God has a plan for your life. The easy part is realizing that. The hard part is waiting on Him to allow His will to unfold. I have liked the same guy for two years. I'm 16 years old, and for me, it's been really hard to wait on God. This book encouraged me to keep on waiting and allow God to either bring us together at the right time, or show me that He has someone much better in mind for me. The Lord has a plan for your life. Let Him write the best fairy tale ever through your life.
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Summary: Complete and utter vindication!
Review: I love this book! I even love it more than Josh's first one! I know he wasn't thinking this, but the first thing I thought was "See you bunch of nay-sayers, it can work and it will work"! This book is not only about Josh and Shannon's relationship, its about many other people who, while not having the same exact "cookie cutter" relationship(as many suggested Josh is for, when he's not) still had a pure relationship in both body and spirit, and are happy they did. Josh holds nothing back - He talks even of the urban legend of "if you don't practice sex then you'll be inexperienced on your wedding night" - and proves, once again, that truth will outshine lies. Pick up a copy. Outside the Bible, I have rarely found a author so filled with wisdom. Thanks again Josh for another great book based on the greatest book.
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Summary: Not for Teens
Review: I read this book and talked to some people. THis book is not for teens. It's more for the young Adult. Teens are already trying to get through their lives without having more chaos. I never did agree with Harris anyways but my friend said it was a good book. I wouldn't recommend it for a teen.
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Summary: A Perfect Story
Review: I recently started reading this book with a girl I am interested in. I could never have imagined a better way to get to know her and spend time with her. Joshua Harris' stories are incredible but even more so is the way he analyzes a relationship. From friendship to courtship, this is an amazing look at the Christian aspect of a relationship and the guidance that God should have over it. It is wonderful for couples who are considering dating because of the way it will make you discuss each others' thoughts and expectations. Buy this and I promise you won't regret it. We can barely put it down.
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Summary: Wow... Josh really gets you thinking
Review: I read this book within a few days of purchase. I found it INCREDIBLE. I found Josh's first book ("I Kissed Dating Good-Bye") to be a little dopey. Primarily because I didn't see how this plan could work. In "Boy Meets Girl" Josh shows how this is a very practical plan. I became convinced. Don't think that you should wait until you are in a relationship to read this book. READ IT NOW. It will prepare you for what is to come. It is my deep regret that this book several years ago, before I embarked on hazardous dating relationships. It saddens me greatly. Don't make the same mistake. Pick up "Boy Meets Girl" and let Josh's wisdom get through to you.
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Summary: Encouraging....
Review: I find this book to be awesome. I'm a 17 year old, and like most kids my age have made some mistakes in my dating life. Both I Kissed Dating Goodbye and Boy Meets Girl have completely changed my perspective on dating. I never like had sex or anything, but I was tossing my heart around and playing with other's hearts. I can see the mistake in that, and I'm working on asking forgiveness from some female companions. As far as the remark that 'downed' Josh's view on courtship, I totally disagreed with it. I believe "courtship" is making yourself and your past clean before God (cause he forgets sin) and then working on a pure relationship with somebody that has made the same committment as you. That's why I believe totally in what Josh has to say about courtship. And the remark about his wife is very judgmental. Any past mistakes either one of them made have been forgiven and they did the right thing after seeking God's cleansing. ---...
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Summary: Godly leaders for the next generation.
Review: God has truly gifted Joshua Harris with an ability to speak His truth in a way that connects with our generation. He doesn't speak in heavy theological tones, yet he doesn't water down the Word either. Boy Meets Girls is another classic in the mold of I Kissed Dating Goodbye. Joshua clearly defines his dating theology, now looking from the other side. Since publication of "Kissed" he has pursued and married a fine Christian woman. Now, he speaks on the godly way to find a godly woman. I found Boy Meets Girl refreshing. It gives the proper biblical outlook on controlling our lustful passions, finding Christlike intimacy with our future mates, and focusing our energies on God's Will. This is a good read for those struggling to find a mate, those recently stung by a broken relationship, and those who are in between. It resonates with young believers and senior saints. In his clear, lucid style, Joshua Harris clearly speaks for a generation of men and women who desire to serve God with their heart. Boy Meets Girl is a quality work and I highly recommend it.
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