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Summary: Courtship and not Dating.
Review: I read this book at a point in time when I wanted answers to how God would have us as young people to relate to one another when it comes to the opposite sex. I Kissed Dating Goodbye, helped me see the other side that many of us do not see when we see that boy and girl, holding hands and looking like the perfect couple as they date one another. The book confirmed what God have been saying to me about how I should look at a my christian Lady friends (whom I call Sisters), as a way by which God will show me what a Godly lady looks like, so that when I am ready for marriage I will be able to easily identify the Bone of my Bone, flesh of my flesh.
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Summary: Lock and Stock but not Barrel
Review: I confess that I did not kiss dating good-bye after reading this book. It did, however, cause me to evaluate my own relationships, both romantic and platonic, with men. It also helped me to deal with the residue from my broken engagement and gave me the courage to step out again in the world of romance with my head high demanding dating and relationships on my terms instead of the world's. This is a book to make you think about and evaluate your life, and even if the reader doesn't agree with the premise or the conclusions, it will challenge the reader, and that alone makes it worth reading.
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Summary: Not Helpful
Review: I have never been and never intend to be involved in the modern dating process. I agree with Mr. Harris that it is not biblical and puts us into the face of temptation, but that is all that he has to say. I did not gain anything from the book except a more solid conviction to court. Joshua did not give any principles or guidelines about courting and leaves his readers with nothing as an answer for the relationship question.
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Summary: Awesome
Review: Joshua's book was awesome. I've recommended it to many other people. It really made me look at dating in another light, and encouraged me to stay in God's will about my future husband. I'm so thrilled he's coming out with another book! I'd recommend this book to anyone.
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Summary: Did Josh Harris write this, or did I?
Review: I think that I easily could have written this book, as I have done many of the same things and reached many of the same conclusions as Joshua Harris did. However, I didn't write it, and in reading it, I came to a realization of the gut conclusions that I've reached over the course of my teenage and early 20's years. In a period in my life where I've begun to again contemplate serious romantic relationships, this book reminded me why I've shied away from them before, and steeled my resolve to remain God-focused in *all* of my relationships. A powerful, powerful book that I have a list of people to circulate it amongst!
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Summary: missing the boat
Review: This book does have many good points in it; however it does all of the finger pointing on dating itself instead of the people doing the dating. This book gives some great guidelines on how to value members of the opposite sex, but then scares the reader away from what is suppose to be an excellent experience at the right time, with the right person. I don't believe that it's the actual dating that causes so many heart aches, but the people who are dating. Just like the automobile, it's not the automobile itself that is dangerous, but when the people who are driving it aren't in control and not paying attention to any "street signs", it can be very dangerous. On the other hand, if you drive safely, it's a wonderful tool! There will always be risks in life, but just avoiding them won't only keep you safe, but will also deprive you. I recommend "Boundaries in Dating" for these issues, by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend. As a single college student myself, this book was of much better help and made a lot more sense to me.
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Summary: I kissed "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" goodbye
Review: Josh's premise is that dating among Christians can lead to all sorts of problems and even sexual immorality, therefore we should look for alternatives to dating. While he makes some valid points, ultimately Josh's argument is pretty shallow. The answer is responsible dating, not to give up dating altogether. After all, driving a car can lead to accidents, high expenses, isolation, and even death. Should we stop driving then? No, we should drive carefully. Overall, this is an immature book written by a 20 year old, and I wish he'd waited another 10 years before writing it.
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Summary: I LOVED IT!
Review: I read this book with about the same mindset as Josh Harris several years ago. What an encouragement! He said what I've been trying to say for several years. I really appreciate the nerve it took to write this book and Josh's honesty and dedication to his message. He has not gone unheard. I await his next release (Boy Meets Girl) with bated breath. Bravo! I give it two thumbs up.
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Summary: Revolutionary Love Attitude
Review: In times where young people are pressured into entering into relationships and where the concept of love has been muddled--this book gives a clear picture on where God's word stands on relationships, love and marriage. It challenges Christians to walk in righteousness and to not succumb to external influences. Joshua Harris writes with such boldness and clarity, that often times, I felt as if it was me in that situation-thoughts, emotions and feelings all running through me at the same time. This book should not just be read but more importantly, should be lived. In a sense, it's not really about dating per se, but about how we should walk in the purposes of God and being in submission to His will--because when we obey, then we set out to open the doors to receive all the good and perfect things that God desires for us to have. Live, laugh, serve, love--this is what the book has opened my eyes to see.
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Summary: Lessons I learned
Review: I actually rated this as 1 star to get your attention. I think that the big thing for me was the fact that I had never questioned dating v. spirituality. In developing a relationship with God, this book, along with the bible, mere christianity, and the bible have most influenced me. One of the biggest disturbances between man and God is man. Namely, relationships. Now, I am not saying relationships are bad, but I was very awakened to know that God should be put at the center of them. Indeed.
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