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Summary: differing perspectives
Review: Jeramy Clark's book on dating, though intending to be an alternative to Joshua Harris' book on "courtship", in many ways is no different. Clark and Harris say many of the same things regarding relationships. For much of the book the differences are merely semantic. Of the two books I would have to say that Harris' book is the more realistic when it comes to evaluating the emotional baggage and over-dependence for most, if not all, of us. Harris sees the weakness and self-centeredness of most relationships and seeks to safeguard us against it. Clark, though relying on the Holy Spirit to help us, seems to trust too much on our own strength in this issue, including an over-realized eschatology - we still war against the flesh (Romans 7).
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Summary: To Date or not to Date that is the Question......
Review: Although this review isn't exactly on the book I have a different type of thesis(I hope thats the right word to use). I believe that this is a great book, but I also believe that "I kissed dating goodbye" is a great book. Courtship is a very great thing, if it works for you. Dating is a very great thing, if it works for you. Both of these possibilitys(I know I misspelled that) are GREAT, but they MUST work for you and must go along the guide lines of God. If you have integrety, can date reasonably and responsably, and have will power to withstand temptation, then dating maybe for you. If you don't want to risk temptation, a scarred heart, or a broken heart, then courtship maybe for you. It all matters on the person. I believe that courtship and dating are both very great possibilties and can be conducted in a Christ like manner. It just all depends on the person and where they are in their walk with Christ. Therefore, if you are going to date. This book is a must read, along with "boundries for dating." And so I give this book 5 stars. However, if you are going to take the way of courtship. "I kissed dating goodbye" is a must read along with "Boy meets Girl." So I give that Book 5 Stars too. In His grip, Austin Clark
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Summary: A Book Writen With Bad Intentions
Review: Mr. Clark wrote his book with bad intentions. As he states he wrote his book because too many people were opting for non-dating route. While other books were written out of love and concern for the readers well being and spiritual walk, Mr. Clark's book was only interested in defending his point and putting an end to a legalistic view of dating and living. As a good friend once said, "Too many people are worried about being legalistic and not worried enough about sin. I choose to kiss Mr. Clark's book goodbye.
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Summary: Clear terminology and practical advice
Review: Many people know me as "the guy with a million books on dating." It is true that I've read everything from the Christian "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" to the secular "Mars and Venus on a Date." After reading all these books, I can honestly say that Jeremy Clark does the most thorough, and well thought-out job out of any of them. He starts by giving a SOLID definition to the word DATE. Once he "convinces" the "holier-than-thou-Christians" that dating is not in direct violation of God's will, he continues to describe how we should choose which people to get to know, or "date." Clark puts a realistic spin on the mind-numbing dating propganda that has been perpetuated by Joshua Harris. He's open, honest, and completely Biblically balanced in his approach. I highly reccomend this book. Don't hesitate to buy based on the brain-washed, one-star, date-a-phobics.
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Summary: An excellent, well thought out response!
Review: I teach at a Christian middle school and have a teenage daughter who is interested in beginning dating. Several people had recommended "I Kissed Dating Goodbye", but after thumbing through it at my local book store I decided it was too hard line for me. I picked up this book and was immediately impressed by it's blurb on the back. Having now read it, I would highly recommend this to anyone who is uncomfortable with only one answer to the dating question for Christian teens. Jeramy Clark presents a biblical framework that is balanced and reasonable for our time. A must read for Christian teens and parents!!
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Summary: Reality Check
Review: Hi, My name is Emily and I wanted to share how I felt about this book. As being a teenager, I felt this book was helpful in my own dating life. I felt it gave much insight to how some of us feel about dating, how to set guidlelines, what to look for, and what to look forward to! It was able to answer many of my questions about how to act, what to look for and be aware of for future dates, and especially to trust in God. Dating my not always be an option for teenagers. Many people don't believe you can just date other people and not think twice about the emotional issue. This made me realize that some people are driven on the physical attachment of having someone to be there for you and this made me think twice about each other's intentions when you go out on a date. If you are using each other for physical pleasure, you need to think twice about why you are going out with this person. You need to realize that God has that special someone for you somewhere! I think that we sometimes forget about God's plan for our life and just want what we want right now without asking God to help us. There was one part in the book about how we should pay attention to what others think. Girls need to practice modesty as well as how you portray yourself to those you are going out with. Do not lead them on or be fake. I believe that guys like it better when you are real and not afraid to speak your mind. To some, this may be intimidation but I feel that it is good to be honest from the beginning and just have a good time. Dating to me is a time to get to know someone that may be potential to you in the future. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that you can only date someone you think you are going to marry, I think this is a good way to learn what you are looking for in a future mate. Dating should be a fun experience, not a stressful one. Try to have your mindset and intetions focused on what God wants for you. I felt that I can go back to sections of this book to remind me how I should act and if I have questions. Take time with this, not everyone is ready to date or have relationships, be patient and trust God. This book is a good source to have around the home because it reminds me to not be selfish with my wants but to be selfless.
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Summary: By Far the Best!
Review: I just finished reading "I Gave Dating A Chance" and I would recommend it to anyone searching for the right way to date. I have been in a few serious relationships that have ended in heartache. I do not agree with the idea of courtship, but I was beginning to wonder if it was the only way to protect myself from becoming hurt once again. I have read numerous books on dating and this one is by far the best. It has challenged me to re-think my approach to dating so that I can puruse godly relationships. Give this book a try- you won't be disapointed!
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Summary: Great Book for all young Christians who want to Date Godly
Review: This book gives a great Biblical perspective on the confusing issue of dating as a Christian. There are so many different opinions on the subject, that it's almost confusing. But this book is different. It offers sensible, biblical advice for dating as a Christian. I would recommend this to all teenagers who "think" they are ready to date.
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Summary: I Gave Dating a Chance is helpful and I love it
Review: This book is very good from various perspectives. One of the greatest things about this book was that I really felt like the author wasn't just sitting around writing something from some psychological standpoint. I felt like the book was being written to me. The things he talked about were all issues I've struggled with in dating. I wish I had have read this book sooner. The book talked a lot about knowing how to respect the person you are dating, and how to respect the guidelines you set in your relationship. I've heard lots of people come and talk about purity and their opinions on dating, but unlike all the people who have talked to me about dating this book explained why. I'd recommend this book to any teenager to read before they start dating.
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Summary: A book of guidelines, not a step by step guide to Life
Review: Personally, I loved this book. I am 16 and Christian. This book answered many questions that I have had, as well as questions many of my friends have had. Jeramy Clark didn't write this book for you to solve your exact problems, he gave his real life situations and examples of others, then the Christian way of dealing with it. It is up to the reader to apply it to his or her life. Some people have reviewed this book and said it is unbiblical (if that is a word), but he just talks about the basics; don't date non Christians, how to focus your life on Christ while still persueing a relationship, ect... these are basic ideas of living in the Christian faith, and some teenagers may not seek the Bible for answers, or simply don't understand it; this book can do more good than harm. I suggest every teenager that is a Christian, or thinking about being one, reads this book. There are too many impurities in our high schools, and personally, I will not fall into the pressures of those acts. This book has definatly strengthened my morals. Feel free to e mail me with any questions or comments
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