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Summary: Great book for all ages!
Review: I received this book from a friend who was concerned about the relationship I was in. I read it over and over (still I get it out occasionally to remind me that God has someone for me and I only want His best in my life). After reading the book I overheard a few teenage girls in my church talking about boys they thought were cute, or who had a nice hair cut, or whatever! They were obviously "boy crazy"! So, I prayed about it and bought them both a copy. They loved it and have been positively changed by the words of Mr. Harris. I never found in the book that dating was a sin...what I did find was that God want's more for his children than "worldly dating"...the kissing all over and being overly close to each other, and yes...sex. Joshua explains of Gods great love for us. Real love. Not fading. He doesn't say that no one should date, he says that he chose not to for himself! You can get to know people in many other ways. And I agree with the statement that there is no reason to persue a relationship unless you are ready to get married. So many people go from person to person, many times being emotionally scared. Joshua is just trying to eliminate that pain for those who are headed in that direction. With so many diseases and abortions these days, I pray that this book will touch people and they will change their ways of sexual impurity. I'm sure that everyone reading this is not impure...and I pray this book helps them face peer pressures so they can remain pure before the Father. It is my intention to buy this book for every teen in our youth group. God has already provided for half of them, and I trust that He will provide for the other half. Just a note...I gave the book to one teenager whose father read it first and he said that it gave him good insight on what to look for in the future for his children. This book is helpful in many different areas and is highly recommended by me!
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Summary: strong and simple
Review: I really enjoyed reading this book. I have never dated and when people asked my why it was always really hard to explain. Joshua really strengthed my decision and helped me to see what i had seen wrong with it. I agree with Joshua that dating isn't a sin ands I don't think that everyone shouldn't date . I think that its a decision that evereyone has to make for themselves. This book was really good. I would highly recommend it.
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Summary: For Christians Only
Review: If you are a single or a teen Christian you simply must read this book. Josh Harris applies biblical principles on love and dating. If you have a desire to live for Christ and are curious what the bible says about dating, this is the book for you. Read this book for your future spouse. Read this book for yourself.
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Summary: Kiss this Dating Book Hello!
Review: I am a teenager and I have heard my friends rave about this book and I was like 'yeah another book telling me what to do.' But I read it just to see what it was about. Trust me- this book is worth the nine bucks. I believe in dating, as long as you know why you are dating. Harris wasn't saying dating is the ultimate sin, he was saying how dangerous sexual sin is. He was talking about bringing morals back into your life and getting equipped for the game of dating for those (including myself) who choose to play and offering reassurance to those who choose not to play. I highly recommend this book, whether you believe in dating or not. You won't regret it. Be sure to have an open mind and be sure to read the forward.
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Summary: I kissed this dating book goodbye
Review: My friend had this book and she let me borrow it right after my boyfriend and I broke up. It did have alot of good points, I will give it that...but it made dating sound like the ultimate sin. I've dated one guy and it's been with the outlook that I could one day marry him. I don't see anything wrong with dating so I believe that the author was pretty much off base. I think we should take his thoughts into consideration but not base our own principals around what he said. So all in all, I think you'd be better off buying a book about how to date effectively with God in the relationship
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Summary: Even for a younger generation
Review: Although I'm not in my 20s, I benifitted greatly! This book has helped me draw lines and set standards for dating befor I start. Joshua offers a completely different perspective on relationships that makes a lot of sense. For anyone whoever would consider being in a relationship, this is the book to read. <><
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Summary: Excellent Book!
Review: I thought this was an excellent book that every teenager ought to read! I would Highly recommend it!
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Summary: There is a Need To Kiss Dating Good-bye!
Review: The first reviewer writes, "Although it didn't come right out and say if dating is a sin or not, it gave major implications that dating is very evil, suitable only for pagans!" What utter nonsense! When I still taught school, I told my eighth graders not to write a book report about a book without actually reading the book. I was always able to tell when they hadn't read the book they were writing about. I had very same feeling when I read the review I have just quoted. I have read this book. My husband has also read this book. We used this book with the youth group in our church. Josh doesn't say nor imply that dating is evil or even wrong. He does say that there is a correct time for dating. He then goes on to explain when that time is for a real Christian. He makes it clear that dating should be a part of a Christian's life at the proper time but not before. He is right about this. He also gives good advice about who to date and why. His reasoning is grounding in the Bible and common sense. It is very good book and I certainly recommend it for anyone who wants their children to please God and not today's society.
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Summary: Chances are you have already kissed dating goodbye.
Review: I think this book confuses dating with casual sex, settling for the wrong person, having a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend, etc. If you are already dating with the intention of marriage and living a life devoted to your family and God, you have already gotten Mr. Harris' point. What I found to be the weakest point in this book was the distinction between dating and courting. Courting is encouraged, but no clear examples were given on how this differs from dating. Overall I don't think this book told me anything I didn't already know. I think Mr. Harris could have used some stronger examples to back up his points, or better yet changed the title to "I Kissed Casual Friendships Goodbye." In any case I did finish this book to the end and did not find it boring. Maybe a little laughable at times, but it did make me think. It made me think how I would have written it! I am honestly suprised by all of the stellar reviews this book has gotten.
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Summary: Brought up good, points but totally off base!
Review: This book did have some good ideas. People should know the farthest they will go on a date before the actual event. The author thinks that every person shouldn't date unless they are almost engaged. I disagree with him on that point. The book should have been more about how to choose a good person to date, seek God's will, and then try at a relationship. Instead this book goes off on how dating will harm your life and relationship with God and others. Dating was created by God and HE needs to be kept in mind when in a relationship. The author of this book should not be the judge on your relationships, but GOD'S Will should be sekked.
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