Rating: Summary: A VICTORY FOR ALL Review: He longed for a son. So much so that at times Coach Gene Stallings imagined he could see him. "He'd always be a big strapping boy," Stallings writes, "and I'd envision him intercepting a pass, tucking that football under his arm, and sprinting to make a touchdown." When his wife, Ruth Ann, did give birth to a son on June 11, 1962, Stallings couldn't wait to call his mentor and friend, Paul "Bear" Bryant. "We've got the boy, Coach Bryant!" he exulted. Then he proudly handed out blue banded cigars. His elation was short lived. The next day when Stallings was told that his son was a mongoloid, the strapping assistant coach at Alabama passed out cold. It would be years before "Down syndrome" replaced mongoloid as an accepted term for the chromosomal disorder that results in delayed physical and mental development. It was only a few months before the couple learned that their son, John Mark, called Johnny, also had a serious heart defect. Doctors and friends urged them to institutionalize their baby. The Stallings refused. They would raise their third child at home despite predictions that Johnny would never sit, walk or talk and, in all probability, not live to see his first birthday. More than an account of raising an exceptional child, Another Season is testimony to a father's love. It is the heartwarming story of a remarkable family., as well as a poignant reminder of how perseverance and courage can overcome daunting obstacles. Johnny's four sisters were his staunchest allies. Eager for him to learn, they rigged shoelaces on bedposts to repeatedly show him how to make loops and tie a knot - a feat he accomplished at six. Later, his sisters measured prospective dates by how warmly the boys responded to Johnny. The bond between father and son grew stronger each day. Whether Stallings was coaching at Texas A & M, with the Dallas Cowboys, with the St. Louis Cardinals or leading the Crimson Tide, a devoted happy Johnny accompanied him to practice. Two good reasons prompted Stallings' move to Dallas in 1972: superior educational opportunities for Johnny, and he needed a job. However, his first days as defensive secondary coach for the Cowboys were rocky. Players and staff knew he'd never been to a pro camp, never played pro football, and didn't have an enviable record at Texas A & M. As he brought Johnny to Saturday practice for the first time, he wondered how the Cowboy players would react. He knew when he saw a grinning Johnny squeezed between Roger Staubach and Lee Roy Jordan on a locker room bench. His son would belong. The boy became such an integral part of the team that when Tom Landry passed out 1977 Super Bowl rings, Johnny's name was called . After slowly making his way to the front of the room, Johnny found that the diamond studded ring fit perfectly on his clubbed finger. In 1989 Stallings saw himself as "a fifty-four-year-old coach who had been fired twice" (by A& M and the Cardinals). Then came the call from the president of the University of Alabama. On January 11, 1990, in Tuscaloosa, he was introduced as Alabama's 22nd head coach . There Johnny found work he enjoyed at the Paul Bryant Museum. Stallings was happy to be where his career had begun. That was also where it would end. After six years with the Crimson Tide, most of his goals were accomplished. He had compiled an average of ten wins a season, they had a 70-15-1 record, and won a national championship. Believing Johnny was slowing down and needed him, Stallings resigned. Some 300 people attended the farewell reception hosted by the Museum staff in Johnny's honor. As Stallings stood in a corner, he watched his 34-year-old son smiling, hugging friends, and posing for photographers. His boy had beaten all the odds and grown to manhood. In a television commercial filmed for the United Way, Stallings says of his son, "His progress is measured in little victories." For Johnny Stallings and his family those small victories added up to a major triumph.
Rating: Summary: A VICTORY FOR ALL Review: He longed for a son. So much so that at times Coach Gene Stallings imagined he could see him. "He'd always be a big strapping boy," Stallings writes, "and I'd envision him intercepting a pass, tucking that football under his arm, and sprinting to make a touchdown." When his wife, Ruth Ann, did give birth to a son on June 11, 1962, Stallings couldn't wait to call his mentor and friend, Paul "Bear" Bryant. "We've got the boy, Coach Bryant!" he exulted. Then he proudly handed out blue banded cigars. His elation was short lived. The next day when Stallings was told that his son was a mongoloid, the strapping assistant coach at Alabama passed out cold. It would be years before "Down syndrome" replaced mongoloid as an accepted term for the chromosomal disorder that results in delayed physical and mental development. It was only a few months before the couple learned that their son, John Mark, called Johnny, also had a serious heart defect. Doctors and friends urged them to institutionalize their baby. The Stallings refused. They would raise their third child at home despite predictions that Johnny would never sit, walk or talk and, in all probability, not live to see his first birthday. More than an account of raising an exceptional child, Another Season is testimony to a father's love. It is the heartwarming story of a remarkable family., as well as a poignant reminder of how perseverance and courage can overcome daunting obstacles. Johnny's four sisters were his staunchest allies. Eager for him to learn, they rigged shoelaces on bedposts to repeatedly show him how to make loops and tie a knot - a feat he accomplished at six. Later, his sisters measured prospective dates by how warmly the boys responded to Johnny. The bond between father and son grew stronger each day. Whether Stallings was coaching at Texas A & M, with the Dallas Cowboys, with the St. Louis Cardinals or leading the Crimson Tide, a devoted happy Johnny accompanied him to practice. Two good reasons prompted Stallings' move to Dallas in 1972: superior educational opportunities for Johnny, and he needed a job. However, his first days as defensive secondary coach for the Cowboys were rocky. Players and staff knew he'd never been to a pro camp, never played pro football, and didn't have an enviable record at Texas A & M. As he brought Johnny to Saturday practice for the first time, he wondered how the Cowboy players would react. He knew when he saw a grinning Johnny squeezed between Roger Staubach and Lee Roy Jordan on a locker room bench. His son would belong. The boy became such an integral part of the team that when Tom Landry passed out 1977 Super Bowl rings, Johnny's name was called . After slowly making his way to the front of the room, Johnny found that the diamond studded ring fit perfectly on his clubbed finger. In 1989 Stallings saw himself as "a fifty-four-year-old coach who had been fired twice" (by A& M and the Cardinals). Then came the call from the president of the University of Alabama. On January 11, 1990, in Tuscaloosa, he was introduced as Alabama's 22nd head coach . There Johnny found work he enjoyed at the Paul Bryant Museum. Stallings was happy to be where his career had begun. That was also where it would end. After six years with the Crimson Tide, most of his goals were accomplished. He had compiled an average of ten wins a season, they had a 70-15-1 record, and won a national championship. Believing Johnny was slowing down and needed him, Stallings resigned. Some 300 people attended the farewell reception hosted by the Museum staff in Johnny's honor. As Stallings stood in a corner, he watched his 34-year-old son smiling, hugging friends, and posing for photographers. His boy had beaten all the odds and grown to manhood. In a television commercial filmed for the United Way, Stallings says of his son, "His progress is measured in little victories." For Johnny Stallings and his family those small victories added up to a major triumph.
Rating: Summary: A VICTORY FOR ALL Review: He longed for a son. So much so that at times Coach Gene Stallings imagined he could see him. "He'd always be a big strapping boy," Stallings writes, "and I'd envision him intercepting a pass, tucking that football under his arm, and sprinting to make a touchdown." When his wife, Ruth Ann, did give birth to a son on June 11, 1962, Stallings couldn't wait to call his mentor and friend, Paul "Bear" Bryant. "We've got the boy, Coach Bryant!" he exulted. Then he proudly handed out blue banded cigars. His elation was short lived. The next day when Stallings was told that his son was a mongoloid, the strapping assistant coach at Alabama passed out cold. It would be years before "Down syndrome" replaced mongoloid as an accepted term for the chromosomal disorder that results in delayed physical and mental development. It was only a few months before the couple learned that their son, John Mark, called Johnny, also had a serious heart defect. Doctors and friends urged them to institutionalize their baby. The Stallings refused. They would raise their third child at home despite predictions that Johnny would never sit, walk or talk and, in all probability, not live to see his first birthday. More than an account of raising an exceptional child, Another Season is testimony to a father's love. It is the heartwarming story of a remarkable family., as well as a poignant reminder of how perseverance and courage can overcome daunting obstacles. Johnny's four sisters were his staunchest allies. Eager for him to learn, they rigged shoelaces on bedposts to repeatedly show him how to make loops and tie a knot - a feat he accomplished at six. Later, his sisters measured prospective dates by how warmly the boys responded to Johnny. The bond between father and son grew stronger each day. Whether Stallings was coaching at Texas A & M, with the Dallas Cowboys, with the St. Louis Cardinals or leading the Crimson Tide, a devoted happy Johnny accompanied him to practice. Two good reasons prompted Stallings' move to Dallas in 1972: superior educational opportunities for Johnny, and he needed a job. However, his first days as defensive secondary coach for the Cowboys were rocky. Players and staff knew he'd never been to a pro camp, never played pro football, and didn't have an enviable record at Texas A & M. As he brought Johnny to Saturday practice for the first time, he wondered how the Cowboy players would react. He knew when he saw a grinning Johnny squeezed between Roger Staubach and Lee Roy Jordan on a locker room bench. His son would belong. The boy became such an integral part of the team that when Tom Landry passed out 1977 Super Bowl rings, Johnny's name was called . After slowly making his way to the front of the room, Johnny found that the diamond studded ring fit perfectly on his clubbed finger. In 1989 Stallings saw himself as "a fifty-four-year-old coach who had been fired twice" (by A& M and the Cardinals). Then came the call from the president of the University of Alabama. On January 11, 1990, in Tuscaloosa, he was introduced as Alabama's 22nd head coach . There Johnny found work he enjoyed at the Paul Bryant Museum. Stallings was happy to be where his career had begun. That was also where it would end. After six years with the Crimson Tide, most of his goals were accomplished. He had compiled an average of ten wins a season, they had a 70-15-1 record, and won a national championship. Believing Johnny was slowing down and needed him, Stallings resigned. Some 300 people attended the farewell reception hosted by the Museum staff in Johnny's honor. As Stallings stood in a corner, he watched his 34-year-old son smiling, hugging friends, and posing for photographers. His boy had beaten all the odds and grown to manhood. In a television commercial filmed for the United Way, Stallings says of his son, "His progress is measured in little victories." For Johnny Stallings and his family those small victories added up to a major triumph.
Rating: Summary: Another Season was inspiring and touching the heart Review: I enjoyed reading this book a great deal. I grew up in the same general area of Texas as Couch Stallings. He has a heart as big as Texas. I am glad his career was so helpful for his son Johnny. I teach in special education classes and work with children with Down Syndrome. Johnny is a typical student I work with. These children are special with me and I love each one I care for. I would highly recommend to every person who works with handicapped children to read this super book.
Rating: Summary: A solid -- if difficult -- story, told by a solid man Review: I received this book unexpectedly after making a donation to my alma mater, from which Coach Stallings' daughters also graduated. Until then, I didn't even know the story had been written. The book fascinated me from many angles -- as a teacher, as the sister of someone born with a congenital handicap (whose parents were likewise advised to put him in an institution), as a reader of this genre of literature, and most of all, as someone who as a kid knew and adored John Mark Stallings. Many have commented on the way the author plainly tells his early disappointments, fears, and frustrations at having his only son be born with such apparent limitations. I, too, initially felt uncomfortable. However, I came to admire Mr. Stallings' willingness to expose to scorn the ideas that he had back in the 1960s and 70s, ideas that over the course of the book he does slowly show to have been mistaken. By the end of the book it is clear he realizes that people born with Down syndrome are far more capable and have a more meaningful life than was dreamed of at the time John Mark was born. The narrative also puts into perspective the origins of those ideas. The end result is an honest portrait by an unfailingly honest man, and the book shows the strong and loving relationship between Johnny and his father today. -- Andrea
Rating: Summary: very sympathetic book about son with downs syndrome Review: I thouroughtly enjoyed Cocah Stallings' caring and loving father's attitude.
Rating: Summary: John Mark Stallings is the true hero of Another Season. Review: I'm giving the book three stars for three reasons: One, we have a 3-month-old son with Down syndrome and anything on the subject is a welcomed addition to our library. Two, as difficult as it was to read some of Gene Stallings' comments about his own son, it probably took a lot for this football coach to bare his soul in print. Three, John Mark Stallings touched a deep nerve, giving me more hope that our little boy has every opportunity to grow up to be a loving, giving, productive man. But until the last two chapters, the book leaves you wondering whether Johnny was truly given a fair shake. Instead of celebrating the birth of his only son, in typical jock fashion, Stallings tries to punch out the doctor, changed the boy's name ("...we knew he would never be able to carry on the family name..."), laments that the boy will never be a strapping quarterback in the NFL, and worries over Johnny's slight physical differences. The book does illustrates how far we've progressed in our acceptance of people with Down syndrome, and brings home the fact that it is only the families of children with this disability who will ensure they get the unconditional love, attention and education they deserve. At the same time, though, I'm afraid it perpetuates some of the stereotypes and misconceptions that people continue to place on those with Down syndrome.
Rating: Summary: Perfect Book for Parents and Football Fans Review: On the surface, Coach Stalling's book rekindles emotions that all Alabama football fans felt during the 1992 Football season. Just re-living the Sugar Bowl win and National Championship was worth the reading book. On an emotional level, seeing that even someone so involved in something as football knows that hsi family is his first priority, really affected me. As a divorced, professional mother of 2 small children, I often get my priorites out of order. When I am frusterated with my children's behavior, I often remember how Coach accepts Johnny and does not expect things from him that he cannot do. Reading "Another Season" has helped me to slow down, enjoy my children, have reasonable expectations from them, and really enjoy them. I was also able to astonish friends and co-workers with my football knowlege when I was correctly named the Miami player George Teague took a ball away from in that infamous Sugar Bowl game. Thank you Coach Stalling and Johnny.
Rating: Summary: moving account of a father's love for his son Review: that you'll like, even if not a football fan . . . well-written and very quick reading.
Rating: Summary: A real-life story about football Review: This is an autobiography by a person who has had a highly successful career in college and pro football but knows the world does not start and end with sports. The raising of the Stallings' son Johnny, who has Down syndrome, is the real focus here. The two stories, football and family, are intertwined, as the authors never lose sight of the family even while describing the high and low points of Gene Stallings' coaching career. Indeed, Johnny as he grows shares in his father's work. The book gives insight into both the game and the people in it and in the Coach's family. These people are brought alive for the reader. It is the best book 'about' football I have read.
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