Rating: Summary: How Can You Ask Someone To Rate When The Book Is Not Out Review: "What Matters Most", I guess, will be based on both his previous books on time management, and his values-based Frankin Time Management model. After Frankin Quest and Covey Leadership Center (now Franklin Covey!) have been merged, I think both Hyrum Smith and Stephen Covey want to come up with a new time management model together called" What Matters Most". This will help them to combine the key and, sometimes, overlapped time management principles from both their previous "Ten Natural Laws" and "First Things First" books on time and life management. Basically I tend to find Hyrum's books more practical than Covey's, although Covey's books tend to be more philosophical, and intellectually provoking.
Rating: Summary: Life enhancement for the harried professional Review: As a working professional, wife, mother, and concerned member of the community I have been searching for help in balancing my life. I found Hyrum Smith's book extremely insightful into how I can "have it all" and "do it all." The first thing he does is to help me define what "having it all" is to me. And I've discovered that I need to decide what matters most to me and not let media nor soceity nor anybody else do that for me. Once what matters most has been determined I can now see how I can do it all. In addition to the self-help power of the book, I just found it extremely readable and immediately applicable. I've read stories from the book to my husband, children, and friends and they feel uplifted as opposed to preached to on how they need to improve. We especially enjoyed the section on Abundance. I highly recommend the book.
Rating: Summary: Wonderful Book! Review: Hyrum Smith does an excellent job portraying the tools we all need to use in our life if we are to succeed. As I just happen to live in the same area as he does it would be wonderful to run into him someday. Most of the material he's used in this book has been used (either books or tapes) by him before. However, like any positive material, it is all worth repeating. The only drawback to this book (four stars) is that it dwells so much on Hyrums experiences- rather than giving usable advice to its readers (the old WIIFM). This book did leave me with the warm fuzzies, which by the way, is one of the ways I rate a book. If you are a reader of self-help books, this is a winner.
Rating: Summary: "Great ideas and ideals from a man who lives as he writes" Review: Hyrum Smith does an excellent job portraying the tools we all need to use in our life if we are to succeed. As I just happen to live in the same area as he does it would be wonderful to run into him someday. Most of the material he's used in this book has been used (either books or tapes) by him before. However, like any positive material, it is all worth repeating. The only drawback to this book (four stars) is that it dwells so much on Hyrums experiences- rather than giving usable advice to its readers (the old WIIFM). This book did leave me with the warm fuzzies, which by the way, is one of the ways I rate a book. If you are a reader of self-help books, this is a winner.
Rating: Summary: A Lot of Repeat Review: I personally was disappointed in the amount of material in this book that is a repeat of the author's previous book The 10 Natural Laws of Successful Time and Life Management
Rating: Summary: Wonderful Book! Review: I picked this book up at the local library, and was deeply moved and inspired by it. I haven't read Mr. Smith's previous book, but certainly intend to look it up next time. As the title suggests, if you wish to lead a rich and fulfilling life, (and we're not talking material things here) you must live it in accordance with the values and people that matters most to you. You can't be everything to everyone, and you need to be clear about what matters most in your life, otherwise you will live your life in a fog. Once you are clear about what matters most, by living in accordance with those priorities, your life will be more in harmony with your deeper self. Rich with personal examples, I found this book reached to me at a deep level. Daring to ask yourself what matters most is the first step, then it's up to you to act on them. I would recommend this book to anyone.
Rating: Summary: Very general, bud good Review: If you are searching for a set of rules to get your life on track this is a highly advisable read. He talks about the affects of roles, missions, and values on how we make decisions about who we are and identifying who we want to become. It is a very COMMEN sense book which does have a lot of what's already been said alot of other times, but is still well worth reading.
Rating: Summary: A Value-Centered Approach to Life Strategies Review: Mr. Smith's book will inevitably be compared to Dr. Phillip McGraw's book, Life Strategies. In What Matters Most, the emphasis is on uncovering your values as well as your aims. That value-oriented element is better developed here than in Dr. McGraw's book. On the other hand, Life Strategies and the Handbook that goes with it provide much better material for implementing the changes than What Matters Most does. My suggestion is that you read all three books, starting with What Matters Most, followed by Life Strategies, and then the Life Strategies Workbook. "Be yourself, but be that perfectly" is the theme of this book. The problem is that " . . . too many have lost contact with the deeply held values that matter." As a result, being yourself perfectly " . . . won't necessarily be easy." This argument is based on the observation of the sense of peace and comfort we feel when we act in alignment with our values, and the unease that follows acting out of alignment with those values. Many anecdotes are shared that will ring true in almost everyone's experience to make that point. The bulk of the book focuses on helping you uncover what those values are and how to act more in alignment with them by using the benefits of more planning, action, and discovery in coordinating your roles with your life's mission and values. Mr. Smith is part of the Franklin Covey Company (for which he helped create the Franklin planner), and much of his thinking on mission and values will seem familiar from reading Dr. Stephen Covey's many books, such as Principle-Centered Leadership. Mr. Smith's treatment here is more practical than Dr. Covey's is in his books, and Mr. Smith provides many more examples. Dr. Covey's writing style is more lyrical, but Mr. Smith information is easier to work with. One of the great strengths of this book is its discussion of hero qualities. These include self-awareness, confidence, self-worth, a sense of urgency, a personal mission, personal magnetism, awareness of and respect for one's own uniqueness, having consistency in one's life, and having a sense of calmness and serenity. The book is worth buying just for this section, which is chapter one. One of the book's strengths is that it taps into our emotions very effectively. One of my favorite ways this was done is in describing the common lament "someday I'm going to . . ." and pointing out that today is a good time to get started with all of those important tasks. This is explored in chapter two. Part one focuses on explaining the clarity and power you can get from knowing who you are. Part two is the heart of the book -- discovering what matters most to you. Part three is a practical exercise in working on something that matters greatly to you. Part four expands your perspective on this process by looking at how it applies to organizations, over a lifetime, and to wider groups (there's a nice discussion of Nelson Mandela and Gary Player here). You are also encouraged to adopt an abundance mentality. This last material is very much like the Tony Robbins work on this same point. In part five, there is additional emotional reinforcement for starting to make the necessary changes. After you have finished reading and doing the exercises in the three books I have recommended to you, I suggest that you find someone who is in dispair about their own life and offer to help them learn these lessons, too. This will be a good way for you to both reinforce your new learning and to live a life of broader meaning and caring. Be part of the ever-expanding network of caring heroines and heroes who help others improve!
Rating: Summary: Very interesting, puts some perspective on life Review: Nice book, easy to read, very interesting insights about what to do to make living better on a daily basis. Have practiced the concepts Mr. Smith points, and they really make the difference.
Rating: Summary: Very "strategic". A good book, but not as outstanding as Review: the author's first book "The 10 natural laws of time and life management" which got a better balance of strategies and tactics.
According to page 66, the primary objective of the book is to help readers close the gap between what they really value and what they are doing, which the author describe as the most excruciating kind of pain. Along such, the author "prescribed" : "Burn it into memory. Wake up each morning and ask yourself, "What am I going to do today to close the gap between what I am doing and what really matters most to me?"" In my opinion, the author had been very successful in achieving his goal. This is a very enjoyable book under the author's very good writing skill. I might have rated it a five star if I had not read "The 10 natural laws" before this.
Below please find some passages I love for your reference. Hope you can have a better grasp of the strengths of this book.
Page 64: Why New Year Resolutions don't work? Part of the problem is that we have the cart before the horse. We think that by simply setting out a few vague goals, behavior changes will miraculously happen. Setting goals is important and necessary, but it's not the place to begin. My suggestion is that you delay writing resolutions until you have identified your governing values, those things in life that matter most to you, those things without which you would find life meaningless or unfulfilling, those things that lie at heart of who you are and who you hope to become.
Pg 150: The most effective tool I have discovered in whipping the demons is to have regular victories in my life every single day. When you do something right, take a moment and savor the feeling. Even a little victory does wonders for your confidence and motivation. Make a conscious effort to successfully complete some task each day related to something that really matters to you. That'll help keep the demons at bay.
Pg 151: There are many types of diseases that afflict the human body, and we spend millions and perhaps billions of dollars trying to find cures. But there is one disease of epidemic proportions in our society on which we spend little or no money or effort - the crippling disease called fear of failure.
Pg 153: There is a wonderful story about a very successful entrepreneur who was asked why he was so successful. His response was "Good decisions." The second question was "Well, how do you make good decisions?" The response,: "Experience." And then the final question: "How do you get experience?" And the response:"Bad decisions."
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