Rating: Summary: Works Just As Well With Adults As It Does With Children. Review: I first read this book as a psychology major in college, and found that the principles it discusses work just as well with adults as it does with children. Portions of the book have given me great success in dealing with difficult coworkers. It helped me to overcome some problematic situations with my wife as well. Shh - It's still my little secret.
Rating: Summary: A must for all parents Review: I first heard Adele Faber talk at a college near my home when I was pregnant with my first child. Everything she said made such sense! She really struck a chord with me. I immediately went out and bought this book, and read it cover to cover. I parent by the principals of this book, and I'm convinced my child is socially and emotionally happier and healthier because of it. I re-read it at least once a year, and always give it as a gift to new parents. This book is the "holy grail" of parenting, and anyone who influences a child's life, including teachers, babysitters, etc. should read this book.
Rating: Summary: It was a great book. Review: I borrowed the book from a friend and it was great as she had advised. However, I am a mother of twins aged (almost 7)and have difficulty in dealing with them one by one. Seems there is never enough time. Wish I could have some advice about that too. I'm Turkish and where I live there are no such groups as you mention in your book. Neither a pedagoge for that matter!
Rating: Summary: This is a book no parent should be without Review: I took a six week course based upon this book and also on the video with the same name. It has given me so many great pointers, and it's amazing to see how my sons react when I give them the respect and PROPER praise they so deserve! I've been recommending this book to everyone I know. It would be a great baby shower gift!
Rating: Summary: Divorced Father Uses Book With Mother and Stepfather Review: I see my son only 3-4 times per year but talk regularly with him, his mother, and stepfather regarding parenting issues. I've used this book for input into the telephone discussions we have. I've strongly encouraged his mother and stepfather to read and periodically review this important book. Our sixteen year old son is flexing his teen oats. We need to constantly work to find positive, growth-oriented solutions for and make him aware of the consequences of the negative situations he finds himself in. This book helps immensely.
Rating: Summary: It changed my life - and quite possibly saved my sanity. Review: After reading this book my relationship with my son changed for the better - much better. I think it teaches you how to relate to your children on a person to person level instead of a parent-child level which makes them feel a whole lot better about themselves. Instead ofa baby shower gift I buy this book.
Rating: Summary: understanding the barriers to communication Review: parenting is the most demanding job on earth.the book has made my job easier and more enjoyable.it is remarkably easy to read; the ideas are easy to grasp because of the cartoon strips.i can refer to any part of the book any time because it is so well written. one can pick out exact problem area and take corrective measures straight away. it taught me one singularly important lesson. no matter how young your kid,she deserves to be heard everytime and with respect.my 6 year old daughter also listens while i talk. and that is due to what i learnt from this very essential book.i simply love it.
Rating: Summary: This book works wonders even for kids who can't talk. Review: I am a psychologist and mother, with a 6 year old autistic son. I first read this book when he was about 18 months old, and I waited patiently and eagerly for him to begin talking. He didn't... and didn't... and didn't... because one of the hallmarks of autism is a language delay. It would be another 3 years before I really knew what his voice sounded like. Nonetheless, this book was a godsend for us, because, really, it teaches parents how to read and respond to their children's emotions, no matter what modality they use to communicate them. And what my child needed more than anything else was to have someone who could understand how he was feeling, and give words to those feelings, because he could not. "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen" gave me the tools to hear him and help him, even though he was not talking.Now, at age 6, he is talking a lot, reading even more, and is a happy, joyful, confident child, far from the stereotype of his disability. I believe that much of his positive emotion and self-esteem comes from knowing that his feelings are understood and respected, despite the communication barriers we face. Those are gifts I was able to give him because of the strategies I learned from "How to Talk..." We still have a long road to travel, but so does every parent. But rest assured, ALL of Faber and Mazlish's books will be making the journey with us.
Rating: Summary: A classic - Easy to read & packed with valuable ideas Review: Full of useful, practical parenting tips. Your entire family will benefit from the ideas presented in this book. What makes it a real winner is the down-to-earth way the information is presented. You can put the tools to work immediately and get wonderful results. Every parent and caregiver needs a copy of How to Talk in their library.
Rating: Summary: Should be in everyone's library Review: This book is great for all parents. Our children are under three, and we have already found it to be a big help. It helps you realize how bad you can sound as a parent and gives lots of suggestions for sounding better!!!
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