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Summary: An important book that should be read before you marry too..
Review: The author shows in-depth experience that is not to be quibbled with. I bought the book because my spouse was having an affair and I wanted to recover the marriage. I suggested we read it together, but nothing could convince my spouse to read it. As I read I found out WHY my spouse would not read it, and gave me the courage and conviction that I was not nuts, and showed how the affair involved partner would try to turn the tables all the time. Thank God for the section that mentioned NPD (narcissitic personality disorder). After researching further and talking with my own therapist about my spouses history, we came away without any doubts as to this devastating disorder, and that it's almost never curable. I'm out of a horiffically manipulative and loveless marriage perpertrated by the acting capabilities of my spouse. Thank-You Dr. Springs for saving me from hell.
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Summary: callous
Review: This book is dangerous reading for the betrayed spouse, who is already questioning every ounce of self esteem they possess. The betrayed spouse is left feeling more humiliated and devastated, while the cheating spouse is given justification for the betrayal. While both partners are responsible for their respective conduct in the relationship, not all people with marital problems choose infidelity. This is a book for betrayers who wish to blame their spouses. The author blames the victim. It is callous and insensitive and can be used as a painful weapon by the betrayer.
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Summary: How to Heal and Restore Your Relationship After Infidelity
Review: This is one FANTASTIC book to help each partner in the relationship take full responsibility for their part in the relationship breakdown that led to infidelity, and shows exactly what you can do to restore trust, intimacy, and a renewed sense of wholeness as well as a renewed commitment to continue with the one you love. This wonderful book clearly shows how EACH partner reacts, and how those reactions feel, and it is a vital resource for both partners to read in order to heal, and move forward together in a healthy, positive manner. It is also important to remember that trust is built again over time, and through many small experiences. You will learn how to stop negative reactions, and how to communicate with authenticity from the heart, rather than blame. This book is a MUST READ for anyone who is with someone that has been through the guilt, pain, and trauma of an affair, and how re-build again. Highly Recommended! Barbara Rose, author of, 'Individual Power' and 'If God Was Like Man'
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