Rating: Summary: Excellent, common sense methods that work! Review: Our 12 year old daughter was totally disrespectful. We spent a lot of time lecturing and punishing her. Nothing worked and we were frustrated. This program showed us why she behaved this way and what to do about it. It worked perfectly just as soon as we started using it. All of our frustration and heartache is gone. Our friends and relatives noticed and were the first to tell us how wonderful the changes in her are. We're now genuinely proud of our girl! The four methods are easy to remember and use. They're not magic, they just put you, the parent, back in charge. Her grades, self-confidence, and ambition have also improved. My sister has used it too with her totally disrespectful 20 year old college daughter. Same excellent results, but, it's obviously easier to start when the child is younger. We'd rate this tape a 5.0 on a 4.0 scale plus gratitude for a changed life!
Rating: Summary: WORKS ON ADULTS, TOO! Review: This is an effective programme which, I have discovered, works on adults too. If you've a disrespectful spouse, parent or sibling, try it out
Rating: Summary: A simple way of gaining control of your home Review: We never had a back talk problem with our kids. No, they were not perfect kids; they could roll their eyes, ignore their parents and be sassy like other children. The only difference is that we never tolerated that kind of behavior in our home. Our children are now young adults and  all of them are doing well. Even as adult children they would never dream of dishonoring their parents. You would think that as a pastor, I could effective teach others to do what we have done, but I had difficulty in communicated how we did this to other parents who needed help. To me, it was intuitive behavior and I could not understand why other parents did not do what my wife and I did. Frustrated, I ordered five copies of Backtalk after seeing the authors interviewed on the Today Show. Ricker and Crowder, parents who have conquered the Backtalk road, give common sense advice on how to reclaim parental authority, bring peace to your home, and help you raise up kids whom you will actually like. The principles set forth in Backtalk are based on the philosophical assumptions of Alfred Adler who believed that the most important point to make to parents was that their reaction to a child's misbehavior would either encourage the behavior, resulting in recurrence, or discourage the behavior. From this the authors have set forth a four-step system of logical consequences to discourage negative behavior and encourage positive behavior. The process is simple, but not easy. But take it from a dad and who raised up three respectful children, who and not only a joy to us but also to our friends, neighbors and congregation as well, it is worth the effort. For those of you who are unaware of the work of Adler, Dr. Laura of radio fame employs Adlerian methodology in her advice. But beware! The authors rightly point out that if you employ their method, you may be seen and being self-righteous and cruel by psychologist, school teachers, friends and even your own family. But this stuff works. Just look at my three kids.
Rating: Summary: A simple way of gaining control of your home Review: We never had a back talk problem with our kids. No, they were not perfect kids; they could roll their eyes, ignore their parents and be sassy like other children. The only difference is that we never tolerated that kind of behavior in our home. Our children are now young adults and all of them are doing well. Even as adult children they would never dream of dishonoring their parents. You would think that as a pastor, I could effective teach others to do what we have done, but I had difficulty in communicated how we did this to other parents who needed help. To me, it was intuitive behavior and I could not understand why other parents did not do what my wife and I did. Frustrated, I ordered five copies of Backtalk after seeing the authors interviewed on the Today Show. Ricker and Crowder, parents who have conquered the Backtalk road, give common sense advice on how to reclaim parental authority, bring peace to your home, and help you raise up kids whom you will actually like. The principles set forth in Backtalk are based on the philosophical assumptions of Alfred Adler who believed that the most important point to make to parents was that their reaction to a child's misbehavior would either encourage the behavior, resulting in recurrence, or discourage the behavior. From this the authors have set forth a four-step system of logical consequences to discourage negative behavior and encourage positive behavior. The process is simple, but not easy. But take it from a dad and who raised up three respectful children, who and not only a joy to us but also to our friends, neighbors and congregation as well, it is worth the effort. For those of you who are unaware of the work of Adler, Dr. Laura of radio fame employs Adlerian methodology in her advice. But beware! The authors rightly point out that if you employ their method, you may be seen and being self-righteous and cruel by psychologist, school teachers, friends and even your own family. But this stuff works. Just look at my three kids.
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