Rating:  Summary: For the Sex Goddess in You¿ Review: The best way to be a great lover is more than likely to have lots of fun sex in which you use your own imagination to discover your lovers' body, what they love, what they dislike. After years of being married, you might not think you need this book if you are basically happy with your sex life. You might want to have this book if you want to be "very" happy with your sex life. This book will give you many new ideas and will make you eager to start learning how to be a great lover. You will also find many ideas you already learned simply by having sex and experimenting. So in a way, you will feel more confident in discovering you know some of the tricks of the love trade and then you will want to add a few more ideas. Like Lou says, anything you do often, is worth doing well. What she focuses on however, is the quality of the experience. First lets say that desire is the biggest turn on. If your partner wants you, that is going to make you feel amazingly sexy. But if you want to know how to take that sexy feeling and put it into action, then you will enjoy learning a few techniques to spice up your love life. If you and your partner have fallen into the same love making styles, this could help you to feel a bit more adventurous. "Every man loves the idea of bringing out the wild side of a woman. Believing he alone has the capacity to do that creates a bond unlike any other. Its not just sensual-it's mental, emotional, and spiritual as well." ~ Lou Paget What you will find is an author who is thourally intrigued with the idea of pleasing a man. She wanted to know how women develop sexual savviness. In ten chapters she covers the basics. The Kama Lou Tra - Why the author started to teach sexuality seminars. She also describes how a friend told her exactly what a man likes and she took notes, lots of notes. Beyond the Bedroom - Creating a romantic mood and remembering men are visual creatures. The Art of Kissing - Are you suffering from kissing dissatisfaction? Do you want to know how to get your lover to once again kiss you passionately? Safety Is Essensual - A discussion on sexual health. To Lube or Not to Lube? - This section gives away a secret you will want to know. Give that Man a Hand - This is going to be the section of the book where you say, "Oh, I know how to do that," or "Oh, I want to try that!" Even after years of having sex, there will be a few ideas you will never have thought of. There is power in your hands and Lou explains how to combine it with oral sex in the next chapter. Blowing His...Mind! - Tricks and Tips on how to give great oral sex. The Outer Limits - A chapter I assume many will skip for religious reasons. Coming Together at Last - The truth about male and female pleasure with an emphasis on the six main sexual positions. Pearls and Other Passionate Playthings - Websites and recommendations to add a new dimension to lovemaking. Lou Paget presents this information mostly for women who want to know exactly what they can do to please the man in their life. It will also make you feel sexy and confident in the bedroom or maybe even somewhere much naughtier. You won't find any nude pictures in her book either, just drawings. So this is really suitable for anyone who objects to photographic images. I can't imagine any man not being overly pleased and excited to find this book under your pillow! Every woman should own a copy of this book and also look for: Anne Hooper's Sex Q & A The Magic Of Sex by Miriam Stoppard Kiss Guide to Sex If Only He Knew/For Better Or Best by Gary Smalley (one book for each partner) Light Her Fire/Light His Fire by Ellen Kreidman (one book for each partner) Let this book be your little secret. It will awaken part of the sex goddess in you. If you add a little romance and a good helping of creativity and desire, you can really light your man's fire. A book to devour secretly in bed!
Rating:  Summary: Good tips for real people Review: I liked this book because it wasn't really sleezy or suggest that I should have had (or get) lots of partners. Straight talk about what works, what to buy, fun things to consider trying and even diagrams. Yes, for those of you who have read this kind of thing and really couldn't the idea from the words...you are furnished with black and white line drawings. Cool. I still have been too chicken to tell my husband that I bought this... (we are kind of shy about this stuff...even after 15 wonderful years!) I just let him think that I was inspired to experiment!!! Get it...feel talented, skillful and powerful!
Rating:  Summary: Awesome book Review: After almost 2 years of marriage I felt like I didn't know enought to completely "please" my husband. Seeking new knowledge I bought this book. I read it in less than 6 hours and immediately put my new knowledge to use. It worked!! Lou's easy to read and understand step by step instructions are the best. The Give your Man a Hand Chapter rocks and I reccomend it to any woman who is inexperienced as well the ones who are.
Rating:  Summary: Something For Everyone Review: Whether for the neophyte or the "nympho" this book has something to offer. It has a good amount of basics, a good amount of cool new ideas to try, and a good amount of ideas that I will probably never try. Whatever your level of experience or comfort, you will be well served by reading this book. If you like it all, go for it. If you are just looking for a little something to add spice to an already satisfying relationship, pick and choose what works for you. If you are just getting started, do the same. It is helpfully detailed without being "porno" or creepy. And the advice is totally sound. It offers ideas for maximizing the experience with your partner...sometimes separately, and sometimes together. ;) Don't be shy. Go ahead and buy it.
Rating:  Summary: From the receiving end - Wonderfull! Review: I never had better sex with my partner than after she read this book. She wasnt a bad lover at all, but now she is really great! The best part, she hasnt tried all her new 'tricks' yet, so i'm always looking to see what else she can do. Do yourself a favor and get it for her.
Rating:  Summary: cool chick Review: well i'm going to keep it to the point i thought this book was great i don't really have problems in the bedroom but i wanted to see if there was anything else that i could do to add spice. this book had great instructions and ideas. i'm already making plans to try them out ;-) wouldn't u like to know
Rating:  Summary: Interesting Information Review: I found this book to be quite informative, with answers to questions most women have but don't want to ask. Containing a variety of techniques and examples, it is good for all ages and levels of experience.
Rating:  Summary: A Book every woman should read! Review: How To Be A Great Lover by Lou Paget is another book everyone should read especially women that want to rock her man's world!
Rating:  Summary: Tasteful & Helpful Review: I like Lou's writing style: she is no-nonsense, tasteful, descriptive, non-condescending, and doesn't try to be "cutesy" or fluffy. The diagrams illustrated her points clearly and effectively. I return to chapters of this book often for refreshers. My suggestions for improvement: include more information on erotic fantasies/ role playing, etc... to help us move just one step beyond pure vanilla sex.
Rating:  Summary: Great Buy! Review: I think this book was a great buy. I loved it! It is an interesting book with helpful hints and facts.
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